just let me love you

im about to pine: i have trauma nightmares a lot i want someone to hold my hand and tell me it's ok im soft

oh! will u tell us about who you’ve fallen in love with?

My boyfriend and I have been together on and off for two years now. My family and friends get skeptical of him a lot because he has a lot of problems with anxiety preventing him from being present in the relationship, and we live an hour apart so that means I don’t see him a lot. I know he cares about me more than most things in his life but it really does get to me sometimes when the people closest to me doubt me so much because I do love him. I don’t know if there’s anything to say but. Yeah.

2nd update!!! from the ~help me shut off my feelings kid~ i told my best friend i have feelings for her this morning!! and she still has feelings!! she’s liked me for two years!! what is my life!!!!! we’re still discussing our feelings and our expectations and what happens now and honestly this whole day has been a haze for both of us, but things are so so good and i am so so damn happy :) life is good :)

I’ve been with my bf for 3 years - since we were 17. I adore him.But it is hard to be in such a longterm relationship from so young, for me anyway. I love the excitement of new crushes etc and recently I met this person that I have mad chemistry with and I know he likes me. I would never do anything to hurt my bf but I can’t stop thinking about new guy, and it’s so nice to feel new crush feels. I want to do the right thing but I feel so close to wanting to just go into the unknown for once..

My best friend was originally home schooled and she recently started going to our public school this year. I mentioned in passing some of the people I've become really good friends with over the years while she's been home schooled and this includes my male best friend (who also happens to be my crush). So she is now acquainted with my friends and has developed a crush on my crush. Today I found out that they were doing some not so kid-friendly things during study hall. 1/2

There's this sophomore I met recently. Hes easygoing and funny and can be sweet. He dresses professionally when school calls for it and today we both had worn our suits. I liked his new haircut and applauded him when he spoke up in class. He likes to play video games when he's resting. The issue is I am a senior and I'm concerned about the fact I like a boy so young, and what he might think of me.

i've been crazy in love with my best friend for about 6 months. i don't want to stop liking her but i don't think she feels the same towards me. im too scared to make a move too, i value our friendship so much i just don't know what to do. my feelings only grow the more i see her though, and even if she was cool still being friends i would be too embarrassed to see her. what do i do?? p. s. love ur blog ❤

I realized recently that I’ve developed pretty strong feelings for a friend and I don’t know what to do about it. I’m going to school in Nor Cal and he’s going to school in So Cal. I’ve tried to push the feelings down and seek out other people but I can’t make myself be interested in anyone but him. Most of the time I like the idea of being with someone and once I realize that then the feelings go away but I’ve examined these feelings every which way and I just really like him. Help! 🙈

!! update !! recently i asked how to shut off feelings for my best friend. but things have been so good & we held hands/cuddled at a party last night! im a little nervous things will be weird or stiff when i see her tmrw, or even worse nothing will have changed at all. last night i was so sure she has feelings for me too, but i woke up and it’s hard to believe it even happened. i thought it was a dream for a minute. do u think i should keep pushing the envelope or let it be for a bit?

I have a boyfriend, and we’ve been together for quite a while now. But I met someone a little while ago and I fell hard. Harder than I ever have for sure. I’ve tried really hard to get over it because it’s not that I don’t still love my s/o, but I can’t manage to keep my mind off this other guy. I feel bad for keeping this a secret, but I can’t bring myself to do that to him and it’s not like I even have a chance with this other friend anyway. Do I talk about it to either of them? And how?