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Hello girl. I can see you are on tumblr right now. That is all

First time making creme brulee and I dont wanna brag but it was immaculate. It was perfectly thick and creamy. It had such a nice flavor and it was honestly as perfect as it gets.

Why is it so hard to have arguments with some people. They take it from a simple debate into a personal attack just becuase your views dont align. Its not that simple either. They become so worried about distancing themselves from a certain group, that their argument loses all nuance. Theyre black and white thinking is impossible to deal with. The exact name for this is It goes from an argument to an attack on the person. You wouldnt expect something like that from a friend of 5 years, but I guess people change in the blink of an eye. Only one month prior we were singing conan in the guitar closet. Its almost baffling to see how fast someone can choose to go from a close friend into someone you wouldn't trust with a simple secret. //////////////////////////////// I think its important that people learn how to argue. Don't bother arguing if you have no interest in understanding the other side in the slightest. Furthermore, insulting someone's character, integrity, and views just because they arent the same as yours. You'd think the person in question would know that, being pro choice and pro inclusivity and all. I guess some people dont practice what they preach. ///////////////////////////////////////////////////// My problems with this person started a few weeks ago when my personal boundaries were thought of as an excuse to not do anything with them. Theyre sister also chimed in and was pretty harsh. They claimed that they still had strong feelings for me which I felt was super inappropriate given the context. It baffles me how a close friend could disregard chronic health issues THEY KNOW ABOUT. Guilting someone for After distancing for a few days they returned like nothing had happened. They struggled to take accountability for anything they were doing. They wouldn't reach out and then they'd wonder why people stopped being friends with them. I attempted to open theyre eyes but to no avail. /////////////////////////////////// A few days layer we were talking about ai, they escalated from 1 to 100, and thats where we are now. I called them out on their ad homenin and they havent talked to me since. They destroyed our duolingo friend streak of around 400 days. They clearly dont want to take a high road on this and look at their actions. If they want to lose friends then be my guest. If they wanna talk I MIGHT still be open to it. MAYBE. Honestly just fed up, annoyed, and a little bit hurt.