⤷ 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰; 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐢𝐞𝐝.

𝐓𝐎𝐃𝐀𝐘, 𝐈'𝐋𝐋 𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐄 𝐘𝐎𝐔 𝐏𝐄𝐀𝐂𝐄 𝐎𝐅 𝐌𝐈𝐍𝐃 𝐁𝐘; 𝐒𝐈𝐌𝐏𝐋𝐈𝐅𝐘𝐈𝐍𝐆 𝐏𝐎𝐏𝐔𝐋𝐀𝐑 𝐓𝐎𝐏𝐈𝐂𝐒 𝐈𝐍 𝐋𝐎𝐀. ⊹˙

𝐋𝐄𝐓'𝐒 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐓!

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SHIFTING & MANIFESTATION ⌵

⟡┊“can i manifest without shifting to another reality?

yes, it’s up to you. if you don’t want to shift, you don’t have to, no matter what your manifestation is, shifting is not necessary.

⟡┊“i’m scared of shifting while manifesting”

there’s nothing to be scared of, this is your reality, your rules.

VOID STATE ⌵

⟡┊“is the void necessary in order to manifest my desires?”

no, you don’t need the void at all, all you need is yourself.

⟡┊“how do we tap into the void?”

❝To accomplish this seemingly impossible feat you take your attention away from your problem and place it upon just being. You say silently but feelingly, "I AM." Do not condition this awareness but continue declaring quietly, "I AM - I AM." Simply feel that you are faceless and formless and continue doing so until you feel yourself floating.❞ - Neville Goddard.

STATES ⌵

⟡┊“how do we get into a state?”

you shift your awareness to your desire(s) like “i have my desired body” and you imagine yourself IN that state of consciousness, would you be looking around, checking in the mirror, complaining about your body? no, right.

❝Don't condemn yourself for the state into which you have fallen. If you don't like it, move into another. Don't feel sorry for yourself, for if you do, you will make the state a habit and remain there for the rest of your days on earth. Instead, you can believe this doctrine and move out of any state.❞ - Neville Goddard

⟡┊”i don’t want to be in a state, what do i do?”

you’re always in a state, whether you like it or not!

• state of being happy

• state of being sad

• state of being wealthy

• state of being poor

AFFIRMING ⌵

⟡┊“Do i need to affirm 10,000 times in order to get my desire(s)?”

NO, NO, NO! you create the rules, it’s all up to you.

⟡┊“I’m tired of affirming, but i have to do it… if not i won’t get my desire(s)”

then… why are you doing it, you’ll get your desires even if you affirm once (depends on your assumptions)

DETACHMENT ⌵

⟡┊“do i need to detach from my manifestations, in order for them to come into fruition?”

nope, that’s a law of attraction thing, we’re talking about the law of assumption here.

LIVING IN THE END ⌵

⟡┊“How do i exactly live in the end?”

If you and your SP were together, would you be trying to manifest him? no.

If you were rich, would you be worrying about money? no.

FREE WILL ⌵

it’s your reality, nobody has free will; unless you want them to, you like someone? they like you back point, blank, period.

WITCHCRAFT ⌵

“manifestation is not witchcraft, witchcraft is manifestation.” — Sammy Ingram

TIME ⌵

time doesn’t exist, it was created by man, unless you believe it does.

METHODS/TECHNIQUES ⌵

they’re tools, that’s it. you give power to them, you’re the reason they work, and you’re also the reason why they don’t work.

3D & 4D ⌵

3D = your physical reality.

4D = your inner reality | your thoughts.

change your thoughts, persist → change your assumptions, persist → your desire manifests in the 3D | @starliet

the 3D only reflects the 4D

the 3D is malleable, therefore you can always change it.

