I Do One Thing

have you noticed how online communities become actively hostile when you question why the leaders aren’t chosen democratically, or why a rigid rule or deadline must be followed even if the outcome does not accomodate everyone as best as it can?

I’m trying to get my local munch to acknowledge that someone who copy pastes an event description shouldn’t have so much trust and power in the community, and that munches should be more collaborative. Predatory Men will literally take all of the emotional labour of munch organisation and never ask for help because they know that it would give up a little bit of power to someone else, and then they get PRAISED for what is essentially a routine pressing of a button, with no cause for concern on what happens afterwards. They act like hosting a new munch is a logistical impossibility. I know that a new munch that is safer would see an increase in attendance of at least 50%. GEN Z ARE NOT GOING TO MUNCHES BECAUSE OLD PEOPLE COLONISED FETLIFE BEFORE THEY WERE EVEN BORN.

This is what is required for most men to even comprehend the concept of accountability.

I have hurt people, I have made bad relationship mistakes. I think we all have to some degree. I would still offer to a potential partner to talk to them before we started a kink dynamic. These men wouldn’t even consider that an option, they just hide, hide hide. Being open about mistakes is just as important as the work you do to make a better decision next time.

It’s not being pedantic, just because it seems like an acute event that has invoked the criticism. I am pointing at systemic rot and being told that this whole process is built on a foundation of steel. It’s fragile, it always will be and I’m not trying to damage what we have left…

They are literally calling me insane, unhinged and disconnected from reality. The predator in question literally tried his same pattern on me!

MY SISTER. THIS IS THE MOST HINGED I HAVE BEEN IN MY LIFE.

All social constructs, rules and welfare limitations are enforced only by weaponised neurotypicals thus causing all social issues.

News just in, yet another writer projects their insecurities onto Gen Z.

and when they put guards in front of the food, and set up bureaucratic surveillance state that has offices of people whose only job is to monitor the exact amount of work people do

i will tell them

“Now I will erase the concept of work. Everything is a game. and I’ll put guards in front of the food whose only purpose in life is to ensure that the food feeds all of the people.”

ill tell the genie that, whenever someone wishes for a person or group of people to be harmed, to make the person forget they had the hateful notion in the first place.

this is considered extremely evil by most of society and i will be branded a tyrant and hanged in public with the express support of 167 countries as well as Israel.

my next wish will be to give the genie a hammer

I’m just tired of pretending like we all shouldn’t be actively fleeing these increasingly transphobic and weaponised states.

Sometimes I think the only thing standing between the US and shooting all lgbt+ people in the middle of the night is that most of the bad ones have this twisted vision of fixing their children. Someday they will realise that you can’t fix queer, and the only option they will have left is to erase the concept completely. We don’t take it nearly seriously enough.

… but it’s not even surprising when you consider that The Third Reich systematically and successfully erased us before they targeted anyone else, and the world continued to use that as their foundation for queer rights instead of what Germany had before its people were so brutally violated and erased.

America knows it can do anything to queers and women, provided they create a zeitgeist that doesn’t shatter its fragile collective masculinity, because, over the course of 85 years, they have systematically cultivated a global society of greed and scarcity that does not care about what happens to another countries people. We’re all part of it. There’s a reason that the shop that sells you all of your food is a more pressing matter than the war.

… and the most fucked up thing is, the only reason they are even allowed to get away with it is because for some reason, committing an atrocity, to distract the world from the previous atrocity, is extremely effective at paving the way to a hundred more atrocities.

At this point, one country could open its borders completely and it would see the biggest “economic boom” in human history, and the country wouldn’t even need to be communist or socialist to do it. Security risk is made up.

What the fuck is the point of bombing, invading or sabotaging Sweden if it decides to grant citizenship to every single person on the planet that applies?

Do people not realise that birthrates are going down because safely immigrating to another country is so fucking hard.

People were moving around so much for our entire fucking histories. Every single megacity in the world has had the movement of people as a catalyst for population growth for all of history.

This era of isolation is completely unique to the post 9/11 world, it is insane. We have been like this for 25 years (I don’t say this to minimise real immigration issues of the past, either, I fully acknowledge that my country had the White Australia Policy which also stagnated immigration up until 1975, but I still think there are more systemic barriers today than at any point in history).

I don’t think humans are meant to live like this, where people are required to stay in their home town, or maybe move to a local city, just to have stability in their life. The decision to move even within one’s own country is already immense, imagine if you needed to have a high skilled job and spend five to ten years in an unstable, half baked residency that could end randomly at any point… Just to live in a place that isn’t in a cycle of cannibalising itself.

Every single person I know in real life is white, and they are all friends, friends of friends, cousins, I feel like being white is like living in a weird supremist small town even though there are hundreds of thousands of people here. The well is just so tainted…

and it shouldn’t be like that… People should be moving around and we just aren’t. It’s all temporary vacations. Why would you keep a baby with someone you’ve fallen in love with, but can’t live with because neither country gives the other a fucking residency.

It’s not just movement, it’s also inclusion. Cultures should be including each other, but we all know at least somebody who is so hateful behind closed doors, that we can’t ever completely trust a new person at face value. We have all had someone in our life who has been given every opportunity to learn better, and will still only ever be happy if a certain group of people are vanished or enslaved. It always seems to be queer people who are completely ousted from entire cultures, traditions and religions because people that hate them go completely unchecked in the world. Not helping a neighbour because they are gay is considered a personal choice, just because it’s not actively a hate crime. 1 in 4 doctors would watch a trans patient die before giving them treatment.

White neurotypicals are literally so fucking unhinged.

They have bigotry towards each other based on the exact coordinates of their birth. They have social class hierarchies based on things like what schools they went to. They will literally judge the worth of someone’s character based on the appearance of their face. They will often wish that their God will send living people to an alternate dimension where they will be punished for eternity based on an arbitrary set of virtues that none of them can agree on.

… and if you live in a colonised country like like I do, every single public service you interact with is miraculously operated by white neurotypical people.

Fuck, every business is basically headed by a council of neurotypicals that systematically filter out anybody that deviates from the norm.

Like, can we start treating these overbearing public “services” like the neurotypical gestapo because thats what it fucking is…

A highly connected and systematically powerful community of neurotypical people decide if I’m even allowed the opportunity to survive.

You either have an NT giving you a job interview and denying you because of eye contact, or you have an NT responsible for deciding if you have tried hard enough to earn your fortnightly pittance. Meanwhile, they trained the public to call you leech just for using the little money they give you to survive.

The worst thing?

they won’t even fuck us

90% of them literally have no desire to be involved with us, even platonically. The only friends I have had as an adult have been neurodivergent.

and