it’s been a minute. thought i would visit this little past time since twitter is having a moment.
my last post was about how i didn't know what i was doing with my life. i think i have a better idea?
buddha, my first-ever dog died. which made me realize that life is short. and that i hated my job/workplace. so i quit and now i’m learning to code so i can work from home. and have a regular schedule aka have regular hours and not work weekends and holidays.
i also want to start my own business somehow on the side.
getting married. still debating kids. not sure i have the bandwidth.
my phd ex-therapist suggested i get assessed for autism. i thought about it for a year. finally decided to do it. psychiatrist who talked to me for 45 minutes didnt think i was on the spectrum. i think i’ll trust my therapist who spent a year and a half with me.
basically, reclaiming my agency and creating a life more suited for my special needs. the best part: not doing it alone.














