panromantic panic

i think every publisher should have to institute a ban on books that fail what i’m calling the “little life” and “what else?” tests

um so quick question you do know that the world isn’t divided into People Blindly Accepting Of Gender Roles and Smart Trans Ppl. the world isn’t divided into People In Romantic Relationships and Single Aros. the world isn’t divided into People Who Socialize Easily and Oppressed Autistics. the world isn’t divided into Enlightened Queer People and Stupid Misogynists. like you are aware of this ? i hope you are aware of this

The last of the classically trained tumblrinas

along with the earlier post about how loving everything is good…even in a transactional way, being a certified lover girl has gotten me a lot of privileges in this life. One of my most iconic simportunities was meeting a cute guy who was visiting Texas, shooting my shot, and then he invited me to stay with him out in California for a week for free

This is hilarious because I made this post in 2024, and later that year a man flew me to Baltimore to hang out with him and his dog. My friend drove up to Boston like 10 times to see me. I met a guy in NYC who let me live with him for 10 days. I kinda love that men will just do whatever if they’re down bad for you

sorry but once you notice how often ppl use a southern accent as shorthand for being unintelligent you can never unsee it. classism is baked so deeply and why are you acting like anyone who talks the way my grandfather talks is stupid.

I really hate that for some reason the narrative became that women fought to join the workforce rather than women fought to have the same jobs for the same pay as men instead of being relegated to labour considered to be lesser and explicitly disallowed from many roles and professions. fuck off and die.

mostly i do god knows what

"I'd destroy the world to protect you" but it's a parent/child relationship

"I hate everyone but I love you more than anything" but it's two best friends

"you're the only one who can bring me back when I lose myself" but it's siblings

I feel like a lot of people get "All Art is Political" confused with "All Art is made with Political Intentions" which is not the same.

i've been phasing the phrase 'google it' out of my vocabulary and going back to 'look it up'. fuck you youve lost your generic trademark privileges

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

you can and should hate america more actually