wanted to share a short why the little things matter in a relationship....
this past tuesday I was having a really off day. I was feeling overwhelmed, overworked with my thoughts scrambling. when i’m experiencing these types of feelings, i try my best to not invalidate or suppress them. so I do things while i’m trying to figure out where it spiraled out from. i begin cooking dinner and had some baked chicken in the oven at the normal temperature when my mood had just begun to shift a bit as dinner was almost done and then suddenly I hear a shatter of glass, but I hadn’t dropped anything around me. when i went to open the oven it was glass shattered everywhere. when i tell y’all i wanted to scream, shout, cry and just throw everything away. i had reached my breaking point. i started pacing and my boyfriend came told me not to worry about it, but i worried because Ima fixer. I liked things fixed.
I decided to go back the following day when i seen the oven was cleaned out 🥺 my boyfriend had cleaned the heck out the oven and it made me so happy and relieved. it’s a big thing to me because it just shows partnership ya know. it shows that you don’t have to do it alone. let someone take care of you. I’m learning ..
