how do I hero

I've been seeing stuff about the movie to the tune of "Katara's investment paid off," and first of all, ee. But second, this is another tenant of nice guyism, the idea that a girl being in a relationship with a boy she isn't attracted to is an "investment in her future." There is so much push in society for girls to choose the Nice Guy because he loves her and even if she doesn't feel the same, she will eventually grow to love him. I've been with guys who I tried to convince myself I would grow to love because of this, and it never works. It's also not a standard ever placed on men. Aang's attraction to Katara is not seen as an "investment" because she is immediately presented as the ideal.

Bringing him back because I saw the leak floating around and now I’m rly sad what did they do to my boy