Hi there! My name is Hannah Earnshaw (pronouns: they/them/their). Mars settlement advocate and founding member of the Mars Ethical Settlement Alliance. Previously one of 100 candidates in the Mars One project to establish a permanent human settlement on the planet Mars. Please feel free to drop by and ask questions! (To ask a question, click that little question mark up there!) Otherwise, if you want to get in touch, drop me a line at [email protected].Ā
It's been quite a year, huh? I was originally going to do a year-in-review type post, but I was travelling over the winter break and honestly it was good for me to take a break from the computer screen for a bit, so I just have a couple of general updates.
The main update, and one that may not come as a surprise if you've been following it closely, is that Mars One is officially finished, following failure to get investment for any further stages beyond the latest candidate selection round. This has not been too surprising to me eitherāthere's been a long time without any forward motion, and getting enough money was always going to be one of the hardest parts of this project. Though I am disappointed that Mars One wasn't able to get further than it did before having to give upāI was at least hoping for more concept studies to come out of it, and the in-person selection round.Ā
Still, I think that a lot of good came out of itāthe idea of humans on Mars is in the public consciousness in a way that it wasn't ten years ago, and Mars One played a big part in putting it there. Whoever comes next will have a wealth of lessons learned and, hopefully, an easier time of it. For my own part, I've had so many opportunities to talk to the public and in schools about human space exploration and Mars settlement, and Iām hopeful that people can continue to be inspired by this goal. And on a personal level, Iāve made friends around the world with some incredible people who share the outlook on life that personally going to Mars would be a great idea, and they remain some of the coolest and smartest people I know.
The state of Mars settlement going forward is currently uncertain. SpaceX, while developing the rockets that could eventually get people to Mars, has repeatedly stated that theyāre only interested in supplying the transportation to Mars, not any other aspect of a Mars mission. However, there don't seem to be any serious organizations at the moment ready and willing to actually go (or anyone capable and willing to fund the ones that might be, in the case of Mars One). With that said, thereās still plenty of on-going research in all sorts of fields addressing the various problems that will need to be solved to allow people to live on Mars. How it will all come together in a future mission to take human life to Mars remains to be seen.
In the meantime, Iām helping out with the problem-solving side of things as a member of the Mars Ethical Settlement Alliance, working on developing a Martian constitution and a series of papers called the Martian Papers. You can watch the presentation I gave at the Mars Society Convention in October on what will become the first of those papers very soon. Iāll be continuing to use this blog to report on my progress with that sort of thing, plus any other Mars-related stuff I get involved in. I also continue to be very interested in topics such as religion in space.Ā
And, of course, if anyone else is looking for volunteers to go live on Mars, come hit me up!
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
ā Live Streamingā Interactive Chatā Private Showsā HD Qualityā Free Actions
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
Defining Mars for the Purposes of a Martian Constitution
Hi all! Youāll get a longer update from me soon, but for now, have the video for the talk I gave at this yearās Mars Society Convention, as part of the Mars Ethical Settlement Alliance, in which I argue for the definition of a Martian Zone of Sovereignty which includes not only the planet, but an associated region of space, as part of a political definition of Mars. The paper form of this talk will be available a bit later.Ā
We are making the institutions that will govern a free and independent Mars. Join us.
We can talk big about sending humans to Mars all we like, but how will those humans be governed and protected? I'm delighted to announce a new project I am a part of: the Mars Ethical Settlement Alliance, a group setting out to draft a constitution for an independent Mars.Ā
So far we have released a preamble stating its intent:
"We, the Martians, declare Mars to be a free and independent state. This state and this planet will benefit the people of Mars, for the purpose of making humanity a multiplanetary species.
We declare Mars to be a sovereign entity, separate from the rest of human structures, yet part of the larger tapestry of the human experience.We seek peace and trade with all who wish it, but also choose to establish and defend our own independence.
Mars shall seek to uphold Liberty, the Preservation and continuity of Life, Stewardship of the planet, and the provision of Justice for its people.
We seek to fill Mars with life, and work towards making the planet accessible and habitable for the full spectrum of humanity.
Therefore, we the Martians, establish a sovereign Martian republic, and declare this to be the Constitution of the Republic and its supreme law."
Thoughts? Feedback? Want to join us? Register your interest at themartianpapers.org
Iām resurrecting this blog as somewhere to put my thoughts about sending humans to Mars... since although all has been quiet on the Mars One front for a while now, I still have thoughts, and need somewhere to put them!
The language we use to talk about sending humans to Mars is importantāthe words we choose have a lot to say about our approach and the goals and assumptions we bring with us. Many people are moving away from speaking about ācolonizationā, and for good reason. Itās a word that carries the baggage of countless atrocities, of people laying claim to land that was not their own, treating its inhabitantsāand fellow human beingsāas disposable. But even if there are no living things on Mars to steal from, it still carries connotations of ownership, entitlement, and exploitation. āSettlement/settlersā is often the preferred alternative, but I know that this term has its own problematic associations (in South Africa, for example), and in practice itās often just a way for people to talk about colonization with a more palatable word.Ā
I donāt think we should settle for āsettlingā. I think we can make bolder statements about our goals for sending humans to Mars with the language we choose to use.
