the crystal gems love you!

hah! if even diamonds are flawed, i daresay it’s alright if you are too.

(blog unrelated!)

no, oh goodness no! i’m very sorry. i don’t want this blog to die, i just have a lot of trouble creating new things for it. but i hope that the existing posts cover some comforting ground and continue to help people even if they aren’t necessarily new!

oh that’s so sweet!!!! thank you... honestly at this point i’m, not sure? i’ve said no to post creation mods in the past just because i’m very specific in my ways, i guess! and it’s hard for me to imagine someone else doing this alongside me here! (i swear i’m not just super stuck up (i hope)! for full disclosure, i have ocd that makes me really particular with wellmostthings stuff i make)

but from a more, inspiration and idea point of view, i maybe should think of a mod-ly friend! to help me with what to write on posts some of the time (sometimes posts are out of my area of experience, sometimes i’m burned out and don’t have the faculties to write things, and sometimes i just plain ol dunno what to say)...

please remember that this blog is heavily request based. these posts are things that people request to help them - sometimes that content can seem silly or ooc (such as yd wishing humans good health) but before you leave a witty or belittling reply, please understand: the irony or hypocrisy of the post versus the character? yes, it had occurred to me. i write these posts, friend! or that a different character might have fit the post better, not (whoever)? again, yes, i know - but that’s not what the person asked for, that wasn’t the thing that would have helped them the most, which is what requests are about. it’s not for me to look at someone asking for a character they love to give them support and say “actually, that’s ooc”. anyone is absolutely free to request any post again but with someone different, but please don’t mock the original content and request.

please just... give some leniency. i’m often doing what people ask of me, but even when i’m not - i’m still only one person, and i am trying my best, to promote sentiments of care and health. sometimes it will seem silly, but what seems silly to you was made to help someone else. and the things that occur to you? they occur to me, too!

apologies for the rant, but this has been a downer on me for a long time, especially because i try really hard with these posts and they’re often exhausting to find the motivation to do. so when i try my best, and see someone either jabbing at me or another person’s idea of encouragement, it can really get to be discouraging.

being a nonbinary lesbian doesn’t mean i’m untouchable when it comes to excluding other people and identities, so, if you have any suggestions of how i could boost up the places i am lacking, or any ideas for posts regarding topics i don’t normally touch on, please do share!!!! i want this blog to feel welcoming to everyone, and it’s a downfall on my part if that is not the case!!!