Cyrus [any pronouns]

and with the fetish thing: fetishes aren't inherently evil or a moral failing so it's just more puritanical garbage.

guy named dead horse: OW OW OW OW OW

Yeah! Two of my go-to resources for anal play are this guide to cleaning your ass for anal, and this article on anal training. They’re both full of really good information, and are gonna be a great start.

It's basically classical conditioning. If you're aware of pavlov's dog, it's the exact same principle. Check it out if you're unfamiliar! Basically, you start by choosing a trigger. I found a verbal trigger easiest, to start. It helps if you have a partner. Then do whatever you need to do to reach orgasm, and cum simultaneously with the trigger. For me using a hitachi was easiest. Do this as often as possible and ONLY CUM with the trigger during this training phase. How long it takes to create an associate will depend on how often you can do it. It took me about two weeks, cumming 1-3 times on average on most days before I moved onto the next phase. After you feel the association is strong, get yourself to the BRINK of orgasm, then stop stimulation at the last second and apply the trigger. It's okay if you don't cum with the trigger alone at first, just make sure you ALWAYS cum. So, if you get close, get the trigger and you're not there yet, re-apply stimulation to make sure you do. Continue attempting this as often as possible until you can cum from the trigger on the edge. From there, you just reduce stimulation earlier and earlier, gradually. Still always making sure you cum when the trigger is applied. Eventually you’ll reach the point where the trigger alone is enough to orgasm.  At this stage you have a choice. Do you want a trigger to be the only way you can cum?  If NOT, it’s recommended that you now have orgasms without the trigger present, so you can retain the ability to...cum on your own if you trained with a partner. If you DO want to only cum with a trigger from now on, you can reinforce that by continuing to only allow orgasm paired with the trigger. This can be a little risky, depending on the person you may be doing this with and what the trigger is. Some people have done this kind of play with new partners, lost the ability to cum on their own, then got dumped and left with no way to cum at all, and had to struggle to do some de-conditioning. Do that kind of play at your own risk. Now that you can cum from a word, phrase, sound or whatever you ended up using, you can easily use that to create new triggers, more easily in the same process. I used my verbal command to cum instantly, from any type of penetrative sex. Vaginal first, then oral, then anal. I also used it to cum from nipple play, foot play, armpit play, and having my tongue piecing played with.  A thing to note, if you don’t cum from a trigger in awhile, the effect will fade over time. In psychological terms, this is called ‘extinction’. Since I was without a partner for awhile, I lost the ability to cum from oral and anal. Tongue play and  also went away. Nipple play only went away after top surgery. Foot play stayed, for whatever reason. ALSO, once you get things established, it’s good to start to vary the conditions around orgasm. For example, when I first trained it was in my girlfriend at the time’s bedroom, with her usually holding me very closely. EVERYTHING in the environment will factor into the conditioning. I’ve even heard of people accidentally conditioning themselves to cum from vibration sounds after training with a hitachi. My girlfriend and I had to do additional training in order for the conditioning to take when we weren’t in her room, and she wasn’t so physically close to me. You can possibly use this effect to your advantage, if you want to make the play safer by say...only having a trigger work in a specific place so it’s not used in public. Or maybe you only want to be able to be triggered under the effect of a drug like thc, then you would always training using that. etc Overall this may be a useful form of sexual therapy, if you’re normally someone that has a difficult time reaching orgasm, like I was. I went from not being able to cum during penetrative sex maybe 50% of the time...to ALWAYS cumming IMMEDIATELY after conditioning. So it’s been a huge relief of pressure on my sex life. It’s no longer a chore, and I don’t have to be concerned if performing for my partner is going to inhibit my own ability to enjoy myself! I ALWAYS enjoy myself!!! Im like a fuccin unrealistic hentai manga now, it rules.

Rescued media. Fuck it.

Rescued media. Fuck it.

that was a big one, great job. you're my good boy. 

[this post is about t4t faggotry, cishets and minors dni]

like this is soooo erotic to me. am i wrong

I think these should be exclusively used for kink instead of their intended purpose