c'est la vie, et cetera

Sending tons of love and good thoughts ur way

I think of romantic Love like a color chart; you have a certain type, a favorite "color" and in that color, there are many hues. Each person is their own hue. You may not be able to find the same hue you let go of--but neither will they. You will find someone of the same "color" family though, a hue closer to your intensity and desire.

Why do you think of yourself as unlovable? Are you not a good person? Do you not love deeply? Do you treat your partners well?

Your life, like mine, is so incredibly vivid already that romantic love only ADDS to it, but does not encompass it. A good partner is a wonderful thing to have but it is also not by far the thing that will break you in this life.

Buy 2 dozen blood red roses and put them on your living room table, play Feelin Good by Avicii, bake some olive bread & make a dip of olive oil & feta cheese & herbs & spices. Make romance feel at home with you, even without an external recipient.