↪ 𝑔𝑒𝑛𝑒𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 _ 𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐞 . . . guidelines.
i block liberally. i’m a highly sensitive person and i prioritize my peace on this blog above all else. if something feels off to me, i won’t debate it. i’ll simply curate my space accordingly.
activity here will be inconsistent and sporadic. i will never hound you for a reply. i expect the same in return.
⋆ i’ve been told i come across as aggressive. there’s no ill intent behind it; that’s just how i communicate sometimes. please don’t read malice where there isn’t any.
⋆ i’m also socially awkward and pretty reclusive. i don’t enjoy sharing personal details about my life, and i struggle with forming friendships. this is nothing personal, just how i operate.
i’ll be the first to admit it: a lot of my male ocs are walking red flags straight out of a dookie ass booktok recommendation. i enjoy writing them that way. i’m much more liberal with my male characters and very protective of my female ocs.
most of my ships are heterosexual. yes, i know. i’m deeply interested in exploring traditional nuclear family dynamics—especially where they fracture. coming from an immigrant background where these roles were enforced, i gravitate toward stories about failing marriages, emotional infidelity, and the damage caused by patriarchal expectations.
⋆ these themes reflect lived experiences: a misogynistic father, an ambitious mother who sacrificed independence, and the quiet fallout of those choices. none of this is romanticized. i’m interested in realism. messy people, complicated relationships, and uncomfortable truths.
i do write smut. my style is blunt, explicit, and sometimes crude. i don’t use flowery prose or euphemisms. if that’s not your thing, this blog may not be for you. consent is non-negotiable. to me, the sexiest word in the english language is yes. everything i write is fully consensual. sex is good, fun, and beautiful when everyone involved wants to be there.
i am selective about who i write smut with. please don’t take that personally.
⋆ themes and kinks you may see: impact play, light bondage ( hand restraints, cuffs, etc. ), age gaps
⋆ you will not see: ddlg / age play / age regression, dubious consent, non-consensual content
( * ) a note on age gaps: i only write romance or smut involving characters who are 25+. no exceptions.
⌕ . 𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐞𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐝𝑐𝑜𝑙𝑙𝑎𝑏𝑜𝑟𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛
many of my ocs exist within their own contained universes. this helps me write them more fully and consistently. i often create npcs and extended lore to make these worlds feel lived-in. some of my verses are collabs with my friends.
⌕ . 𝐟𝐚𝐜𝐞𝐜𝐥𝐚𝐢𝐦𝐬𝐚𝐧𝐝𝑟𝑒𝑠𝑜𝑢𝑟𝑐𝑒𝑠
i’m notoriously indecisive with faceclaims, so i’ve gone completely fc-less. you won’t see me using many graphics or resources, and that’s intentional.