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YOU HAVE THE POWER! ⌵

this is your reality we’re talking about, everything revolves around you, there’s no such thing as ‘i can’t do it’ you’re the master, you have the power, you need to go within and find it. nothing is impossible for you, nothing is unreachable for you, you create, you destroy. you have the power in your hands, why not use it? it’s time for you to realize and accept the power you hold, you’re way too powerful to be sitting in bed contemplating your life, do masters do that? no, so stand up! get your desires, because…

in the end, it all comes down to something; YOU.

FINAL NOTES ⌵

this post will be updated with new information frequently, it’ll have new things added, depending on the information i keep finding, and about topics that people might want to know about, once again…

𝐈 𝐇𝐎𝐏𝐄 𝐓𝐇𝐈𝐒 𝐏𝐎𝐒𝐓 𝐇𝐄𝐋𝐏𝐄𝐃 𝐘𝐎𝐔,

❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅ ❅

“You are already that which you want to be, and your refusal to believe this is the only reason you do not see it.”

“I know of no clearer definition of the means by which we realize our desires than to EXPERIENCE IN THE IMAGINATION WHAT WE WOULD EXPERIENCE IN THE FLESH WERE WE TO ACHIEVE OUR GOAL.”

“The best denial is total indifference. Things wither and die through indifference. They are kept alive through attention. You do not deny a thing by saying it does not exist.”

“By imagination we have the power to be anything we desire to be.”

“To reach a higher level of being, you must assume a higher concept of yourself.”

“Although you may now seem to be what you do not want to be, all you need do to change it, and to prove the change by circumstances in your world, is to quietly assume that you are that which you now want to be, and in away you do not know you will become it.”

”Man must firmly come to believe that reality lies within him and not without.”

”Whatever the mind of man can conceive and feel as true, the subconscious can and must objectify.”

“As soon as you succeed in convincing yourself of the reality of the state sought, results follow to confirm your fixed belief.”

“As soon as man assumes the feeling of his wish fulfilled, his fourth dimensional Self finds ways for the attainment of this end, discovers methods for its realization.”

“Through your ability to think and feel, you have dominion over all creation.”

“Capture the feeling associated with your realized wish by assuming the feeling that would be yours were you already in possession of the thing you desire, and your wish will objectify itself.”

“You are that which you believe yourself to be.”

“Everything we do, unaccompanied by a change of consciousness, is but futile readjustment of surfaces.”

“Humanity is a single being in spite of its many forms and faces, and there is in it only such seeming separation as we find in our own being when we are dreaming.”

“As soon as we succeed in transforming self, our world will dissolve and reshape itself in harmony with that which our change affirms.”

“That is; you say silently but feelingly to yourself, “I AM.” Do not condition this 'awareness' as yet. Just declare yourself to be, and continue to do so, until you are lost in the feeling of just being – faceless and form- less. When this expansion of consciousness is attained, then, within this formless deep of yourself give form to the new conception by FEELING yourself to be THAT which you desire to be.”

“It does not matter what it is you desire to have done, or whom you select to do it. As soon as you subjectively affirm that it is done, results follow.”

“Failure is always due to an antagonistic auto-suggestion by the patient, arising from objective doubt of the power of medicine or relic, or from doubt of the truth of the theory.”

“Imagination and faith are the secrets of creation.”

“You have nothing to do but convince yourself of the truth of that which you desire to see manifested.”

“Our subconscious assumptions continually externalize themselves that others may consciously see us as we subconsciously see ourselves, and tell us by their actions what we have subconsciously assumed of ourselves to be.”

“Do not question the how of these things appearing, for no man knows that way.”

“Become indifferent and begin to feel yourself to be that which would be the solution of the problem.”

“You do not visualize yourself at a distance in point of space and at a distance in point of time being congratulated on your good fortune. Instead, you make elsewhere HERE, and the future NOW. The future event is a reality NOW in a dimensionally larger world and oddly enough, now in a dimensionally larger world is equivalent to HERE in the ordinary three dimensional space of everyday life.”

“Every dream could be realized by those self-disciplined enough to believe it.”

