🌻han

You’re subconsciously or consciously fearful. Afraid to speak up, communicate your feelings because of how they will react

Self esteem. You get criticized so the other will feel better about themselves and make you feel like you have no self worth

Petty. As if nothing you can do is right, small things blown way out of proportion.

Discounting. Saying you’re overreacting and too sensitive to make you doubt your feelings and instincts

Humiliation. Hiding it as humor, taunting you in front of others and if you say something about it they will tell you, you can’t take a joke.

Walking on egg shells. You’re second guessing to avoid unpleasant exchanges.

Lack of self awareness. No compassion or empathy for your pain or any interest in what caused it.

When it’s good, it’s amazing. They’re deceiving, switching up behaviours to make you stick around.

You’re always on edge. This is a big one, similar to walking on eggshells. Clear sign you’re not comfortable.

Losing yourself. You don’t feel like yourself anymore, confused about who you are.

You can get out of abusive relationships. It’s one of the most destructive thing that can happen to a person and I understand how hard it can be to get out.

This is for my use, my motivation.

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Walking into a shop knowing something will fit

Sitting in the gap no one else fits in

My dream aesthetic

Baggy sweaters don’t look like a big sack

Piggy backs

Not to be the bigger friend

Cheaper clothes

Crop tops

Cute chain belts

Thigh high stuff

To hear the shock in voices when they see the weight loss

Collar bones, hip bones

Skin tight clothes

Hear you’re so skinny