Iâve only heard the word kin when referring to what anime character you relate to. For example, I kin Emma because she has self confidence issues like me. Or, Iâm an emma kinnie because we are so similar!
Apologies for the late response - my work schedule has been hell on me these past few days.
As for your ask - no, that is not the correct definition of âkinâ. To be kin - otherkin, or fictionkin, or whatever else you might call it - you must identify as that character, in some nonphysical form or another. It is not relating to that character, or being similar to that character. If that were the case, and being âkin was just something we did because we found a character relatable... then Iâd have a lot more kintypes on my already-too-long list!
Fictional characters are meant to be relatable in some way. Even villains can be relatable, provided theyâre being written well. If you relate to a character, that is a writer doing their job! We are meant to sympathize and feel for fictional characters, because our current human species has spent its entire history telling stories. Itâs ingrained in our blood to seek out connections with others, be they animal, or human, or fictional, or whatever. Itâs completely natural to relate to a fictional character.Â
So seeing a character with self confidence issues and saying âOh, me too! I kin them!â is both fundamentally and grammatically incorrect. Itâs more than just relating to them. Itâs always been that way, and it always will be.Â
To be fair, relating to a character absolutely can be a part of being kin with them, but thatâs not the true nature of the concept at all. For example, I have unapologetically evil villain kintypes, but itâs not because I relate to them. My god. I can hardly see the person I am now reflected in those characters. But, on some level inside myself, I still recognize them as me.
To identify as kin is to identify as that character or animal or what have you. And perhaps more than that, it is an identity that you do not choose. Yes, fictional characters are relatable. Theyâre meant to be. That doesnât mean you can pick your favorite, or the one you relate to the most, and be kin with them. Thatâs just not how it works.
I know itâs been somewhat popular (especially on Twitter, it seems...) in lots of fandom spaces lately, and bastardization of the word âkinâ has been running rampant, but please know thatâs not what itâs supposed to mean. We have had a documented history since at least the early 70â˛s, weâre not just some fad terminology teens use to get clout or whatever in their favorite fandoms.Â
(Not to mention - itâs not just anime characters. Itâs all fictional characters, even fictional species.)
Apologies if I sound harsh, Iâve been thinking about this ask since I got it and Iâm still not sure Iâve explained it well enough. If you need clarification on anything, go ahead and ask - it might be another day or two between responses, but... Iâm an âessential workerâ, so, you know. Patience is a virtue.