tornado wrangler.

i guess we can forget it? i feel the same and i still can't believe this is are life. we are very lucky and i know not everyone gets to have this. i do try! i think they will? i just know that my family isn't as..open as yours? i don't think we should avoid it! i think that she will like you and this. i know that she probably thought i would stay in la for a long time. since i'm the reason that we moved there. it is? you talked to lauren about it? i think that she will be but i also think that she is going to enjoy it! i promise, everything is going to go fine.

Is it something that's going to be bugging you though? Because I don't want that either. So, that's where you get your closed offness from...here I thought it was just because you didn't want to let anyone in right away. If you don't think we should avoid it then we won't. I'll coordinate with my family so we can do it this weekend, and make sure your mom and brother feel welcomed...the Texas way. Well, you aren't gone from LA forever. And I think we should definitely talk about how raising the kiddos is going to go and all that. I did talk to her about it. Whew, got me all kinds of nervous, sweetheart.

glen, i am not trying to fight? i am trying to understand whatever is going on. i know you do and we love you too. i never thought that we would get to have this. i know that we are so lucky to have this. i hope that you do know that and i know that i'm not always the best with showing how i feel. i hope that it is! a family barbecue? that sounds nice and i just hope they will get along. thank you for that! i think that she is used to me living in hotels? since i was before you and i become a couple. i think she is just going to be very surprised by everything when she shows up.

It's nothing really, we can just forget it, yeah? Just knowing that the three of you love me is enough to get me through life, honestly. We really are so lucky to have this little life. This little family. You try your best to show it, and that's good with me. Do you think they won't get along? Should we avoid it? I just hope that she likes me and likes the life that we're living now. Meeting your family has been one of the most nerve wracking things I've done, and I couldn't understand why...but then Lauren told me it's because I just really love you and that kind of just stuck with me. If she's surprised, I hope it's in a good way and she enjoys her time with us.

i'm not mad, i'm confused? i'm sure that we will find something. i think you are going to be the best dad, super dad. i feel like you are making a lot of assumptions and i don't understand it. you don't...have to tread lightly. i promise that you are going to be the best dad. our son and daughter don't know how lucky they are to have you. i do love your family, i hope you know that. i'm hoping that it'll be a nice visit and i think he is? she sounded surprised when i mentioned she wouldn't have to worry about a hotel.

We can just drop it because I don't want us to fight over something so stupid. And over what I'm feeling. Just know that I love you and I love our babies, okay? I never thought I'd ever get this lucky to have not just you, but kids with you and yet here I am...living out a dream. No, I know that you do love them. I'm not saying that you don't. It should be a nice one. We can have a nice family barbecue one of the days so our families can meet too. Then I'll make sure both rooms are ready for them then. Really? Did she really think we'd put them up in a hotel?

i am more than okay with it since i think it's normal? glen...why do you think i would? i know that i had some freak outs when we found out that we were pregnant. i didn't think you were still worrying. i am too but i'm sure that something else might pop up for us in the future? i hope that we are super parents when they turn one! we will be and i love it, honestly. fear was not the best word to use. are you scared that our babies are going to play favorites? i promise they won't! i know but i just feel like i'm still finding my footing with your family. if she'll understand, that's a relief. by the way...my mom called and they are heading over to us. are we ready for that?

Hey hey, don't get mad at me for simply saying what I feel or am thinking. I'm staying hopeful that we will work on something together again soon. If anything I see you being super mom and totally owning it. Feels like I've used a lot of words recently that kind of upset you, but anyway. I'll try my best to tread lightly with what I say or how I say it. I don't know...I just want to make sure that I'm a good dad is all. I know and that's okay. I know my family can be a lot to handle at first. Oh really? Good, I'm glad that she's coming out. I'm ready for it, and I'll make sure the guest room is all set for her. Is your brother coming as well?

i'm sure we'll find one but it's okay if it takes a while. it's part of why we work so well. i know, we both have so much going on. i meant to tell you i loved the trailer for running man. they probably will be and i'm sure they are going to let me know. they are! i know and i want you there with me, helping. you fear that? i promise that he will love us both equally. i think it's just that my mom isn't like yours. it's just different but i don't want to upset her?

