probably freakin out

i feel like it'd be at least a step forward in destigmatising self harm if more people recognised just how many of their less than perfect lifestyle choices can be defined - and weaponised - as "self harming behaviours"

if you've never had "you could hurt yourself" used as a threat against your right to autonomy over your own body then i'm grateful it isn't something you've been taught to expect and factor into your decisions just to be allowed to retain that self determination without having it challenged

Not sure who needs to hear it but this is an appreciation post for the fellow asexuals with varying sex-repulsion, who struggle to or don’t watch a majority of adult shows/movies due to the frequent inclusion of sexual scenes

sex actually isnt real they made it up for ao3

men are not inherently evil. men are not inherently oppressors. men are human beings like anyone else and to think they're born "wrong" is terf shit, and also just childish. the world is not black and white -- it is a rainbow.

there’s something very beautiful about being able to try again tomorrow

I have been trying tomorrow for the past 3 years

and you still have tomorrow to try again

they hate me for my ardent refusal to accept cruelty as the status quo

"what if you regret it" what if I don't?

I understand your point, however this maybe wasn't the best post to cross my dash while I'm fighting the temptation to text my ex.

this is about transitioning DO NOT TEXT YOUR EX ITS NOT WORTH IT DONT DO IT

Sorry we really went from free the nipple, take back the night, slut walks, and ending gender/sex segregation in sports being fucking milquetoast feminism 101 concepts to fucking girl dinner and "I just worry about fairness if we let trans girls play against cis ones" and "it was right of that woman to call the cops on a black man for existing near here in public during the day time because men are all violent monsters" and "radical feminism isn't transphobic we just need to kill all men including trans ones those oppressive traitors" and I will legit never be able to be normal about it. What the FUCK happened. I'd say I wonder what the feminists of my youth would say about this but I'm one and lemme tell ya I want to throw up. Go fucking read bell hooks or do something else useful please because all of this learned helplessness, gender essentialism, and transphobia dressed up as feminism is actively holding us back.