Live life accordingly

Everyone has toxic traits. Even you meaning well could be toxic too (enabler). To be mature about exploring/figuring out your traits, you gotta understand your going to hurt your own feelings. Y’all know the saying “The truth hurts”. Well, you have to allow yourself to hurt your own feelings, accept the truth for what it is. Once you know and accept your faults/shortcomings you will be able to stop yourself from doing that trait. But, everything takes work and time. So you may still do it, but you’ll be able to catch yourself in the middle of doing or when you realize you did it again, so you don’t do it in the future. We are all human, we all make mistakes. It’s about whether or not you change from it or allow it to define you. An example would be say two different kids were the target of anger from adults growing up. The kids may in turn grow up to take their anger out on others. But, one has come to the realization of what they do to others and has decided to find healthy ways to handle their emotions. This person understands that their upbringing doesn’t define them. You can’t control how you were brought up. But, you can control who you are as an adult.....Now the other kid refuses to do any self realization in adulthood. They blame everyone else for their issues, take their anger out on people close to them etc. This person is continuing on a “Generational Curse”. This person is continuing on the bad habits they experienced in childhood into adulthood and doesn’t understand why people always leave etc. or they know that people leave cause of them but they can’t fully acknowledge the fact that they are the issue. It’s understandable cause that’s how they felt as a child when they did nothing wrong to be the source of anger from the adults. Their inner child is still hurt. Even with this said, your an adult now. You are finally in charge of how you handle life. You can have supportive people around you, which will mean nothing if you don’t want to fix yourself first. They can’t change you, only you can. They will eventually leave you when they get tired of their energy getting drained. (The rest is continued below in the screenshot that is circled ❤️) (I was just posting on IG , but might as well add on here too 💓)

Everyone has toxic traits. Even you meaning well could be toxic too (enabler). To be mature about exploring/figuring out your traits, you gotta understand your going to hurt your own feelings. Y’all know the saying “The truth hurts”. Well, you have to allow yourself to hurt your own feelings, accept the truth for what it is. Once you know and accept your faults/shortcomings you will be able to stop yourself from doing that trait. But, everything takes work and time. So you may still do it, but you’ll be able to catch yourself in the middle of doing or when you realize you did it again, so you don’t do it in the future. We are all human, we all make mistakes. It’s about whether or not you change from it or allow it to define you. An example would be say two different kids were the target of anger from adults growing up. The kids may in turn grow up to take their anger out on others. But, one has come to the realization of what they do to others and has decided to find healthy ways to handle their emotions. This person understands that their upbringing doesn’t define them. You can’t control how you were brought up. But, you can control who you are as an adult.....Now the other kid refuses to do any self realization in adulthood. They blame everyone else for their issues, take their anger out on people close to them etc. This person is continuing on a “Generational Curse”. This person is continuing on the bad habits they experienced in childhood into adulthood and doesn’t understand why people always leave etc. or they know that people leave cause of them but they can’t fully acknowledge the fact that they are the issue. It’s understandable cause that’s how they felt as a child when they did nothing wrong to be the source of anger from the adults. Their inner child is still hurt. Even with this said, your an adult now. You are finally in charge of how you handle life. You can have supportive people around you, which will mean nothing if you don’t want to fix yourself first. They can’t change you, only you can. They will eventually leave you when they get tired of their energy getting drained. (The rest is continued below in the screenshot that is circled ❤️) (I was just posting on IG , but might as well add on here too 💓)