Words That Take You From Panic ,Pain To Peace

Why do people think that people on the spiritual path should be extra forgiving extra loving take bullshit? Are we on the path to excuse wrongs of others? Its all ok "holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other to die" Agreed Eventually we have to heal our anger... But if we in our attempt to be spiritual we do not process our anger and im not talking of lashing out on anyone..just to acknowledge and process it instead of shoving it under the carpet of spirituality If we dont then who is drinking the poison? Isnt this poison as bad if not worse then the poison of holding on to anger?... Who will fall sick ... Who has to bear the burden of supressed emotions..... We do.... When they teach us anger is not good..they must teach us ways of dealing and healing anger...or most end up just supressing it !!! #conflictsofthepartlyenlightened