An alternative that I quite like is āMars migration/migrantā. I like it because it literally describes what I want to do when it comes to Marsāmove from one place to another to live and work thereāwithout the same connotations of control and ownership. Not that a mission to send humans to live on Mars wouldnāt have to establish some form of political control and ownership, at least of the space it lands on and the resources it gathers for its own use, but the scope doesnāt have to extend beyond establishing a successful and sustainable community on the Red Planet, as opposed to the kind of planetary domination and manipulation implied by those folks who get a bit too excited about drastic terraforming measures.Ā
Another word I came across recently while reading this old Slate article is ācultivationā. I really like this one because it carries connotations of the care-taking and safe-guarding of life, a commitment to making Mars flourish rather than exploiting it for all it is worthāa commitment that could apply equally to extant life on Mars and life that has arrived from Earth. What I feel very strongly about is looking after the planet from the moment humans first set foot there, taking on the role of stewards of the place we live just as the environmentalism movement asks us to do on Earth today.
Iāve come across the word ācultivationā a lot in a different context lately as well, having recently started watching a bunch of Chinese dramas. Iām not suggesting that I mean the cultivation of Mars in the same sense as Taoist cultivation, but I do think there is something to be said for cultivation of ourselves as human beings, in the sense of developing the capacity to live well on Marsānot just by developing our technological capabilities, but by cultivating suitable ways of life, social structures, and cultural norms that can meet the challenge of life in such an environment. And perhaps there is something spiritual in thatāa bettering of ourselves in the process of becoming Martian.
I spent last week in Utah at the Mars Desert Research Station as volunteer staff for the University Rover Competition, run by the Mars Society. 34 student teams from universities around the world brought rovers they had designed and built to carry out various tasks in the Mars-like environment around the station.Ā
I spent most of my time facilitating the Extreme Retrieval and Delivery Mission, in which rovers controlled by students at a command station inside the habitat had to pick up tools, rocks and water bottles, and deliver them to destinations in the rugged terrain. It was a tough mission, and many rovers came out of it somewhat more battered than they went in, but there were some incredibly impressive performances. The winners this year were a Polish team called IMPULS (Kielce University of Technology), whose rover I got the time to follow out on the course with the judge.
A number of us stayed in the MDRS habitat overnight during the competition, so while I wasn't a part of a simulation mission, it was still extremely cool to live on base and I was really stoked to have the opportunity to visit. Fellow Mars One candidate Kay Radzik was also a competition judge and staying in the hab as well, so it was a chance for us to spend some quality time together over the course of the week. She is extremely smart, funny and kind, and a real inspiration!
Staffing the URC was a fantastic experience and I am beyond impressed with the quality of the engineering and teamwork demonstrated by the students. I hope to be back next year!
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
ā Live Streamingā Interactive Chatā Private Showsā HD Qualityā Free Actions
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
You may remember that a couple of years ago, Mars One went public via reverse takeover of an old company called InFin. This basically meant that Mars One had two parts: the Mars One Foundation, the original non-profit organisation thatās running the mission, and Mars One Ventures, the for-profit arm that was created in order to make money that would then fund the Mars One Foundation via a subscription fee.
Itās recently hit the news that Mars One Ventures has gone bankrupt, which some are interpreting to mean that the mission itself is over. As Mars One said in a brief statement yesterday, this is not the case. They are working with a potential investor to sort out that situation and take the next steps forward, but in the meantime Mars One still exists and is still as ever working towards its goals of putting humans on Mars.
Before Mars One can send anything off the planet, let alone humans, it needs to perform the design studies that will turn its project outline into a fully workable mission that can then be built. That doesnāt happen by magic - Mars One needs money to pay the companies who will perform those studies (Lockheed Martin and Paragon Space Development Corporation have already performed initial pre-phase A studies for some aspects of the mission as Mars One has been able to commission them). And then of course they need the money to go ahead and build stuff.Ā
Iāve often said that the hardest part for Mars One at this stage is securing the investment needed to make all this happen. Itās an apolitical organisation not tied to a source of government funding, and itās not lead by a billionaire who can plough his own funds into making rockets happen. So theyāve needed a plan that not only supplies the Mars One Foundation with the money it needs, but provides a return for investors as well so that they are encouraged to support us. We all knew that this would be difficult to do, so while Iām a little bummed out at the latest news, Iām not particularly shocked and nor am I particularly worried. This new investment company seems to be committed to getting Mars One through this, and will be delivering a press conference on March 6, when I am sure we will find out more.Ā
This might be a setback, but Mars One isnāt giving up. This is just a hurdle to get over - itās a challenge, but who said Mars was easy anyway?
One thing I got to do quite a lot in the first year or so after the Mars 100 were announced was go into local schools and talk about Mars with kids. Now I've moved to California I don't really do that any more, but I do occasionally exchange emails with classes doing projects on space. Recently, one particular Year Six class sent me a list of questions which I've decided (with permission) to answer as a blog post so that you can see the sort of questions I get asked. There are always one or two that surprise me, even now! You can find them below:
Do you have to pay to go?
No - thankfully! It is very expensive to get to Mars - our estimates are $6 billion, just for the first trip - and Mars One as an organisation will be responsible for the costs. All I had to pay was a small administration fee when I first applied. It is important to the mission that the crews are made up of the most suitable people, not just the richest. I hope I'm one of those people!
Could you back out if you wanted to?
The worst thing Mars One could do is send people on a one-way mission to Mars who didn't completely and absolutely want to go! So they allow people to back out of the process right up until launch. A few previous candidates have changed their minds, and backup people have been selected to take their place. I don't think I will back out myself, but if I changed my mind in the future I would have that option.
How do your family feel about the trip?
I'm grateful to have a family who have always been supportive of me in pursuing something I am passionate about. As for exactly how they feel about it, though, you'd probably have to ask them!
Will you keep your blog updated?
