Dem 1D Boyz.....

Self care isn’t always pretty , it’s not always candles and a bathtub full of roses , sometimes it’s forcing yourself to get out of bed and dragging yourself , sometimes it’s the pep talk you give to yourself or the quick cry in the corner . sometimes it is convincing yourself to do all these things you should be doing but you have no will whatsoever , sometimes it’s cutting some ties no matter how precious they were , sometimes it’s the bitter medicine you need to give yourself . Self care isn’t always pretty but it’s so worth it .

Try to love yourself as much as you want someone else to.

Whether a person was right for you or wrong for you, it will always hurt when you part ways. It will be sad, and it will be painful and it will be terrifying. However the missing, the hurting, and the longing are just a part of the healing. Having those feelings does not mean that you made a mistake in letting them go. It does not mean that you need them to be happy. It does not mean that you need them, period. Whether a person was right for you or wrong for you, it will always hurt when you part ways. Remember- you parted ways for a reason. Remember- you are healing, you are healing, you are healing. Don’t look back.