anonymous system

theres this girl i know who has ocpd and i want to help her, even by a little with it.

her current issue is list making and if she doesn't fully complete something after starting something, she's "wrong" or "bad" and she breaks down over it.

the lists and work isn't a necessity. it's more-so journaling or hobby-based (im not going to go into detail to protect her privacy).

due to her ocpd, she can no longer enjoy those activities because of the "rules" her brain places, and she gets burnt out. but she feels even worse when she is burnt out and cant do anything to complete it.

he was very abusive to me in source and the fandom completely romanticizes it. so whenever i meet a version of him, theres always an underlying expectation that ill bend to their will, too.

the only hims i can even tolerate being around are the ones consumed by guilt. but i dont want them to feel guilty because i know theyre not Literally source material. but if they dont feel guilty then their entitlement makes my skin crawl