“Life does not care whether you call yourself rich or poor; strong or weak. It will eternally reward you with that which you claim as true of yourself.”

“The reason most of us fail to realize our desires is because we are constantly conditioning them. Do not condition your desire. Just accept it as it comes to you.”

“Creation is finished.”

“The reason men condition their desires is because they constantly judge after the appearance of being and see the things as real – forgetting that the only reality is the consciousness back of them.”

“Begin now to mentally see and feel yourself as that which you want to be, and feast upon that sensation morning, noon, and night.”

“Consciousness is the one and only reality.”

“Instead of trying to change others through argument and force, let me but ascend in consciousness to a higher level and I will automatically change others by changing myself.”

“Because consciousness is the only reality I must assume that I am already that which I desire to be. If I do not believe that I am already what I want to be, then I remain as I am and die in this limitation.”

“Assume the feeling of your wish fulfilled and continue feeling that it is fulfilled until that which you feel objectifies itself.”

“The future dream must become a present fact in the mind of him who seeks to realize it.”

“Feed the mind with premises that is, assertions presumed to be true, be- cause assumptions, though false, if persisted in until they have the feeling of reality, will harden into fact.”

“That God exists in us and we in him.”

“The Bible gives it as three days; the duration is three days for responsein this world. If I would now assume I am what I want to be, and if I am faithful to it and walk as though I were, the very longest stretch given for its realization is three days.”

listen without interrupting

choose a perfume that is your personal brand

know something about art

be a good conversationalist

keep your shoes clean

always remember important dates

simplify your life, your house, your agenda

practice a good posture

be punctual

keep your house clean and tidy

don't point out other people's mistakes

learn another language

don't shout when you speak

always remember your courage

always keep your hands groomed

have a positive attitude

always have a pleasant scent in your home

take care to make others feel comfortable

your manners must be impeccable

educate yourself on a good variety of topics

keep your phone away when you are eating at the table

be wholehearted

say please and thank you ALWAYS

apologize first and sincerely

practice empathy

give sincere compliments

dress appropriately for every occasion

do favors without expecting anything in return

take responsibility for your own happiness

less is more

enjoy the moment

💗 fanci club, sandy liang, i am gia, truth or dare, fine girl, fun plus cute, o’dolly dearest, hidden cult, frankie’s bikinis, poster girl, skims

i’m currently loving: muted pinks paired with neutral colors, lace detailing, fur trims, ribbons, rhinestone lettering, girly effortless athleisure, pink minimalism

brands aren’t as important as the look is. i’m not above finding more adorable substitutes as long as i’m still giving prissy

Looking expensive or 'rich' is all about investing in yourself, your appearance, how you carry yourself, and not shying away from signature details or indulgences. Here are some tips to level up your look and demeanor to feel high-class in your daily life – no matter how much money you want to spend in these life arenas.

Appearance:

Prioritize Proper Grooming: Always looking clean and put-together is the ultimate sign of class. Shower daily. Brush, and take care of your teeth. Wash your hair on a regular schedule. Never allow your hair to look greasy – brush and blow dry it regularly. Cleanse, exfoliate, and moisturize every inch of your face and body. Perform your skincare routine religiously. Apply sunscreen daily.

Tailor & Steam Your Clothes: Freshly-pressed and well-fitting clothes always look infinitely more expensive – no matter their price point. Looking rich and expensive is about high self-regard and paying attention to the little details. Ensure your garments look crisp and clean – no wrinkles, pet hairs, loose threads, lint pieces, or fabric bulges highlighting an improper fit.

Create A Classic & Streamlined Capsule Wardrobe: Simplicity radiates a chic sophistication. Go back to the basics with timeless pieces – like a button-down blouse, a classic crewneck sweater, black trousers or straight-leg jeans, leather pants, a leather jacket, a trench or wool coat, a well-fitting cami or tee shirt, a simple slip dress, or a knit set. Focus on a neutral color palette – black, champagne, dark grey, chocolate brown, camel, or crisp white shades. Seek out elevated fabrics – such as Pima cotton, cashmere, washable silk, and buttery vegan or recycled leather.