Definitely! It's been a little quiet over the past couple of years, but once the next selection round starts, and if I get to go on to crew selection and training, I will share my progress here.
Do you know what you do in space?
The Mars One crew will be in space itself for about seven months on the journey from Earth to Mars, which is a similar amount of time to a normal stay on the International Space Station. I imagine day to day life on the journey will be quite similar - we'll have to do lots of exercise to stop our bones and muscles from degrading due to lack of use. We might even take the opportunity to do science that requires microgravity.Ā
How does space equipment feel?
I can't talk about that first-hand (not yet, anyway!) but astronauts who have been on the ISS can! Tim Peake's videos on his Facebook page are a great place to start.
How do you take all your things to Mars?
Before any humans go to Mars, Mars One will send over capsules that will contain our life support systems, habitat space, tools, and equipment, so that we have everything we need to survive once we arrive. As for our personal items, we may get a small weight allowance for things to take with us in our spacecraft, but every kilogram counts so we will probably only have enough space for our most important things. I would like to take some art with me, and maybe a small musical instrument like a ukulele.
What are you most excited to do? / Ā Will you go exploring on Mars?
Exploring on Mars is one of the things I am most excited to do! While our main priority at first will be building a place to live, growing food, and other day-to-day activities to keep ourselves alive and safe, I hope we will also have plenty of time for exploration and discovery. Having humans on Mars will make much more science possible, and we'll want to do that for as many areas as possible.
What food do you eat on Mars?
The first things we eat on Mars will be the space food that we will have brought with us on the journey there. But one of the first things we want to be able to do on Mars is grow our own plants for food. So we will be mostly vegan, since keeping farm animals for meat or milk will use up far too many resources. Although we might bring along insects to eat for protein!
How do you get water?
There is no liquid water on Mars like there is on Earth - no rain, and no rivers. However there is a small amount of water in the soil. We can release that water by baking the soil and collecting the water that evaporates off. We'll also be very careful to recycle as much water as possible. Some Mars orbiter missions have also indicated that there might be large amounts of ice under the surface in regions like Utopia Planitia. If this turns out to be true, these could also be valuable for our water supplies.
Are you going to find aliens?
We're pretty sure that there aren't any of the sorts of aliens that you see in movies on Mars. However we haven't entirely ruled out life on Mars altogether. It's possible that there might be microbial life under the Martian surface that we haven't discovered yet. If so, it might be the first humans on Mars that find it!
Thanks for your questions, Year Six. I hope you had a great new year!
This year feels like it has been long. So, so long. Itās been a good year, I think, filled with a lot of great things. But also hard. And I feel very, very tired. Still, hereās the roundup:
Itās been just over a year since I moved to California. Since my 2017 roundup, I found my own apartment in Pasadena, filled it with furniture, and did the very grown-up thing of buying a car, a old silver Toyota Prius that Iāve named Mae. I knew since I found out Iād be moving out here last year that Iād need a car for living in the LA area, and having it has been exceptionally freeing. I can go visit other areas like Burbank or downtown LA without too much trouble, I can offer people rides, I can be a bit spontaneous with what I want to do. I can go on road trips! Such as taking the Thanksgiving weekend to go on an epic drive up to Sacramento and along the route of the Pony Express through to Fort Churchill in Nevada. That was a lot of fun.
The ruins of Fort Churchill. I promise to do Thanksgiving properly another time!!
Work at Caltech has been good - Iāve finally finished the two papersĀ hanging over from my PhD, and have had the opportunity to get my teeth into new projects. In between the never-ending cycle of writing telescope proposals and conference talks, of course. Itās a lot of hard work, but Iām enjoying myself, and Iāve landed in a really good group that I get on well with.
Very soon after moving out to Pasadena, I found and joined an excellent church called All Saints. It felt long past time for me to find a church where I can be every part of myself and be welcomed and loved for it, not despite it. Iāve thrown myself into it gleefully - I joined a choir, took part in a book club, got involved in the LGBTQ ministry, and recorded a podcast on pronouns. I love this church dearly and I feel incredibly fortunate to have found it. Here, I am thriving.Ā
As far as Mars One is concerned, itās been another quiet year. There have been some rumblings concerning investments, but otherwise we continue to wait for Mars One to be ready to take the next steps. An impatient part of me wants everything to hurry up and happen, but none of this is quick or easy. Iāve just got to keep on trucking - to be ready for when things start to happen again, but also give thought to what I want to spend this part of my life doing. I donāt know yet if Iāll even still be in the same country this time next year, although I hope so.
Still, outside of Mars One itself, Iāve been leaning into my interest in religion in space this year - I wrote a post about Ilan Ramon on the 15th anniversary of the Columbia disaster, and I gave a talk (paper; video) at the Mars Society Convention in Pasadena. That was a lot of fun to attend - I learned a bunch of interesting things and it was great to meet other Mars enthusiasts. And in broader Mars news, the biggest thing is probably the launch and successful landing of the Insight lander - I drove up with fellow candidates Sergii and Jay-Mee to see it launch back in May, and it landed without hitch in November. Congratulations to the team, and I look forward to the science that comes out of it! Also, SpaceX performed its first launch of the Falcon Heavy back in February, which was a joy to watch - landing the two side boosters near simultaneously, and sending a Starman out into the Solar System.Ā
Godspeed, Starman, wherever you are now.
