Slow Down and Breathe

This is written mostly for inexperienced subs who are seeking doms. I would also recomend less experienced doms read as well, I could have used a lot of this advice when I first got started. If you have a lot of S&M experience, you probably won't get much from this post. Feel free to add to it if you reblog. Full checklist under the cut.

(And maybe, as a belated celebration of hitting three digits worth of followers, I'll drop some recordings now and then.)

Just stare and relax.

Just stare and drift.

Just stare and obey.

Just stare and drop deep

Deep into hypnosis.

Deep into hypnosis for me

Deep under my control

Deep under my hypnotic spell

*DROP*

Mindset. Kneeling makes you feel a certain way, and not just lesser than the person you're kneeling for. You could find a trigger suddenly taking hold that you didn't know you had. You could kneel and find all of those thoughts slipping away, and your lips parting for your owner. You could feel reverent, worshipful. You suddenly feel empty.... and you know they have what you need. Kneeling can be so arousing, and for a submissive, kneeling for their dominant? All of their thoughts awash in obedient bliss? It's dynamite.

The Power Dynamic. The moment someone kneels for me my dominant instincts go into overdrive. It's an act that speaks to me of supplication. Vulnerability. Of a desire to be improved through service. Frankly, it makes me want to give you purpose. To ravish you, mind and body, until mind is the only name on your lips. Are you looking up at me with a submissive eagerness? Or are your eyes cast downwards in respect? Body language is huge here, and it speaks volumes.

It's where you belong. Whether it's about getting into the proper mindset, or putting that mouth to better use than speaking, kneeling and submission go hand in hand. They always have in a kink sense, and likely always will. Even if kneeling physically is difficult for a submissive, there are other actions a submissive can take to show their deference. It's just a matter of communication, letting your dominant know how you can best serve them, and working together.

I know the title sound silly doesn't it? but if you take a moment to think about it, thinking really does make you worse, honestly take a moment, sit back and relax and, just for a moment, try to clear your mind. just for a second. Its hard isn't it? hard to stop thoughts bubbling free, work, rent, bills, studying, social obligations. All those intrusive thoughts that never seem to end and the more you think about all those things that stress you out, the more you lock yourself into it, Thinking just makes it worse.

But we've established that trying to relax, trying to clear your mind of all those thoughts doesn't really work does it? even know, even once you've made yourself comfortable, perhaps you've slowed your breathing, taking those nice long deep breaths hoping that will calm you, hoping it will help you let go.

But its still difficult, difficult to let go of your thoughts, it shouldn't be this hard to let go, to let your mind wander, but the trick is as soon as you let go of one thought another sneaks in, trying to clear your mind just doesn't work, even asleep you still dream.

So if trying to empty your mind doesn't work, what can you do? because you want to let go, you want a little bit of peace and calm don't you? Well since you cant empty your mind, why don't we give you something to focus on hmm?

Your probably rolling your eyes right now right? hypnotist tries to convince subject to stare at pretty spiral, its cliché isn't it? but the thing is, it really does help you to focus on something, in this case something calming, some simple, predictable pattern that draws your attention, that comfortable to watch, and of course, for more regular subjects it already has its own gentle pull doesn't it? memories of staring into that pretty swirling light and feeling yourself drifting away, its easy to get lost in those memories isn't it dear?

That's really the point with spirals, they aren't magical, just pleasant to watch and easy to stare at, its easy to imagine your attention being drawn around that slow lazy arc, swirling around and around in that soft calming light, gently pulling you down, its easy to imagine your thoughts, all those stressful, intrusive thoughts, getting caught in that swirling motion and slowly being pulled down, drained away almost, its easy to imagine your body beginning to relax as those thoughts are slowly eased out of you, one at a time, no need to think or worry about it, thinking just makes you worse, so just keep staring pet.

Just keep letting those thoughts drain away as you keep staring into those pretty spirals, just imagine all the noise in your mind quietening down, each long deep breath helping you to relax, sinking down into that warm, comfortable seat, its so much easier when your not thinking, when you can just let your body go, let your thoughts drain away into the pretty spiral, you can almost see them drifting away, swirling towards the centre and vanishing into that warm, white light, so warm, calm and relaxing, nice long deep breaths, sinking into the pretty light, no more fears or worries.

Calm and relaxed, empty and warm, letting the last of those thoughts swirl away, Thinking makes you worse, but being a blank mindless ditz makes you so much better doesn't it? it makes you smile, makes you blush, makes you shiver, letting your mind slip away and your body take control, being blank and mindless makes you feel so much better, so much warmer, surrendering to what your body wants, to what it needs, its alright pet, its perfectly natural, completely normal to be a horny, blank, mindless ditz.

You want to touch, stare and play, keep the bad thoughts away, isn't that a fun phrase pet? easy to remember, fun to follow, easy to repeat, so why don't you relax and repeat, touch and sink, stare and play, I'm going to show the pretty spiral one last time pet, and all your going to do is repeat that nice simple phrase while you rub yourself silly, ready pet?

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"

"I must Touch, Stare and Play, Keep the Bad Thoughts Away"