Missing the 9 to 5 Grind
The switch from being a full-time employee to a full-time student was something I was very excited about, and still is, because I'm enjoying learning and working toward furthering my career. That being said, it has been quite an adjustment that I am still getting used to. I miss the structure, I miss the work-life balance, and I miss special small feelings you would get after a long day. Here I'll break down the list of things I look forward to doing again someday.
Buying something on payday after a long week
I'll never forget one Friday night back in the fall of 2021. I had been working at my new job for maybe two months and came home tired from a long day. As I sat at the kitchen counter thinking about what I wanted to eat for dinner and talking to my roommate, I remembered I got paid that day. I immediately went to the Stray Rats website and bought a hat I'd been eyeing for the last couple weeks. It felt so satisfying to treat myself with my own hard earned money. I yearn for the day I can do that for my family and friends too, and buy myself more expensive goods as well.
Getting my evenings back
I realize everyone works at different times, but I tend to work a lot at night if I'm not on a more set 9 to 5 schedule. Additionally, working with groups can cause meetings and work that is reliant on others to be pushed to later times. Working late at night has impacted my sleep schedule in a way I haven't felt since undergrad. Working a 9 to 5, I would usually get high to unwind for a couple of hours and get to bed for the next day, but now I feel like I don't have that luxury since my mind is operating on a different schedule.
Getting my Sundays back
I've barely watched any football this year, very similar to my undergrad years, because I'm always doing work on Sundays to prepare for the week. While some people take the whole weekend off, I like to at least prep a bit. It can help fight the Sunday Scaries, but also is not ideal for relaxing and watching some ball.
Coordination
In my graduate school program, an overwhelming majority of our projects are done in groups. While this is a great way to collaborate, think collectively, and make friends, it can be very taxing when it comes to coordinating and scheduling. In a 9 to 5 job, every should be available for most of a continuous 8 hour workday. In this setting, you have everyone running on different schedules, some traveling, some working, some who are morning people, some who are night people, etc. It offers a lot of flexibility, but in exchange, you have to jump through some hoops to find overlapping free time to talk to one another outside of the classroom.
Now these are just some of the trends I've noticed. There are so many others that I'm sure will come to light over the next 3 semesters as well as the breaks in between. How we adapt and grow in light of change is the most important thing. Watch, once I work again I'll probably be longing for this inconsistent schedule. That's just how it goes.
















