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Starting with your current love life and energy. Either some of you guys have a love interest who may have fire placements, specifically sun or venus? If not, you guys are attracted to passionate visionaries who take the lead and the thing is, even though that’s what you want, that’s also who you are. So you’re keeping to yourself because you have a certain ideal of what you are looking for in a partner - passion, chemistry, someone who can lead, someone adaptable and influential, someone who’s proud of who they are, and able to get up and to their best everyday. You are very likely to be attracted to ambitious people and especially active people, even physically - gym rats, runners, etc. Some of you may have a preference for a bigger body type at least on the shoulders and for some of you - calves? Possibly even thighs. You also want someone who is charismatic in a way in which they have a big aura and are a great leader, respected, admired but still friendly, and someone who genuinely cares about those around and under them, and know how to function in roles without letting them get to their head even if they’re internally a really proud person. For many of you, either you haven’t met anyone like this yet so you’re reserved or even if you have, they may not be reflecting or didn’t reflect the kind of leadership of the relationship, giving it form and direction as you may have wanted, and so, you are lush life-ing a little as in, “it was a crush but I gave it up.” In the past, you used to have strong reasoning skills even as a child but the thing is, your rigidness and strictness may have made you seem a bit cold, and hence, caused you to be misunderstood by your peers and either you never met anyone who really melted your heart or you experienced a situation in which, you felt like the pain that you didn’t even know was repressed, that you didn’t even know you carried within you was being healed and smoothed over just for you to end up getting hurt by the very same person who made you feel as though they were giving you comfort and applying a healing balm on your wounds. It was a very troublesome situation for you, even though externally, you were not showing that you were hurting, the scrutiny you were facing, the fears, the pain, the paranoia, not knowing what’s real and what’s not, and guilt because you have always been able to look at where you’re lacking in terms of consideration. It’s like, you were sort of unable to show others just how much of a storm was brewing inside you. Over time, you may have ended up doing so but I think that outwardly, you were not breaking down the way you were internally so even though you thought maybe others noticed and they may have, they likely didn’t notice the intensity of it all. I think that before you experienced whoever or whatever this was, you were not aware of your tendency towards guilt and paranoia, and your anxious avoidant style that you tend to fluctuate between. You opened up with a lot of courage and you may have troubled the guy or girl, or whoever a bit because of your own issues or so you thought and because you felt guilty, you may have decided to act compassionately going forward, to remain controlled, and not repeat the cycle of stressing them out because of your own fears and all the mental, and emotional stuff, all the turmoil that came up but even when you tried to open up to people, you felt isolated and like they were not choosing you, that they were not truly seeing, and understanding you and you may have also felt like it is pointless because you do not feel fulfilled with anyone either.
For some of you, you may have been single your entire life but may have dealt with similar themes in some way. Over time, you have grown and as you healed from the pain, multiple, and extremely deep cutting pain, rock bottom, regardless of whether it was related to romance or not, you started seeing the lack of reliability and consideration for you but you felt so unchosen, and discarded and possibly even humiliated. I think many of you were majorly overlooked. No matter what it was, you just got out of it and stopped feeling the need to go out there you know? For you now, due to past situations, anyone who does not put in effort or equal to it, or/and lacks work ethic in general, even if they show willingness with you, you do not want it and are fine by yourself. You yourself are not interested in putting in effort tirelessly into anyone. You have a lot of love to give and just pour it into yourself, and other aspects of your life rather than trying to derive it externally. You have a desire for love but the kind of love you want is very particular and anything lesser, you’re not willing to accept. To you hand holding is also fairly special and you want a love in which, the other is straightforward, and bold and initiates, and leads but is simultaneously gentle and seems a bit shy, and flustered because they’re just that affected by you. You want it to be obvious that they like you a lot and even to others. You want them to seem visibly happy for everyone to see when they talk about you or are around you. No matter how sexual you may or may not be. You are likely to want the other person to greatly enjoy even just the innocent things with you so much that they do not care too much about the other things or more so you want them to desire you in that way too but even if they do, they are just so in love with you that they are not interested in taking things there in a faster pace than you’re comfortable with. You are attracted to really driven people and anyone else, you do not even want to be bothered, you do not want to waste your time, and energy. You have a particular kind of people that you consider to be losers and you’re absolutely unwilling to be associated with them. You may be disgusted at the very idea. You want there to be obvious electric chemistry and you want to know that they like you. You want to be in control but for the other person to steer the wheels, but in the direction that you wish for it to go, you know? It is very important for you to be loved loudly and proudly because you do the same. You want them to lose their inhibitions and just come forth to you wholly. You cannot deal with a cowardly person, courage and passion are incredibly important to you. You are fearless and passionate, and stubborn and courageous, and you want someone to love you for these qualities, appreciate your strengths in these categories rather than ‘despite’ them and so it’s important that you meet someone similar to you in this respect. Someone who appreciates these qualities just the way you do. You want them to feel freer with you and vice versa, and for it to be a passionate, puppy-ish, high school romance kind of love yet deep and full of sentiments.
