What I got from the last four days of browsing Siliconera is that they have proven that gaming journalism remains a disgusting, misogynistic place to be.
I bowed out of the argument I had raised [in this post], because ultimately, I knew it was a losing battle. Some people have their ears plugged to reason, and I know when I canât win an argument. Iâm not looking to start fights so much as raise awareness.
I was incredibly bothered by the tone of the articles (And Loreâs post [here] outlines specifically why), and when another article cropped up that had similar undertones, I decided to speak up. Frankly, the response I got? Fucking shameful.
All it would have taken was an apology â acknowledgement that their tone was less than savory and left otome games, as well as those who take interest in them, up for incredible ridicule. Otome gamers already have a lot of odds to face; the genre is niche and faces a lot of shit because of its roots and focuses.
Otome gamers have their own in-jokes, things we tease about regarding the genre (like our hearts being torn out, life ruiners, I HATE YOU SO MUCH Â being code for âyou are my bias and i love you forever even if you are an awful human/cat/dudeboyâ), but the last thing we need is someone from the outside poking fun at what we enjoy in the wrong way.
That includes things like ridiculing the male characterâs choice of dress, or even who is romancable in a game. The idea of different takes and adaptations of classic media isnât a new one. To mock this in such a condescending way is just rude. I point this out, and one of the responses I get is this:
Yeah, thank you for telling me this. Am I supposed to be appreciative of your mediocre as fuck coverage when you do it with a tone of condescension? Letâs take a look back at the otome games Siliconera has covered in the last 6 months:
English Detective Mysteria
UtaPri All-Star (really more for the bundle)
Wow! Look at all the amazing coverage youâve blessed us with! A handful of games that barely even kind of tap into the amazing variety of games released for otome gamers. And at that, news about English Detective and Princess Arthur are horrendously late, as pretty much everything they covered in there was less than what was in Bâs-Log and Girlâs Styleâs November issues. That were on the shelves in October.
But theyâre doing us otome gamers, and the gaming world at large, a great service by gracing us with their coverage. I have no opposition to the genre getting coverage, but doing so more evenly and with a biased, mocking overtone is the key here.
Hahahaha, really? Being a condescending jerk means that weâre victimizing ourselves! Despite the fact that gamers who happen to be female, and happen to like games aimed at their demographic are not-no-subtly mocked. This is a culture that loves, loves  loves to treat girls like shit, like lesser beings for liking games.
I didnât see any of the Siliconera mods going after the user who said that girls obviously couldnât fully appreciate Persona 4 because of the content. Not when he spouted a shitton of sexist bullshit in that post, as well as in the English Detective post.
But weâre just victimizing ourselves. OH THE POOR WIMMINZ ARE OFFENDED!!!!
And apparently wanting an apology for the behavior is undeserved.
Really? Really, itâs not your responsibility? Because as a responsible journalist, your job shouldnât be alienating the demographic your news is covering. Itâs insulting and itâs degrading, and it was entirely deserved to simply say âYouâre right, the tone of our posts could have been viewed as offensive, and we should make an effort to handle things a  little better in the future.â
Not fucking tell people theyâre wrong because theyâre bothered by your shitty attitude.
So congrats, members of the Siliconera staff, for not acknowledging your issues and making yourselves look like a bunch of sexist, insensitive assholes in the process.
Iâm glad we have Otome Jikan right now. Otome gamers donât need Siliconeraâs coverage, clearly written by people who do not give a single shit about the genre and donât respect the fans of it. Surprise, those fans are actually capable people able of doing the very same thing without simultaneously presenting it like some funny joke.