petty.

there’s something so strange about grieving for someone you don’t even know. like, i’ve lost family members and close friends before, and i feel like my grief was allowed then because i knew them. i don’t know naya, i’ve never met naya. she’s not family, she’s not a friend, i literally have never spoken to her in my life. but i feel so, so sad and it’s making me feel selfish and i’m not sure how to process that. it just feels selfish to be so affected right now. idk what i’m really saying or what to do, idk what to do with these feelings. i just went for a walk but it didn’t help, i was just getting more and more upset and the more upset i got, the angrier i am with myself because this isn’t about me and it just feels so selfish to be so sad. i appreciate the texts/messages so much, but again it’s not about me and i don’t really know how to respond because of that. idk it’s just such a weird loss. i can’t even imagine how her family are feeling right now, please send all of your love and prayers to them

no matter how much we all shit on the show, glee played such a huge part in so many of our teenage years. i know, personally, i cried so much when i heard the news about cory back in 2013. losing naya 7 years later, AND on the anniversary of cory’s death, hurts so fucking much.. i’m in literal shock. 

Maybe if you go watch Barbie as the Princess and the Pauper you'll calm down.

when i was a kid i convinced my sister clowns hatched from easter eggs, which no one who has siblings will blame me for 

the notes are full of siblings with their own examples and i love that

My personal favorite was telling my youngest brother that naming a stuffed animal gives it life and they move when you’re sleeping then I’d sneak into his room and move his stuffed animal that he had to really weird places but had them facing him he’d wake up freaking out because it would be in the closet looking at him or on his dresser when he fell asleep with it beside him

sibling-less writers take note