The wider world continues to be stressful. It was very interesting to be in the USA during the midterms, and watch it unfold around me even if I didnāt get a say in anything myself. All things considered, the results did give me a sense of hope that the tide of awful in the States is beginning to turn. On the other hand, watching Brexit unfold from a distance has been chaotic and frightening. It feels like everything is incredibly unpredictable, changing from day to day, and Iām very worried for the future, especially on behalf of my friends living in the country. The year was rounded off by the Gatwick drone crisis, which unfolded in a manner beyond satire - to my relief, though,Ā I was at least able to get back into the country for Christmas and New Year (which I have spent with my family, and my Durham friends respectively).
In the process of settling into a new country and having to make new friends from scratch, a lot of my spare time has been spent at home or on solo trips out to various places. Most days, though, Iām just very tired, so itās been a good year for flopping onto the sofa and watching TV. Good job thereās been a lot of great TV to watch - highlights for me include Anne With An E, Altered Carbon, The Good Place, and the entirety of Person of Interest which was excellent binge material. Kids cartoons are also a good staple for when I come in from work and just want to wind down, and Iāve very much enjoyed the Voltron and She-Ra remakes on Netflix. I got back onto the Doctor Who bandwagon I fell off a few years ago, which took me over to Burbank where I found a weekly watch-along and after-show, which was a lot of fun (and got me out of the house!) I have not yet got around to finding a LARP game over in LA, but I did play a wuxia-inspired event when I was back in the UK over the summer. Hopefully this year Iāll get myself a little more involved again.
Revolutionary firebrand, champion of the people, wielder of ridiculous giant fans:Ā Eternal Service Tin!
One positive development is that Iāve done a lot of writing this year. Iāve enjoyed doing creative writing ever since I was a kid, but this past year Iāve really decided to put time into it. Iām not at a point where I have stories to share widely right now, but I am looking to work towards getting things to a point where I can submit them for publication, and itās very satisfying to look over what Iāve done over the year.
Looking back at my last roundup and not-quite-resolutions, I mentioned driving. If 2017 was the year of learning to drive and be comfortable with it, 2018 was the year of it becoming normal and even enjoyable. LA traffic no longer intimidates me, and my aforementioned road trip found me actively enjoying traversing the landscape of America while listening through my podcast backlog (Alice Isnāt Dead is fantastic solo road trip listening). I definitely want to keep exploring while I am out here, for however long that is.
I also mentioned keeping an eye on my mental health. This has been a year out of my comfort zone, living on a new continent, taking a step up in the work expected of me, getting involved in things and exploring - and I like my life right now but it is stressful. Keeping on top of the news does nothing to help that stress either. I spend an awful lot of time being very tired. I need to remind myself that resting and not doing much is not necessarily a problem. And those tired times have been really helped by having writing to work on over the year, even if just in little chunks. Still, while itās been a good year for me in a lot of ways, itās not been an easy one. This coming year, I hope to keep looking after myself.
Thanks once again for following along with me. Iām feeling quite tired again today, and I have a feeling that 2019 is going to be very tough. I wish us all the strength to face the upcoming year head-on!
Dr Hannah P Earnshaw. Published by The Mars Society with permission
The paper version of my talk at the Mars Society Convention this summer, 'In Search Of A Martian Faith', is up!Ā
I give an overview of my own approach to science and religion, and the perspective it gives me as a Mars One candidate. I then go on to explore various aspects of religious practice that face challenges in the context of space exploration - religious community, timekeeping, and sacred places.Ā
It's not a very academic work - my main goal with this presentation was to get people to think about an aspect of space exploration and migration they may not have considered before. It touches very briefly on lots of different things, but hopefully it is some interesting food for thought!
Religion in the context of space travel is endlessly fascinating to me. I would like to do some more in-depth work on this at some point, but in the meantime I'm always keen to discover more. Let me know if any of you have any recommendations of things to read or people to follow!
National Geographic's hit docudrama series Mars returns for a second season this November, and the broadcaster shared the first trailer for Season 2 at a panel at San Diego Comic-Con this week.
National Geographicās Mars is back for a second season!
My feelings a little bit mixed. I liked the concept and sort of enjoyed the first season. I felt like it had a great start, and I especially loved Hana Seung (not just because we share a name!) mainly, I think, because of her prequel episode which really made me invested in the character in a way I couldnāt be with the others, and also because of the excellent story-telling decision to make someone who isnāt yet another white man the leader (even if it took killing off the white male leader to get there).
However, for a show that is part documentary, part drama, I felt that its weakness was the definitely drama half. As it went on, the tone was always so grim and it put tension in very strange places - why would a trained astronaut get so distracted sheād forget to respond on the radio while descending into a dark cavern? Why would you design a door without an airlock that a delusional biologist can easily open and accidentally kill himself with? I can think of so many realistic scenarios for things being tense and challenging on Mars that I donāt understand why the story writers kept going for something so ludicrous.Ā
Also, aside from Hana, many of the other characters felt flat. There's no real sense of camaraderie. The team is committed but weirdly passionless. No one communicates effectively. Their mission is all struggle and no joy. I kept wondering what they were doing there. It seemed like the show decided that in order for there to be drama, none of the astronauts would be any good at their jobs (and you just need to look at Mark Watney from The Martian to know that that really doesnāt have to be the case).Ā It contrasted badly with the present-day interviews, in which everyone is passionate and well-informed, the stakes are real and the challenges are faced with genuine expertise.Ā
Still, I believe this next season has a new show-runner and it does look interesting - with the advent of new settlers on Mars and multiple settlements with different goals, weāre going to see a bit more of my jam: space politics and what it means to be society on a new planet. The trailer for the new season (which you can watch by following the link above) looks intriguing but a little grim again - I know you need conflict in a story, but I do wonder why the characters canāt be anything like as enthusiastic about being on Mars as the real life people being interviewed? If youāre going to explore life on Mars, explore all of life - not just the horror show, but the joy to be found as well.Ā
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
ā Live Streamingā Interactive Chatā Private Showsā HD Qualityā Free Actions
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
Mars One is pleased to announce that it has signed an agreement with Phoenix Enterprises AG, a Swiss investment company. Under the agreement, Phoenix will subscribe for Mars One Ventures AG shares over a twelve month period, raising a total of up to ā¬12 million, with a minimum of ā¬0.5 million to be raised in any one calendar month.