If you enjoyed this reading, you may join me for the extended reading on Patreon. It is titled ‘how to ignite your love life’ but I’m not going to give you unrealistic promises because it seems to be more about building yourself upto it, to attract it to you by aligning yourself into the right vibe over time.
꒰ How to feel more desirable? ꒱
꒰ What puts a damper on your love life? ꒱
꒰ What will help you reach your full relationship potential? ꒱
꒰ How to add some sizzle into it? ꒱
꒰ How to attract a lover? ꒱
This reading contains 1,268 words and the extended contains 3,345 words, totalling to a sum of 4,613 words. I hope that you enjoy it thoroughly and if you choose not to join for the extended, thank you for your immense support, I’m ever grateful. Much love and take care. Until next time <3.
One thing about you is that you’re possessive. If not, I believe that this is not your pile. You were not always like this, at least not as aware of it or as strongly as you are now but I am getting that your love life is favourable. You have people who think that they’d have to compete to be with someone like you because you are incredibly attractive to them and even in changing environments, and when you are experiencing everyday changes just like every other person, even on days when you may feel like you do not look good or well put together, or didn’t present yourself personality and charisma wise as you should have, you still are incredibly attractive to those around you but the thing is, you have an understanding of the fact that what you want and the needs you hold may not be understood, and revered by the majority and so you’re more reserved but things could change at any time for you. If there has been any love interest at all recently, you may be at a bit of an odds with one another as in, both of you may be more reserved especially you but the feeling that I’m getting is that the situation is ever changing i.e. even though there may be tension and an inability to connect smoothly, you guys may be finding the situation as electric as you may be finding it tiring or you were but it may be growing into more of the latter gradually so you guys may not talk to each other one day then talk to each other on the other or when one person tries to interact with the other, the other may seem distant and a few days later, it may be the other way around. As for your romantic past, if there's any, you are a really reliable person who takes care of who you love in practical ways and is loyal. You greatly value comfort and stability. Very much the kind of person who may visit one café or restaurant often because you’re used to it and it feels cozy because everyone there is used to you too, and you feel at home and you do not even really feel the need to go elsewhere. So you’re the same way romantically too. You value long term connections and understand the value of nurturing one thing to its utmost potential, and allowing it to bear fruits. Plus what makes the fruits so sweet is the effort that you put into it, who you became while taking care of it and the relationship you built with the seed, the plant, the soil, all of it as you planted it, took care of it, and watched it grow. You’re so beautiful, that’s all I have to say. I feel like the way that you are, you have grown a lot, realised and transformed a lot. I just heard that you have lived as many different people experience wise. You are fairly comfortable by yourself and independent too, and honestly, even if there’s no romantic history at all, you seem to be very kind and loving so you share it outwardly, and generously and it makes you feel good about yourself on a soul level, it is not about ego for you, not at all. When you give to others, you genuinely feel lighter as in, it feels like there’s something greater that you’re experiencing and working for, and I’m picking up on you experiencing it from a third person perspective but the third person is something higher? You tend to derive a lot of comfort from your own humility, character, groundedness, kindness, love, compassion and all that you are, and do. If there’s been any negative experiences in the past, you have grown through them and the truth is that without them, you would not be anything.
