Caldera Scarab

Friendly reminder that if you dont want the dumb shit you do online to be shared and end with you humiliated, dont be a twat online. Nobody is required to censor your name when you do or say hurtful, bigoted, or shameful things online. Its not hard to NOT be a complete dickbag online.

Friendly reminder to everyone that jobs are a trade. Like an actual barter. You will work for a company in return for payment of money that is satisfactory for the position worked (per hour). Keep in mind the wording i just used, this does not mean: -A company should pay you absolutely as-legal-as-you-can-get minimum wage -A company should stiff your paycheck, especially if you work overtime -A company can pay you for a lower position when you do not work said position. If you are in a position to do so, apply for multiple jobs and go for the one that pays comfortably. Never stay loyal to a company, or corporation, your "loyalty" ends when the payment ends or is no longer feasible. Keep your options open, and jump ship the second you realistically can. Yes it will be hard, yes it will suck, but its the best options we have.

guys if you're going to learn how to drive a car, please please PLEASE promise that you'll be emotionally competent and learn to manage your anger properly. Im being completely serious, if you cannot get behind the wheel and manage your anger properly so that you dont feel the tendency to murder someone by ramming them with 5-6 tons of steel, plastic, and wires, you dont deserve to commandeer any vehicle at all. Seriously, you must actually make a promise to yourself that when you get your license, you will be completely competent in not just driving it, but also managing your emotions. Yes you'll get upset, yes you'll get pissed, but you need to be able to control your emotions and not get into a fucking accident because you wont allow things to just go. You will kill someone, and you will never forget it.

i fucking HATE youtube sponsors. I hate Air Up, i hate Betterhelp, i hate Established Titles, i hate Honey, ill never use ANY of them SPECIFICALLY BECAUSE they keep rooting themselves everywhere like the snakes they are and the snakes they've been exposed to be. A scam, a dangerous tool that harms people at their lowest, a scam, and ANOTHER scam. I do not care! Nobody does! Nobody waits for their video to be interrupted to go "Yes, thats EXACTLY what i need! A product thats effectively the real life version of a Thneed!", I hate how its just normal to expect your video to be interrupted because a creator decided to just blindly take a sponsorship without doing ANY sort of research at all!

Could be talking out of my ass but i feel like the reason some folks can easily recall every single fact about a particular subject they enjoy but struggle to remember exactly what they did 5 hours/days/weeks ago, is partly due to 'ease of access' of information. Besides literal emotional manipulation and gaslighting fucking with your trust in memory, its easier to fact check "The Roman Empire was at its height in 117AD" because that's easy common knowledge. Its on posters, its in books, its on websites. Its significantly harder to recall potentially one out of thousands of events that happened during the week, let alone months or years because we only have our memory to rely on to get that information. Theres no index for our memories, its just blurry. This is why i beg people to leave paper trails, write stuff down, keep a record; ESPECIALLY IF THEY ARE CURRENTLY IN A SITUATION/DRAMA WITH SOMEONE. As long as you have evidence or knowledge to fall back on, you can trust that what you know is true or at least available.