It has sometimes felt a little like treading water over the past year and a half to two years - on a semi-regular basis people will ask me for news on Mars One, and my reply is always something along the lines of,Ā āItās all behind-the-scenes, investment-related stuff at the moment. Iāll let you know when thereās news.ā
Iāve tried not to be unduly pessimistic about it - weāre very familiar with delays to space missions in the astronomy community after all - but the right thing for me to do in the meantime has been to complete my PhD and crack on with my career in research, and be patient while Mars One works it out. Iāve always believed that gathering investment is one of the hardest tasks that Mars One faces at this point in the timeline.
So Iām very pleased that Mars One has struck an investment deal with Phoenix Enterprises. All going well, Mars One will start receiving money within the month - we can get over this initial funding hurdle and start making progress on the mission again.
Watch this space - things are going to get exciting!
Lenten Book Club: Nonviolent Communication, Interlude
While the book club over the period of Lent concluded, most of us in the book group returned this evening for a three-hour session with someone who actually teaches Nonviolent Communication as part of his work and offered to put on a workshop for us and others in the church.
It was helpful for me to go back over a lot that we learned in the book and break down and clarify a lot of things. We also all worked on particular issues in our own lives, identifying our feelings and needs in response to certain actions taken by others, working out requests that we can make to meet those needs, and trying to empathise with the other person.Ā
I noted down a few interesting points that came up - one was that even a politely worded request such as,Ā āWould you be so kind as to...ā carries an implicit judgement - in this case, that if you did not comply with the request, you are not kind! While (probably) unintentional, this adds an element of coercion and turns the request into a demand.Ā
Another was just drilling down to two fundamental premises of NVC:
1. People inherently enjoy giving to each other, as long as there is absolutely no element of coercion.
2. All human behaviour is a strategy (however effective or ineffective) to meet a need.Ā (AĀ need ultimately being something that gives life, be it a basic physical requirement or something to improve oneās emotional well-being.)
Everything in NVC basically comes out of these premises, and itās helpful to look at words and behaviour in this light to uncover what is actually going under the surface of a conversation.
At the end of the session, after making some progress on a difficult problem in my own life (although not one I think Iāve entirely cracked just yet), the person running the session asked if there were any final comments we wanted to make before the session closed. I wanted to say something, but I wanted to communicate it effectively, so I wrote it down. This is what I wrote, and read out to him:
āI am scared to use NVC because it is alien to the way I and many of my friends speak, and I am afraid that it will cause my friends to resent me for using it.ā
To which his immediate(!) response was to the effect of:
āSo you need confidence and assurance that it will actually help, and you would like me to talk to you to provide some information and insight to that effect, am I correct?ā
!!!
Yes! Yes, thatās it! In that moment I had that experience so often mentioned in the book of being connected with and understood. It made me feel overjoyed and relieved that he had heard my feeling, empathised with it, and identified my unmet need and a possible action that could meet it - even before I had! (It was very impressive as well. That is a level of NVC I aspire to.)
So as a result weāre going to arrange a time to have a conversation to further discuss it, and I am looking forward to that. But I want to unpack my feelings of fear a little bit more, because when I actually wrote it down, it was a bit of a revelation to me thatĀ āscaredā was actually what I was feeling, underneath all of my thoughts and questions.
It is so often that we use judgemental language to one another that it is very easy to develop a crippling fear of judgement. That judgement isnāt always directed at me - maybe it is a friend talking to me about how someone else is awful, or how a politician is cruel, or how another friend is rude - and the fear is that one day such a judgement will be directed at me (or is being directed at me when I am not present). Or maybe there are positive judgements being directed at me - you are very kind, you areĀ talented, you are intelligent - and then the fear is what will happen if those judgements no longer apply, or if I will lose my value to other people if I fail to uphold this impression they have of me.
I think one of the biggest and most important things that NVC does is present a way of communicating to each other that takes judgements out of the equation and instead connects us to our feelings and how we are able to make one anotherās lives better. I donāt feel anywhere close to achieving that right now. But I would really like to.
Addendum: the last thing I want to be doing here is judging other people for being judgemental. Iām just trying to identify patterns in how we communicate (I do it as much as anyone!) and some of the possible unintended consequences of them.Ā
Now, you may have noticed Easter passing by recently, making Lent well and truly over. My Nonviolent Communication book group has wrapped up and Iāve finished the book (Iāve still got a few blog posts to go on it), although Iām only three sections into Drawdown out of eight. While I didnāt complete both books over Lent, I am happy that it got me sitting down to read more, something I donāt make a lot of time for usually and continually regret. Anyway, despite the break (I have a good excuse - my sister came out to visit me in California, which was lovely!) Iām going to keep blogging my way through the books and hopefully maintain the habit of reading just a little bit more in my spare time.