I need to clarify that for some of you, you may not even have experienced much if anything at all but that does not mean that the reading is not for you, just focus on what is resonating. You may have met someone who you thought was faithful, affectionate and loved you, and it could have been a fairly fast moving connection but it ended as soon as it came in? For some of you, texting or calling was a big part of it and I’m especially hearing about breaking up through the phone 😭. Could have happened when you were younger, I guess. However, how it ended was that either it didn’t grow much or grew too fast but the other party gave up quickly, leaving you to carry all the love that you didn’t even get to give and experience but you may have been unable to give up on them because for you, love is very devotional? Not every one of you experienced this of course but I do get a sense that for most of you even though it was fast moving, there was likely something grounded there, no matter how fleeting, even if for just a bit. You had overflowing love for this person, unconditional, uncontained but they gave up easily so it must’ve felt like they weren’t even trying at all. You had to learn how to give up after holding on for a long time to something fleeting. You cannot catch a bullet with your bare hands after all but that was what you were trying to do by holding onto someone fleeting that passed you by. I think that the purpose of this situation was renewal and emotional opening. While you have always had a great ability to love, you have been very priestly ever since you were a child, that was your main thing. You spent a lot of time thinking about god, philosophies, education, etc. and could have had an affinity for reading but you were very internal, and almost uptight. This situation helped you loosen up over time and not only that but you have also grown into your own character, and so there’s a hint of rigidness there, you’re a serious and principled person, and looking for the same but you are more in the real world now compared to when you were younger, back then, you were trying to make sense of it all but also not being able to but at the same time, you had a lot of natural knowing and understanding of things that you didn’t even know how you knew. However, now you are unable to entertain scrubs and have a particular standard because you yourself have grown to that level, and are aspiring to grow more and more, and so yes, that’s a good thing. Your pile keeps on giving me messages about you as an individual. You are the kind of person who understands that these situations HAD TO happen to you, you tend to think this way about many negative situations even if just on a subconscious level because you tend to derive lessons from literally everything. It is a natural skill of yours. Another energy that I’m getting is that once you experienced all of this or even if you didn’t, you grew up to become a very mature person who values the long term nature of things and has a lot of love to give, and may have met someone who got you, someone who you felt was nice to you and understood you. Conversations and back, and forths may have felt more effortless with this person but the thing is, for some of you, they may be tangled up with someone else already but that is only if you are aware of it, if not, they’re not hiding anything, they’re not involved with anyone but this person may drop wise quotations and actually have the substance to explain what it means, the ability to explain the substance. They may have opened upto you about something in a very unguarded and unpretentious manner spontaneously while you were sharing good conversation but the thing is, with this person, I get a sense that it didn’t move past the conversation phase.
If you enjoyed this reading, you may join me for the extended reading on Patreon. It is titled ‘how to ignite your love life’ but I’m not going to give you unrealistic promises because it seems to be more about building yourself upto it, to attract it to you by aligning yourself into the right vibe over time.
꒰ More details on what you’re looking for in a partner. ꒱
꒰ How to feel more desirable? ꒱
꒰ What puts a damper on your love life? ꒱
꒰ What will help you reach your full relationship potential? ꒱
꒰ How to add some sizzle into it? ꒱
꒰ How to attract a lover? ꒱
This reading contains 1,366 words and the extended contains 3,376 words, totalling to a sum of 4,742 words. I hope that you enjoy it thoroughly and if you choose not to join for the extended, thank you for your immense support, I’m ever grateful. Much love and take care. Until next time <3.
Starting with your current love life and energy. I feel like there are many different energies here or no matter who you are, even as a singular person, there are many different energies within you when it comes to romance. I’ll start with your love life, out of the lot, I think that you’re the most likely to be taken but for most of you, that’s not the case. You’re attracted to really kind people who are emotionally mature. Warmth and comfort mean a lot to you. You’re someone who’s able to emotionally regulate yourself and may be fairly comfortable by yourself, I’m picking up on a certain kind of inner stability for you. We live in a world in which it is normalised for people to seek escape and relief from negative emotions, and situations but you’ve reached a state in which no matter how turbulent life may get, no matter what is going on, no matter how you may be feeling or pushed to feel, you’re able to sit with it without letting it move you and in doing so, while doing so at some point in the past, you were able to transition into calmer waters, into better spaces, either only mentally and emotionally or even physically, or you’re in the process of getting there, no matter what, you avoid pulling people into your own mess and I get a sense that if you have managed to work through such energies in the past, it doesn’t feel as tough for you anymore to move on from people, situations and emotions anymore but a part of the process is just sitting in it. I also get a sense that one of the reasons that it is easier for you now is because your circumstances are much better than they were in the past, like mentally, you’re much more independent and