Invest In Signature Pieces: Spend on "outer shell' items – coats, jackets, heavyweight knits, handbags, and shoes – that directly interact with the outside world and can be worn repeatedly with almost every outfit. Save on items like tee shirts or more simple jewelry pieces that can be found for less while still being fairly high-quality. I recommend Everlane, Lilysilk, and Naadam for affordable basics (Frankie Shop, Skims, and Norma Kamali for moderately priced pieces) and Catbird and Oma The Label for well-priced accessories. Here are all the everyday essentials you need to build the ultimate Femme Fatale Wardrobe.

Simplify Your Beauty Routine: Fresh, clear, and glowy skin radiates rich girl energy. A well-curated skincare routine should do half the heavy lifting. However, you will probably want to include a shade-matched foundation, concealer, and powder into your makeup routine along with a bronze contour, a rosy blush, and a subtle highlighter. Shape and fill in your brows for a polished look. Apply a deep black mascara to your lashes and luscious black eyeliner to your top lid, waterline, and tight line – keep the strokes thin and crisp (create a subtle wing if desired). Finish your face with a deep pink nude, red, or deep wine lipstick/gloss/lip tint. Here's a guide to the ultimate Femme Fatale Beauty Routine for a completely elevated (and sensual) look.

Eat Healthfully & Workout: Health is wealth. Taking care of your body shows self-respect – your most priceless asset. So, incorporate whole, plant-based foods into your daily diet and make it a priority to find movement you love that you can incorporate into your routine multiple times a week.

Lifestyle:

Streamline The Details: The rich girl aesthetic is all about refinement and looking put together at all times. Always have a set of matching pens with coordinating notepads on your desk, a uniform set of coffee mugs on the counter, coasters, glassware, sheets, pillowcases, cold-weather accessories, etc. This attention to detail instant makes your environment look more expensive.

Have Personalized Stationery: A high-value woman isn't shy about leaving her signature touch. Have personalized stationery (thank you notes, greeting cards, business cards, etc.) monogrammed and on hand for anytime you need to send a note or gift to a friend, coworker, boss, client, etc. This addition shows your attention to detail, leaves the recipient something small to remember you by, and adds a human touch to any gift or gesture. Try gold lettering on cream cards for an elegant, expensive look.

Keep Prosecco & Sparkling Water On Hand: Bubbly on a budget feels just as expensive as champagne (and tastes great too). Sparkling water elevates your daily H20 – add some lemon, lime, orange wedges, or frozen berries for a fancy, fruity twist.

Have Proper Place Settings: Neat, thoughtful presentation exudes class and rich energy. Whenever hosting any type of sit-down event or cocktail party, have the plates stacked, glasses and cutlery arranged correctly. Have all of the appropriate utensils readily available. Again, it's all about the details.

Stay Informed & Well-Read: A thirst for knowledge, learning and having the ability to engage in thoughtful, informed, and intellectual imbues a high-class radiance into any room. Read books, learn about different cultures and current events, and invest in studying different industries, and interests. Explore your hobbies. A rich mindset translates and generates an overall elevated aura.

Demeanor:

Learn Proper Etiquette: Address people by name, and offer a firm handshake. Maintain eye contact. Say "please" and "thank you." RSVP promptly. Communicate clearly and compassionately.

Maintain Good Posture: Shoulders back and relaxed. Open your chest. Keep your back straight and your head held high. Take up space. Command presence.

Master The Art of Engaging Conversation: Prioritizing self-presentation, learning how to listen, holding your own, and encouraging others to feel relaxed are the secrets to becoming magnetic in any social situation. Read more of my tips HERE.

