look at the skill and spirit

Male socialization is such an evil rhetoric. Yeah I guess not transitioning at the age of 5 is my fault and I'm evil for it. Yeah I guess not having the childhood I wish I did means I'm a danger and I should perpetually apologize for it

It's nice that loud noises don't stick to clothes like smells do. That would be really bad if they did.

noise pollution being less transient would drastically change our relationship with the infrastructure that produces it but I think in some small ways it could also be beautiful, like when you hang out with your friends around a bonfire then for the next few weeks your clothes smell like that night of hanging out with your friends. How would it feel if sound lingered in the same way? I imagine the day after an ecstatic rave, going about your life as usual but feeling the bass hum on your jacket reminding you of that joy, or of borrowing a friend's favourite scarf and hearing around your neck the faint imprint of the shows she attended, the loud cafe she frequents, something else so familiar you can't quite put your finger on that animates your subconscious for the rest of the conversation. It would also be really really funny if you could accidentally make your clothes sound like sex. like babe keep it down my wardrobe door is open. lol.

I saw a post on a terf blog before I blocked it from someone being like "Ummm is anybody else really concerned about the rise of antisocial kinks like pissing" and it made me laugh so hard I almost did a little antisocial kink myself

The notion of pro-social vs antisocial kinks is itself hysterical to me. As though there's no way to be abusive and exploitative in an orgy, as though there's no way to achieve immense intimacy and care by peeing on each other. Nothing needs to be intrinsically anything. Everything is a function of the people involved. And like not to Devil's Sacrament you but how are you even measuring the relative growth of piss kinks at all, I NEVER see that shit

What if I start a trend called "No one nuts November" where everyone writes about their favorite characters having bad sex that sucks and isn't fun.

despite "snatched by stranger" being the overwhelmingly predominant scenario for kidnapping stuff it really never stops being crazy hot thinking about a switch flipping somewhere in a trusting dynamic when your friend realizes how much easier things would be for them if they just didn't let you leave this time

ty for the addition! I've heard from other ppl who need compression & find a lot of available options too small that looking at companies who market stuff for lipedema can be a good way to find things that are larger, as well, if that helps anybody format search terms when looking for these things

more people need to give themselves permission to write and draw pornography

it is virtuous and necessary that you write, draw, and distribute pornography

can we start with not conflating "erotic/sexual art or writing" with pornography

no lmao