your mind is a much better place to be in but that has resulted in you physically creating a much better world for yourself as well. It has been a result of various different big and little decisions of wanting, and choosing better for yourself and that has changed your neural pathways to think, and live better over time. You seem to be highly comfortable by yourself and are really self focused, and life focused which causes you to have built yourself in a way in which you have a lot to offer to others and you seem to know yourself on a moral, and emotional level, you know what you want and do not want, and you’re able to move on or at least stay still and distant when situation call for it, and the best thing with you is that you do not care what anyone else is doing, obvious unkind behaviour towards you or others in general is an absolute dealbreaker for you and makes you feel bad obviously but there’s no program with you, it’s their world, they can do what they want and it’s your life, you can do what you want. I believe that you’ve always been a really kind person with a lot to offer emotionally but through hard times, you’ve realised and learned that that’s not enough, you were made to feel like it so you have built a tangibly beautiful life for yourself or are in the process of doing so. The name ‘Jude’ came through very strongly and the first thing that came to mind is the song ‘hey Jude’ by The Beatles but I’ve only ever heard this song in passing and the only Beatles song that I’ve truly listened to is ‘I want to hold your hand’ so I’m not sure what it is about. Even if you haven’t built a very stable, secure life for yourself in which you have a lot of wealth yet or can afford to dress and live in a fairly high end manner, and it doesn’t even have to be on a millionaire or billionaire level but could simply be that one local rich person who lives in a fairly gated house, or locality or even if they don’t, they can afford to go on vacations a few times a year, private healthcare, to look good and live good, you present yourself in a manner in which you’re not lacking anything and have high standards for yourself, and others and your life, whatever it consists of, and whatever you do, you are able to enjoy it and are focused on enjoying it, and your goals and how you can enjoy it even more.
Your mindset and life in comparison to the past is likely in a much better place than it used to be, you are a much better person than you used to be. You are also highly self assured. I’m pretty sure that each of you have different starting points and I’m not saying this to offend anyone who may have come from a wealthier family but that’s just how life is rigged, the world functions in that way, that’s just the way it goes. Compared to your starting point, you are in a better place, whatever that means. Every bit of progress that you make counts for something and you should see it as such. I get a sense that the easiest way to get to your heart or build chemistry with you is to be the kindest person ever and unconditionally so, and if there’s anyone you are attracted to, you see them as being kind in general or especially to you but you still see them as a person with emotional integrity and just treats people well even if it is not bordering on EXTREME kindness. I feel like if there is someone you’re interested in also, you are very grounded by yourself and have your own life. If there is anyone like this, you may be really attracted to them. I'm picking up on the feeling of tension being addictive but oddly enough, it seems fairly benevolent. No matter how fun and exciting, and almost addictive, it may all be and even if, for some of you, there are some odd dynamics in the mix, there seems to be some amount of distance, you may not be around each other too much and if you are, you may be keeping to yourselves. The kind of energy that I’m picking up on is not intense yearning but you guys miss each other or feel each other a lot, you guys may think back to your interactions with one another and there’s a sense of really enjoying who you are around each other or like, you guys blend really well when with each other, there could be a very even mix of listening and speaking, and back and forth, I feel like there’s a fondness even from a distance, even when there’s a lack of connection but you guys seem to be moving on from each other and keeping to yourselves for whatever reason. I wanted to look at your mindset about love right now, you are a possessive person and want complete exclusivity in romance, and you hold yourself, your emotions, energy, time, all of it to be extremely precious so you actively hold back on them and you’ve learned through fallouts, and heartaches that having a connection with someone doesn’t mean that you need to lean into it and sometimes the best thing that you can do for yourself, and the connection is to hold back on it and I strongly get a sense that for any of you who may be involved with someone, you may not even consider it as such because first of all, you know and think that you have many options, you know that you’re desirable but you are also aware of the fact that not every option is a viable one so in order to prevent heartache which obviously is not completely avoidable, you value and hold back on what you have to offer until something starkly stands out to you as valuable.
If you enjoyed this reading, you may join me for the extended reading on Patreon. It is titled ‘how to ignite your love life’ but I’m not going to give you unrealistic promises because it seems to be more about building yourself upto it, to attract it to you by aligning yourself into the right vibe over time.
꒰ More details on your love history, patterns, life and attitude. ꒱
꒰ How to feel more desirable? ꒱
꒰ What puts a damper on your love life? ꒱
꒰ What will help you reach your full relationship potential? ꒱
꒰ How to add some sizzle into it? ꒱
꒰ How to attract a lover? ꒱
This reading contains 1,345 words and the extended contains 3,601 words, totalling to a sum of 4,946 words. I hope that you enjoy it thoroughly and if you choose not to join for the extended, thank you for your immense support, I’m ever grateful. Much love and take care. Until next time <3.
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