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SLOW DOWN ;

slow unhurried movements make such a difference. when you're doing something, try not to be in a hurry. relax yourself. when you slow down, your nervous system calms down as well. be conscious of how you're standing, if you're fidgeting, we wanna be as relaxed and not tense as possible.

what is it and how to exude it

Main character energy (MCE) is often confused with being narcissistic or selfish. But it’s simply the idea of putting yourself first. It’s a term, commonly referenced by women, used to describe focusing on what YOU want in life and going for it — regardless of how it may affect others. How could anyone assume something as positive and inspiring as this selfish? Well it’s because society is used to women playing the supporting role not the main character — literally & in mainstream media.

Whats a supporting character?

Being a supporting character in your own life looks like you always saying yes to obligations you truly don’t want to attend. It’s you going after careers someone else has chosen for you. It’s you taking on hobbies to please others. It’s you consistently putting your needs and desires on the shelf to accommodate other people. This may seem like a beautiful, selfless trait but it’s actually one of the worst things you can do to yourself. This behavior is lowering your self esteem and self confidence and shows the people around you that they can walk all over you.

The hard truth

In this life, no one will put you first except YOU. No one will make your happiness a priority. No one will go to great lengths to make your dream life a reality, except you. This isn’t because no one else cares about you, but because they have their own lives to focus on. It’s why Main Character Energy, shouldn’t just be a trend but a way of living. You have to treat yourself like the main character in your life because no one else is fully capable of doing that for you, except you. You can be a main character and still care for your loved ones. You can be a main character and still be compassionate. You can be a main character and still support those around you.

How to exude main character energy

Being a main character in your life means you put yourself first. It’s only saying yes to things that energetically serve you. It’s only surrounding yourself around people that have the best intentions for you. Its considering your emotional and mental well being. It’s keeping your goals and priorities at the top of your mind. Its eating foods that nourish you. It’s limiting the toxic drinks & foods you consume. It’s taking care of yourself emotionally, mentally & physically above all else.

Side affects of main character energy

When you’re the main character, your self esteem and self confidence increases drastically. You stop viewing yourself as just another girl, but as THE girl. You put yourself on a pedestal and think so highly of yourself that those around you have no choice but to do the same. When you have a high regard for yourself, you tend to attract people in your life that feel the same way about you. Exude that main character energy, apologetically. ✨

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autumn is RIGHT around the corner and this autumn and forward i LOVE to channel jennifer check from jennifer's body for the autumn. like super fabulous, sexy, flirty but terrifying like YES. ima need that ALL autumn so here's the guide for that vibe…💬🎀

THE MAKEUP ;

the main components of jennifer's makeup were her glossy hot pink pout, her soft but slightly smoky eyes, the light blush, and the effortless base. and ofc those flirty lashes.

In this #DreamGirlJourney post, I’ll be discussing everything I’ve done and do regularly to remain elegant and sure of myself. Self confidence takes time but these things make the journey much more easy, until it just feels natural. Keep reading if you’re interested on the very necessary foundation to reaching your highest self.

Stop caring what others say or think about you.

They’re thinking about you. You’re doing something right. Take that as a compliment keep it pushing. Don’t let anyone see you sweat. When I was in high school, girls would always tell me how so and so had this and that to say about me. And I don’t even know so and so. I’m sure it was to break me down but I never confronted anyone or threw a fit. I just didn’t care. I’d just think I don’t even know these b*tches’ names, but they’re having conferences about me. It actually boosted my ego and made the girls SICK.

Be seen and not heard.

Women who feel the need to always be the center of attention often lack confidence and couth. This usually results in short lived attention and it’s commonly negative. Women who know how to sit back, observe, and mind their business draw interest appear put more together, and kindle a little jealousy even because many want to be this unbothered woman but can’t because... well, they’re bothered. Some women get offended by the header statement which is understandable in the appropriate setting; no one needs to hear your voice in the grocery store or during class lectures. Also try not to curse so much. Those with vulgar language lack an adequate vocabulary. It’s not classy. Don’t be that loud girl in the morning, already eating hot chips with an Arizona tea in high school.

Don’t take the bait.

It’s inevitable that negativity will meet you. Whether it be physical violence, bullying, immaturity, etc., a woman with class chooses not to be lured into this interaction. A woman who knows she’s top tier knows these encounters can drop her stock, hurt her mind and/or pretty face. Just walk away with a quick read if you must respond. If met with violence, defend yourself and invest in devices of protection. Also, depending on circumstances, take him/her to court. We don’t fight, honey. 💅🏾

Get physical.

Baby, you can just be walking down the street. Get up and move. It’s revitalizing and strengthening. Give your fingers a rest and move your limbs. I personally love jumping jacks to get the blood flowing and cardio is my preferred workout. You’ll become more healthy and look better. You’ll get better sleep also. (luv sleep)

Primp and pamper yourself.

Make yourself pretty. Carry a mirror to remind yourself who you are: your own dream girl. Apply your lipgloss and pout. Fluff your hair in the mirror. There’s nothing wrong with a little vanity. Don’t feel guilty or ridiculous about this. You have a responsibility to make your vessel feel good about herself. You’ve gotta look good to feel good in my humble opinion. Go get your lashes and nails done. Keep up with yourself at home. Walk with one foot in front of the other, head up, shoulders back, hips swaying. Just a strut makes a woman feel amazing.

Set goals and stick to them.

This is the biggest confidence booster I’ve implemented in my life. Figure out what you want to accomplish in life. Outline the necessary steps. Write them and set deadlines. @angeldiscovery has a great post on scripting. Then do the work. Don’t sit on visions or just say “I manifest a luxury home,” girl, work for that. People confuse the phrase “don’t worry about the how” when it comes to manifestation, with not aligning your actions with your wishes. If you want a luxury home, NO, don’t stress about getting from A to Z, but YES, make plans to get from A to B, B to C, and so on and so forth. Make some boss girl moves.

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TEENY TINY TOPS ;

baby tees and smaller tops give such a pretty shape. i like baby tees that hit right above the belly button to snatch my waist, frame my arms and make my chest pop nicely. go for tops with slogans full of attitude. tops with rhinestones, tops that draw attention to ur shape are always a yes.