Letters from the (Online Dating) Wasteland

“I love a woman with meat on her bones” is also a shitty version of this.

sadly this used to work on me.

My face whenever men say this to me 😒😒

‘Bodies’ is a topic I hate, hate, hate hearing about and talking about. It’s especially cringeworthy when someone uses your body to chat you up. It makes women feel like a piece of meat, whether you’re commenting on her curves, her butt, her boobs, legs, thinness, whatever. Personally, as a woman, when I meet a guy, the last thing I consider is his body, and even once I do notice something I like about a guy’s body, I do not comment on it! When guys make comments about my body, no matter how nice or flirtatious they believe they are being, it makes me think of them as a rabid dog, hungry to sink their teeth into my skin, and that is not something I want to feel. If feels like they are concentrating on how I look over who I am, and it’s cheapening. Guys, stop it. Just stop it! Stop being gross!

I hate it so much. You don’t get a reward for liking my body. I also hate when they put thin girls down to make me feel good. Bitch, I may be a size 20, but my sister is a size 2 and is Hella fine!

@hellisonlinedating

LMAO...a woman after my own heart, clearly. <3