The second section of Drawdown revolves around food, and while the solutions it explores are ostensibly still for reducing the amount of greenhouse gases in the atmosphere, this feels almost like a secondary benefit to most of them. The primary benefit being increased and more sustainable yields in farming, leading to a better food supply for a growing population.
Most of these solutions revolve around a key ingredient in farming, and one that is only recently being properly understood by the modern scientific community - a healthy soil. A poor understanding of how soil works in the past has led to over-intensive farming and overuse of fertilisers, giving high yields in the short term but degrading the quality of the soil. In reality, soil is best considered a living ecosystem in itself which, when healthy and well-balanced, full of microorganisms moving nutrients around, is an effective carbon sink as well as highly fertile.
Therefore agriculture based on regenerating and sustaining the quality of soil crops up again and again in this section. This is done through a number of different methods, many complementary to each other. For example, highly optimised crop rotation, or even straight-up intermingling of crops, leading to the soil retaining a balance of nutrients (this can also be applied to livestock, with better managed grazing). Different plants growing together can help each other out, such as trees providing shelter and shade to smaller crops, or deep-rooted plants drawing up minerals for shallow-rooted ones. An added bonus is that this naturally leads to diversification which can benefit the farmer, lessening the impact of something going wrong with a single crop. Also, healthy soil is highly fertile and produces stronger plants, reducing the need for large amounts of synthetic fertilisers and pesticides - saving both money and the polluting effects run-off can have on the surrounding environment.
(Though the first crops grown on Mars are more likely to be with hydroponics, a good understanding of soil and how it works is likely to be invaluable when trying to start from scratch on a new planet!)
Itās not all soil - there are a bunch of other solutions that arenāt too surprising, such as drastically reducing the amount of meat in our diets and clean cookstoves. Reducing food waste is a particular issue for high-consumption western societies (shout out to fellow candidate Dianne who does a lot of work tackling this). Biochar is an interesting one - Iāve tried and failed three times to write a sentence that explains how it works, so Iāll let you look it up, but what fascinated me was the use of ancient, traditional methods that turn out to be highly applicable to a modern-day problem.
Many of the solutions in this section require large shifts in the way things are done on a very wide scale, often challenging conventional wisdom (or where congruent with conventional wisdom, challenging instead commercial forces like the fertiliser industry). However they all seem to be well worth the investment - not just for sequestering carbon, but for dramatically improving how we feed the world.Ā
Lenten Book Club: Nonviolent Communication - On Empathy
Nowās as good a time as any to make a bit of a disclaimer about this book. In my notes Iāve been making on my way through, thereās one sentence Iāve drawn a double line and stars around:
āThe purpose of NVC is not to get people to comply with your requests, but to establish a relationship based on honesty and empathy.ā
The purpose of NVC is not to win arguments or to persuade others to do things for you. It is simply to open up an honest line of communication which enables and facilitates a constructive, peaceful dialogue between two parties who may be at odds with one another. Its components donāt need to be explicitly used in every situation. But also, sometimes establishing this kind of connection with someone is not what you want to achieve. There might be certain people (for example, in cases of abuse) where your goal is to just cut off communication with that person for your own well-being. And thatās OK. I think an important thing to remember while reading this book is that while it offers a useful set of tools for how communication in situations of distress or conflict can be completely turned around in a very positive way, it shouldnāt be considered some sort of moral obligation - only a process to follow when the goal is to open up that kind of empathetic communication. Without making that distinction in my mind, some of this book got difficult to read, as I was reading it incorrectly as an instrument of something like tone-policing rather than a method of empowerment.
Having got over that hurdle though, the next few chapters on receiving the components of NVC from others through empathy are really interesting. One thing the author goes into at the start of the section is what empathy is not. Itās not reassurance, or advice, one-upping, consoling, story-telling, correcting, interrogating or explaining. These are all actions that can be taken in response to a situation, but none of them do anything towards understanding that situation in the first place.
This is a challenging thing for me - whenever I see someone in distress, for example, my immediate instinct is to want to fix it, to jump right away to finding a solution or making the person feel better (and then getting upset if it doesnāt magically make everything better). However that misses the first step, which is to make sure the person has actually been properly heard, that their feelings and needs have been listened to and understood. Empathy involves an emptying of ourselves of our own emotions and judgements and immediate responses, so that we can truly understand (and just understand - there is no obligation to agree) where the other person is in terms of their feelings and needs.
Only at this point can the conversation move towards solutions. There are two reasons for this I picked out: first, so that their needs are actually understood rather than assumed - leaping to offer someone advice when it's not needed or wanted is a response I see all the timeĀ from well-meaning friends when someone just wants to vent and be listened to (and itās a response I default towards too if I'm not catching myself). The second reason is that if a person does not feel heard, the progress of the conversation is halted. They may feel frustrated and may keep returning to the same point again and again until they are satisfied they have been understood - how many times have we been in a situation where we feel like weāre having the same argument over and over? It can be a sign that one or both of us does not feel heard by the other. Possibly unintuitively, taking the time to make sure someone has been empathised with can make the rest of resolving an issue a lot faster and smoother than just leaping to a solution, as everyone has the reassurance that they have been heard.
The applications of taking the time to empathise go beyond the expected scenarios of trying to resolve conflicts - one example that I am definitely going to keep a mental note of is using it to inject life into boring conversations. Now thereās a useful skill!
Importantly, having empathy for others is enabled by first and foremost having empathy for ourselves - taking the time to really understand our own emotions and needs, and being able to be compassionate with ourselves when we fail to meet our own expectations of our accomplishment or behaviour. This becomes particularly important when we are angry, which is something an entire chapter is devoted to, which is coming up next...