As long as you're okay with us taking time to find the groove then we should be okay. I was kind of worried that you'd get frustrated with it. You did?? Still bummed we didn't get to work on that together. I think a year from now we'll be able to deem ourselves as super parents. We'll be taking over the world in the acting field and also in the parent field. Okay maybe fear was not the best word to use, but I just hope that he loves me as much as you. There's nothing wrong with different and needing time to adjust. She'd understand that, sweetheart. Tell you what, we'll do whatever you think is best and what you feel most comfortable with.

you're not an expert? it's been a minute since i saw it, and honestly i really only remember the teeth, but did you not run around in a wig or two for hitman? i think that makes you a pro. a wig would be cool. but the over-stimulation would be too much. you can get those nifty hair dyes that wash out super fast now anyways - that sounds like far more fun to me. i'm offended that you're asking what other reasons there are. has this entire conversation not screamed cool girl vibes to you, glen? if anyone rolls your eyes for talking about your children, then i'd say they aren't really people that you need to associate with, right? twins is for real bonkers. do they run in your family? ah well, sleep is for the weak anyways. have you managed to nab some time off work, too? oh, you so are. but at least you know it!

Just because I wore a couple of different wigs for a film, it doesn't make me an expert, but if you want to think I am? I won't fight it. See, hair dye and such is something that I'm not too well rounded in, but if there's that option then go for it. You get a whole new look without feeling like you're over stimulated or damaging your hair. Hey hey, don't feel offended because of that! You're a super cool girl, but you know. I'm going to roll with that logic of yours and if anyone gives me shit for talking too much about my kids then I'm going to tell them that our friendships is over. They do run in my family, actually. On my dad's side and my sister actually had two sets of twins...which that's real insane. Luckily yeah, they've been real lenient with letting me stay home for a month or two with Syd. I was determined to not miss out on too much, especially their first few months on this earth.

Another pair? Oft, that’s rough, dude. How many kids does she got? At least you know to keep it at bay — don’t know if that could be me. I go into every situation with the worst possible scenario in my head.

Her first set of twins are pretty grown to the point they don't have to really worry about sleepless nights with them. But the new set? Well, lets just say that I'm learning from her. She's got 4 kids now. It's not easy, I'll say that much, dude. So essentially you're a debbie downer?

i was pretty much focused on taking home our babies and trying to find a balance. i still feel like i'm trying to find one. i know but i just don't love...sitting still. right, i'll call my trainer and let them know. i know they want me in perfect shape for split fiction. oh, i completely have that covered. though i do want to make sure that i am there for when we put them down. we have a routine and i don't want to miss that. plus the way that our son likes to nuzzle up to me? best thing ever. wouldn't that be...a little...rude?

I think we're going to be trying to find said balance for awhile or at least until they're old enough to help out. You and I both, babe. It's one of the many reasons we have projects lined up like crazy, not that I'm complaining about it or anything. Mm, yeah they'll probably be thrilled when they hear you want to get back into it. I know routines for babies is important, so I don't dream of ruining it for them but if I can help...then I will. I fear that he's going to be a mama's boy. Yes and no? If you feel like she's being too much then I'm sure she'll understand and give us a bit of space.

maybe she was still processing? right, i wouldn't know either and you think i would have asked when i should or can. this healing journey is no joke. i am going to start slow and work my way back to where i was. are you sure? they can be a lot with their nightly feedings. she does and i love her even if she's a lot to get used to.

Maybe? I think the whole going home with two babies and trying to figure out how to juggle it all took over your mind, like it did for me. I know it is, baby. But it's all for good reasons. I think that's a smart idea. You don't want to try and get back to where you were before and hurting yourself. Of course, I'm sure. As long as you leave bottles ready for them in the fridge then I've got it. Should I tell her to back off a little?

clearly you were just blessed. though now i'm so curious, are you going to put them in matching outfits? i bet that you are going to be a great dad. what if...i don't listen and end up going overboard anyway? you are welcome! i had a quiet one this year with, you know with the loss...it didn't feel right to do something big?

I don't think we are? I mean, maybe if they were both boys or girls. But since they're not and they really have their own personalities, doing matching outfits doesn't seem too fitting for them. Thank you, Ari. Really it means a lot to hear that. Then we would be eternally grateful and we'd be in full debt. That makes sense honestly, and completely valid for you to spend it doing something small and quiet.

You really missed out on the one big perk of uncle status there, dude. should have done it while you had the chance. One day at a time is all you can do while adjusting to being a parent, right? Don’t wanna overthink things too much otherwise you’ll spiral. I’m full of surprises.

It's okay, my sister just had another pair of twins a few months ago, so I've still got plenty of time. That's what I've been told by my parents and sister, yeah. I think we're doing alright. Right now, we're keeping overthinking at bay and just rolling with the punches.