Embrace An Abundant Mindset: Free your mind of limiting beliefs and notions of scarcity. There are plenty of opportunities, experiences, and emotions to go around. Another person's success doesn't take away from your potential. Focus on expansion, not envy.

I'd recommend you following along to my dream girl guide. Even if you don't do the full 12 month program, it will give you insight into what you want your daily life and long-term self to be like. Once you know what the ideal version of yourself is like, you should spend your days working towards becoming her. That's how you have productive days that you enjoy spending time on.

Let’s see if I’ve got 5…

I was raised to have extremely high standards when it came to the calibre of men that I went out with and I was also taught that if a man was unable to reach my standards, it had nothing to do with me and everything to do with him. I think that I’ve always had extremely high standards as I’ve always had really good male role models in my life and I was always told that if they could go out of their way to make the women in their lives happy, it wasn’t asking too much to ask for whatever I wanted to have from a potential romantic partner. I was also taught that I shouldn’t have to ask for any of the basic graces that a woman is afforded, I was born a woman and do I should be treated like a woman, no matter the circumstances I found myself in.

I knew a lot of people and I still know them. The vast majority of my life has been spent building good relationships with people who I enjoy spending company with and I’ve gotten to know a great many people through life and through my husband and family. I think that a lot of opportunities in life are contingent on who you know and how well you know them, there are a lot of doors that will not be opened unless you know the right people and they will remain closed until you either meet those people or you make a name for yourself. Parts of life are totally dependent on luck and good will but others are completely based on who you know and how well you’re able to drop their names in day to day conversation. If you are generally unpleasant to be around, people will not want to know you or even be associated with you. That’s a simple fact and it’s something I believe in and have told people when they’ve come to me asking for advice.

You cannot expect people who don’t know you to care about you. My Grandma was always the first woman in the room to genuinely ask people how they were doing but I’d watch her veneer slip when people would take a simple question and use it to get into the rough parts of their life. No one likes to have the trauma of others dumped upon them without permission and it’s not really appropriate to do so in most social situations; pouring your issues or insecurities onto people who you do not know makes you look unhinged. I was always taught to remove myself from situations where people misunderstood where they stood with me as quickly as possible and to be kind but firm when informing them that they had my condolences when it came to their current fortunes, my best wishes for their future endeavours, and my respect for their resilience.

I was always told to stay far from people who cause unnecessary drama, either with malice or due to misfortune. One of my clearest memories is of my Grandfather’s then secretary getting very very drunk, drunker than anyone should ever be, and having to be physically lifted and carried out of a dinner we were at and put to bed. It didn’t matter that my Grandfather hadn’t provided her with a single drink, his name was associated with her and he was brought into the drama she’d caused by making poor decisions. If you get through the right doors or into the right circles and you begin acquainting yourself with people who speak too loudly of things they know not of or cause unnecessary trouble, you’ll be associated with them and your reputation will be at risk of tarnishing. I rarely quote Darcy but he was completely right when he stated that some good opinions, once lost, are lost forever. People tend to be judgemental, you don’t need to give them legitimate reasons to judge you and you don’t want to struggle to clear your name when it should be clean.

This doesn’t apply to every situation but it applies to all of the situations that I’ve found myself in. My family has always been of the opinion that no one will take you seriously if you don’t present yourself as a woman who’s meant to be taken seriously. If you don’t take care of your body then people will assume that you don’t take care of your health, if you don’t take care of your looks then people will assume that you don’t care about your presentation, if you don’t actually pursue your passions and work towards goals then people will assume that you don’t have anything that drives you in life. People tend to actively pursue and actively want to be around people who present themselves as getting great and doing good, they love people who are into themselves and want to be more, and ambition is a quality that most people like to see, no one wants to waste the best years of their life with someone who isn’t motivated, isn’t actively pursuing something, and doesn’t want to be anything. My Grandma was always the first to tell me that people viewed me as serious and devoted because she taught me to go out of my way to be perceived that way and she was always very clear in teaching all of her daughters to be serious with themselves. Sometimes people will not perceive you as serious until they’re forced to, don’t engage with them and don’t beg on your knees for basic human dignity.

