Commissions Sale!

lot of terfs have been reblogging this so I may as well publicly state that the woman on the right is modeled with permission after my transfemme friend. if you relate to it as strongly as many of you claim in the tags I urge you to reflect upon that with empathy and compassion about the depth of experiences you truly do share with trans women.

The cardiophile and resus tags on here:

2:47pm: thinking about what i can do to make the world a better place 😊

Small, "useless" things that notice the resus process, and which give me a hard-on:

my main view on substances is kinda... the same way that everyone has the right to personalize their character (modify their physical appearance) everyone also has the right to personalize their experience. everything we consume impacts the way we interact with the world, from caffeine to media to "hard" drugs and alcohol. it's crazy to act like eating one plant is morally okay and eating a different plant makes you a criminal. I heard a sober person say recently that they don't want to consume anything with the goal of "changing the way they feel" and I'm like what about music?? what about vegetables?? what about a beautiful sunset with friends (obviously sobriety is a personal choice and I have huge admiration for folks who have fought to achieve and maintain it but it's not the moral high ground some people treat it as)

Me hitting blogs with the block button every time I see them posting AI slop like

the older i get the more i start hating that "traumadumping" is seen as a toxic behaviour when its actually a blatant sign that that person is struggling.