look. thereâs no such thing as perfect altruism. youâll always get something out of helping or being kind to others, whether itâs a stronger relationship or returned kindness or just the feeling of having done good. thereâs nothing inherently bad about getting something from doing good either, especially since itâs completely unavoidable. people being rewarded for putting love into the world doesnât make the world a worse place. so just do as much good as you can and donât worry about being âselflessâ while doing it, because being truly selfless is in fact impossible.
and like man did that take the pressure off of Being A Good Person!! youâre allowed to enjoy helping people! youâre allowed to be kind without worrying that youâre maybe secretly just doing it for yourself!! itâs okay if you are doing it for yourself because youâre still being kind to others!!!!!