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It's been a while

Dang. I've had my herpaversary, celebrated a birthday, moved, got a degree, and so much more. I wish I could go back and tell myself that everything will be ok. #hsv #herplife #glitter #itgetsbetter

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I talk the talk but sometimes i can’t shake the feeling. Society tells me im worthless because i have herpes. Church society tells me i have it because i was promiscuous. When i see old friends and they ask me how I’ve been, i give general statements because i know i can’t tell them. I know i am all alone besides my boyfriend because he is the only one who still makes me feel worth anything. Yet i know i am lucky because i even have that. Every thing changed in a mater of months all because of the perception of herpes. Never mind that i can live a normal life. 😢 i take many steps forward and my anxiety knocks me all the way back. #hsv #genitalherpes #herpes #anxiety #survivor

asshmae

Does anyone else get a little sad after disclosing? Even if it went well?

I can’t help but think that they’re being nice out of pity but are secretly judging me.

I am so fucking tired of letting this control me. So tired of feeling so disgusting all of the time. Fuck.

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I have to make myself not cry because i dont want anyone's pitty when i tell them how or when they see how young i am

This week will make four months since my initial outbreak. I have not had one since but live in fear everday of having another one. 😦 #herpes #hsv #glitter

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I’ve been having a hard time dealing with gifting my boyfriend. Cause every time we touch the subject he always tells me he’s worried about it and then I get anxious again. And today I was thinking about what our sex life will be like from now on. I’m worried it will go downhill from here and I’m just worried about everything and how he will deal with this whole thing. And even if he doesn’t say it, I sometimes feel like he silently blames me for gifting him. This whole thing is just making me get all anxious again and I’m scared about pretty much everything. FML

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I have the same problem and i just ha e to tell myself that if he know the risk and he consents its not ur fault. it worries my boyfriend and sometimes he will accidentally make me feel self conscious or down but he usually picks up on it and lets me know im worth the risk. @living-with-glitter dont settle for less!

brosandprose

It’s my birthday! To celebrate, I made a ton of GIFs of myself.

This was the first part of my talk that I wrote: I knew how I wanted to end, and I just needed to figure out how to get there. My goal was to say what I needed to hear when I was diagnosed three years ago. I wanted to tell little Ella that she was human, that she was strong, that she was worthy. Much of my talk is about busting myths and stereotypes about herpes, but this last minute is for us. It’s what everyone with an STI deserves to hear as often as possible until we know it by heart. We matter, we are valuable, we are important.

You can watch my TEDx talk about STI stigma here.

When i got my first outbreak i was terrified the guy who liked me wouldnt anymore. I had hope that it was a follicular infection because the doctor said it did not look like herpes. I was devastated when i got positive results. I tried to talk to the guy about it but he was disgusted and said only sluts get stds. All i could think about was acceptance when i should've been worried about myself. had just broken up with my ex but he was very understanding. He helped me a lot and we got back together. I had broken up with him out of vanity and selfishness. When i was raped he was there for me even when i was pushing him away. I realised i just wanted him to realize i was worth more then he was treating me at the timd we were together. Its hard to take responsibility for what happened to me but i try because i shouldve just told my ex how i felt. I loved him and never stopped. He sent me these words when i told him. #hsv #hsvlove #herpes #healing #thosewhominddontmatter

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HEY, HERPBLR!

Have we compiled a list of members lately? I think we should! If you’re part of the HSV+ community, give a shout!

glittercoach

Here!

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Right here.!

theorangetrees

Hello!

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one more time

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hi there!

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Oh heyyyy :-p I’m here and I sparkle!! ;)

herpgirl

completely new here, heeyy!

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I’m new here too!

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New & here!

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also new and here!

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Very new and here!

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Hiii! 👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼✨✨✨

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Hello I’m here! :) :)

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I’m here!!

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🙌🙌🙌🙌 ayeee

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Here

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Please don't let herpes ruin your life

Just take some valtrex and keep going

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It gets hard sometimes

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When you and your best friend realize you both have herpes...

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Me n my bestie helped me get through my first outbreak

Beyond symptomatic

It has been almost three months since my initial outbreak. As if how i got it wasn't hard enough to overcome, i am always symptomatic. I take my meds everyday and eat and exercise. HELP! #hsv #theglitter #help #herpes #queen

unfriendlyhsvhottie

Herpes is considered shitty enough to be scary and undesirable, but too harmless to be a legit issue. And I think this might also play into our own silence at times: if herpes isn’t a big deal, then why am I still talking about it?

If herpes isn’t a big deal, why is it so stigmatized? (via unfriendlyhsvhottie)

I used to be terrified until my best friend was gifted the glitter. When I was gifted I knew it would change my life but be nbd. I am still capable of love and there is someone for everyone. NEVER SETTLE NEVER QUIT !

selfcareglitter

Just a reminder, glitter babes- Just because you’ve got the sparkle doesn’t mean you have to settle. You don’t owe your body to anyone just because they accept your status. You’re still allowed to say no, you’re still allowed to be picky. <3

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