Lenten Book Club: Nonviolent Communication Chapters 3-6
We learned back in the beginning that there are four components to NVC: observation, feelings, needs, and requests. It feels kind of clinical to put it like that, but thankfully the book has a ton of different examples of it in action, from people learning to communicate better with their families, to defusing some really pretty scary situations. A chapter is dedicated to each component, breaking it down to understand why it is necessary and what it contributes to the communication - and also the potential damage it avoids.
We tried giving an example a shot in our last meeting a couple of weeks ago. It was tricky! Iāll work through it here to try to summarise what Iāve learned. The scenario was a chance face-to-face meeting with a friend who Iāve tried to contact for a while, but they havenāt returned my calls or texts. Something I could say at that point might be,Ā āYou never reply to any messages I send you - youāre so inconsiderate!ā Now, I might feel very justified in expressing my hurt that way, but if my goal is to have a constructive conversation that might resolve the issue, then the judgement and aggression thatās baked into that sentence will already put the other on the defensive and close them off to me, making finding a resolution difficult. So how can we rework it?
The first step is observation, which means identifying the action that is hurting me and expressing it without evaluation or judgement - not that I cannot evaluate that action at any point in the conversation, but starting from the facts of the matter that are neutral territory. In this case, evenĀ āYou never reply!ā carries a baked-in judgement - a better way of saying it might be,Ā āThe last time I tried to contact you, I left a message but didnāt receive a reply from you.ā Or perhaps easier, stating the observation as a lead-in to the next part, such as,Ā āWhen I reach out and donāt receive a response from you...āĀ
The next step is to identify and communicate the feeling that the action provoked in me. This can be quite a difficult step, especially if Iām not sure exactly what Iām feeling, and there are several pitfalls to avoid. One is mistaking a thought for a feeling:Ā āI feel that youāre ignoring me.ā Itās more accurate if you replaceĀ āfeelā in that sentence withĀ āthinkā - itās not an emotion! In general, the phrases, āI feel that...ā orĀ āI feel as if...ā or āI feel you are...ā are deeply unhelpful in this context. Another more subtle pitfall are phrases like, āI feel neglected,ā orĀ āI feel ignored.ā Again, these are not actually emotions! They are actually disguised ways of saying,Ā āI think you are neglecting or ignoring me.ā The goal of this step is to honestly express my own emotions in response to the factual action rather than assuming whatās going on with the other person - centring on myself avoids condemning or blaming the other person for my own reaction, just letting them know what I feel. In this case, perhaps I feel upset, or angry, or worried. These are all legitimate emotions, and expressing them in this way offers the opportunity to the other person to respond with compassion.
The emotions that I feel stem from an unmet need. Identifying the need behind our feelings is, if anything, even harder than identifying the feelings themselves! But once a need is established, it offers a way forward to finding a solution that will resolve the situation. The need in this situation is pretty context-dependent - it might be a need to know that the friendship is valued by the other person, a need to know that theyāre doing all right, or maybe something more practical such as the need to obtain some specific information from them. In the former examples, these needs might be pretty subconscious and take some thought to drag them into the light so that I can share them. Establishing a need at this point also makes it clear that Iām not bringing this up just to shame the other person or make them feel bad, but because I need something. Iām admitting that Iām not self-sufficient, and becoming less threatening as a result.
Finally, with a need established, I make a request for action that might meet that need. It is important that it is clearly a request and not a demand - if the other person feels coerced, duty-bound or guilt-tripped into complying with it, then they will end up resenting it and feeling like they donāt have a choice in the matter. Presenting a request allows the other person to respond to meet my need out of compassion because they want to - and also offers them the option of saying no (and if they do, that answer must be accepted graciously, with empathy for their position and without blame, otherwise the request was actually a demand all along). A request should also be as specific as possible - asking that they just talk to me more is vague and doesnāt offer any way of establishing how much more talking is required before my need is met. Rather, something like,Ā āWould it be possible to set up a time once a week when we talk on the phone?ā offers a concrete action that can be taken or refused, or negotiated together until something that meets both of your needs is discovered.
So, putting it all together:Ā āHey, so when I left you a voicemail three days ago and didnāt get a reply, I felt anxious because I need to know that you still care about our friendship. Do you think we could meet for coffee and catch up at some point in the next couple of days?ā
Howād I do? It still feels a little artificial and stilted to me, because while it all seems to make a lot of intuitive sense, I am just not in the habit of communicating this way, though Iām certainly trying my best to put it into practise where relevant. Also, itās worth remembering that itās not always relevant - it applies mainly to situations where unmet needs are causing negative feelings and conflict, which can be dramatic and potentially violent or just small niggling things in everyday life that are becoming frustrating.Ā
This part was all about using NVC to communicate honestly with another person - up next to look forward to is receiving this information from that person, regardless of whether they are using NVC themselves!
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
ā Live Streamingā Interactive Chatā Private Showsā HD Qualityā Free Actions
Free to watch ⢠No registration required ⢠HD streaming
I mentioned in my first look at Nonviolent CommunicationĀ that both books I am reading have a core of optimism. Drawdownās may not seem entirely obvious - it is a book presenting one hundred substantive solutions to the problem of climate change, with the goal (or rather, the necessity) of not just reducing our emissions, but reaching the point at which the amount of greenhouse gases in the atmosphere begin to decline on a year-by-year basis. Itās no easy task. Many of the solutions that Drawdown presents, however, have social and economic benefits beyond the environmental, and its core of optimism is that global warming can be seen not only as a problem that urgently needs solving, but as an opportunity and invitation to innovate.