wardrobe ♥︎

rhinestone encrusted hoops

Tory Burch flip flops

fur scruchies

a pink velour tracksuit

a fuzzy knit lounge set

Ted Baker arycon bag

fur boots

halter and crop tops

extra fuzzy sweaters

fur earmuffs

Louis Vuitton pochette

black leather bag

over the knee boots

matching robes and slippers

heart necklace

brown tinted shades

cute tote bags

belly chains

a big pink purse

a pair of classic black open toe heels

low rise flare jeans

little black dress

fur coat

denim on denim ensemble

rhinestone tees

plaid skirt

makeup ♥︎

Fenty “Fussy” and “Diamond Milk” gloss

clear lip gloss

Tarte Maneater mascara (omg best, I’ll see if I can find a dupe)

Anastasia Beverly Hills Dipbrow

NYX liner pot

Becca highlighter

Anastasia Beverly Hills Norvina 4 palette (favv)

shimmer pigments for eyes

a fav bronzer

concealer

a red lipstick and liner that suits your skin tone

creamy pink gloss

a brown and dark pink lip liner

self care ♥︎

a gentle facial cleanser

a loofah

Tree Hut scrubs

paddle brush

coconut oil

shea butter

a selection of eau de parfums

bath oil

soft fabric towels for your body

tweezers

nair

razors with 4+ blades

a signature scent

a face oil

Mamonde Rose toner

spf 30

miscellaneous ♥︎

fluffy pens

diary

cute phone case

planner

AirPods and a cute case

an emergency bag for your purse or backpack (deodorant, tampons/pads, pain killers, tums, panties, listerine strips, cash)

fragrance pens

power bank

a really cute mirror

the bimbo is the girl whose head is consumed in thoughts of how pretty she is, how hot she always looks, and how everyone is obsessed with her.

makeup:

perfect. 24/7. focus on falling in love with your features and playing them up with your makeup. plump lips, doll like lashes and pretty peachy pink blush are go tos for me personally! highlight under your brow’s arch with a slightly shimmery powder or cream highlighter. bimbos only believe in pink lips, soft pink pretty lips. find a signature pink lippie that’s perf for you and keep one on you. apply it constantly. as Cher Horowitz said: “anything you can do to draw attention to your mouth is good!” she spends forever on her makeup when she’s getting ready but everyone can tell she’s a natural beauty.

fashion:

straight out of a Victoria’s Secret pink catalog from 2009. always cute. always pretty. consistently. her signature color is pink. she’s mastered the cute and comfy but still sexy and alluring look. this can be done with tracksuits, uggs, leggings, comfy sweaters, etc. lots of heels. as high as you can stand it and work your way up. everything she wears conforms and shows off her figure. cutest sandals with glitter and such in the summer. lots of mini dresses. a resident bimbo, Paris Hilton, explains it nearly perfectly here. I disagree with the point about uggs, uggs are essentials to not only bimbos but prissy girls in general. and NO trucker hats, ew. 

nails and hair:

pornstar from 2007 all the way. we want pink. we want frenchies. not too long but definitely not stubs. try cute BUT simple additions like glitter, charms, rhinestones but nothing too gaudy. ponytails. big bombshell hair. scrunchies. hair clips. anything to play up your doll like features while also amping up your sex appeal. shake your hair out with your hands all day to keep it big and pretty.

more tips:

cleavage and skin! tastefully but show it nonetheless. push up bras will be your best friend

you have to keep the appearance that you’re not thinking about anything. except yourself. pull your mirror out and blow kisses at yourself every 10 minutes

cute jewelry are a must. again, anything to push your doll like features. my signature is hoops, charm bracelet, and heart shaped charm necklace. find any and every excuse to show off your belly button ring. and if you don’t have one, get it.