Frum Secrets

I'm a "frum" chasedish guy im my mid 20s I'm married with children and I love my wife even though I have a big sex drive I never thought I'll cheat on my wife but unfortunately it happened once and from once with only her it went to numerous times with as of now a count of 6 of course it's all a secret to everybody besides me the funny part that if from the most frum families who dress the frumist there's of'em who are really hot and sexy and no the game big time and at the other hand there's from really open minded families with really open minded husbands who are still looking for more and I'm talking from personal experience the damn part is that I decided to stop and stay clean only for my wife but these women won't let go they keep on calling and texting hey… I miss you I need you etc one would even wait for me in front of my house just to give me a wink and smile without obvious notice and leave so I can't let go so so far I'm still far from clean but maybe one day I'm just trying to figure out what am I so different and unique that they can't let go even when I tell them I wanna stay clean and they understand but still they come back.

I am a chassidishe woman from Boro Park, in my upper 30's, I have been married for almost 20 years. My secret is that I am bi, I have been having sex with girls since high school, and did not stop after I got married. I now have a few women, all chassidish, that I meet frequently whenever I can to have sex with. No one besides these few women know about this, and they do not know about each other either.

I had relationship with a man, who did some work on our house. To add to this drama, he is a goy. I hate myself, but I can't stop. I am a mom of 4 kinderleh, and feel like I am a horrible influence.

I am a chassidish woman who wears thick tights, a shpitzel and clothing up to my collarbone. But underneath it all I wear very sexy lingerie.

I secretly got an abortion. Not even my husband knew.

I'm almost positive my 15-year-old son is gay. We're shtark yeshivish. I have no idea what to do for him.

I go into the city every week to attend 2 college classes I secretly signed up for. My husband has no idea.

My husband wants another child. I don't. Three is enough for me. I haven't told him, but I've been on birth control for over a year. 

People think I’m a man but I’m actually a woman. I hate being the 10th man because it’s a lie.

I love learning torah, love being frum. Don't believe a word of it is true.

I think I'm an apikores. Not sure what I should do.

I can't stand learning gemara. I've been in kollel for almost 10 years.

I haven't had sex with my husband in almost a year. I'm a kallah teacher.

I fantasize about my rosh yeshiva's wife. I hate myself when I do it, but I can't seem to stop.