It begins with the first topic that springs to mind for most people when we consider global warming - the generation of electricity. Many of the solutions presented here wonāt come as a surprise. This section is dominated by different types of renewable energy, including wind, solar, wave and tidal, geothermal, and a couple of less well-known ones such as concentrated solar power (using mirrors to produce heat to drive steam turbines, rather than photovoltaics - one main advantage to this is that heat is easier to store than electricity). Across the board, costs are coming down for most renewables, and the range of options means that the intermittent nature of, say, wind and solar power, can be mitigated by the more persistent geothermal and tidal sources. While none of this came as a particular surprise to me, some of the numbers quoted did - apparently, 314,000 wind turbines provide ~4% of global energy today. For some reason, that feels like both way more energy and way fewer actual turbines than I expected.Ā
The book presents as separate solutions some of these same technologies, but at a micro scale, such as rooftop solar power or individual wind turbines supplying a single location. Small-scale, localised power generation is well suited for rural areas, reducing the need for the main grid to be extended and granting independence to remote areas. And in general, the book makes a good case for the future of energy being in distributed and decentralised renewables, with local power supplying the local area and thus able to be more responsive to changes in demand and overall more efficient, with less energy lost in distribution.
In order to enable this, the grid itself needs to become more flexible, capable of handling intermittent supplies that are highly distributed, including microgrids at a local level which can either stand alone or hook into the main grid as required. In tandem with this, another technology that is vital to enabling this sort electricity generation is storage. We are familiar with the idea of pumping water up to reservoirs in order to generate power via hydroelectricity when needed. But developments are also being made in using energy storage by rail, by moving loaded carts up to the top of sloped tracks and using regenerative braking to retrieve the power (with the advantage that rail carts donāt evaporate!) As mentioned earlier, heat is also easier to store than electricity, and molten salt can stay hot for hours, allowing for steam power to be produced when required. And the development of better batteries is also highly important, especially on a distributed level where they can be powerful enablers of microgeneration. Teslaās Powerwall battery and other similar products are things to keep an eye on.
The majority of the solutions presented by Drawdown are āno-regretsā solutions, for which there are very few in any downsides apart from the initial costs of installation. However two in this part are very muchĀ āregretsā solutions: waste-to-energy, which speaks to the excessive consumption of the Western world and offers an alternative to fossil fuels only at the cost of releasing harmful chemicals and toxins, and nuclear power, for which the essay had the following to say:Ā āIn effect, nuclear power plants boil water. ... It is the most complex process ever invented to create steam.ā Savage! While nuclear power does have a low carbon footprint, its cost has only increased over time rather than decreased, it does not fit in well with a paradigm of decentralising power, and while nuclear plants are good at reducing the spread of additional coal-burning plants, especially in China, it may be that the period in which they are of most use is already coming to an end. And it shouldnāt be forgotten that they are capable of releasing terrible calamity, such as what occurred in Chernobyl and Fukushima.
In summary, Drawdown advocates a future of highly distributed renewable energy generation, supported by a flexible grid and effective energy storage. The advantages of this go beyond reducing greenhouse gas emissions to creating a robust and resilient system that works at all levels of population density and demand.
Lenten Book Club: Nonviolent Communication Chapters 1 & 2
The first thing that struck me about both of these books I am reading is their core of optimism. Nonviolent Communicationsā is that the natural state of human beings is one of compassion, once an absence of violence has been brought about, rather than the other way around. Which blew my mind a little bit (I was to learn that it would keep doing that).
Nonviolent Communication (or NVC - as an astronomer I have an affinity for acronyms so Iām going to go with the one presented) in a nutshell is made up of four components: observation of actions that affect our well-being, our feelings in response to those actions, which stem from our needs, values and desires, leading us to make requests for actions that enrich our lives. NVC involves honestly expressing these components, and empathetically receiving them from others. Simple, right?
However then the author goes on to describe the things that stand in the way of NVC, including making moralistic judgements on or comparisons with other people, or by communicating our desires as demands, making them coercive. The one that stood out to me was the denial of responsibility - in which language can be used to shift the blame for our actions and responses onto other people or even abstracts (such as,Ā āI had to do this because itās policyā, rather thanĀ āI chose to do this because I wanted to follow policy in order to keep my jobā). Oof. Itās hard, but also more emotionally honest and acknowledges the agency we have in choosing how we act towards others. And this goes deeper than simply our actions - we also need to take responsibility for our thoughts and feelings. (That was hard for me to take in - Iām of the opinion that our feelings happen to us, we canāt usually choose how we feel about something but we can choose how we respond, so responsibility for feelings seems... unnecessarily strict? I think it does get clarified in a later chapter, though, so Iāll hold that thought. Perhaps itās responsibility to know and understand our feelings, and where they come from.)
I think responsibility also informs whatās going on when the author talks about things like moralistic judgements - that is, taking responsibility for and owning our own value systems. When we get angry or upset by someone doing something we consider to be morally wrong, itās important to remember that it is our own value systemĀ they are acting against, and the reason that we are angry is rooted in our own worldview. Taking ownership of that when communicating with them is less likely to put them on the defensive and cause them to get angry in return than flatly accusing them of being immoral. (We may consider ourselves to be objectively right in our worldview, but it is nonetheless still our worldview, and it is not necessarily shared by who weāre trying to communicate with).
Overall, NVC requires being conscious and aware and in ownership of lots of things that are going on inside our heads, and in control of our words and actions. Thatās not at all easy, but definitely important.