Caveat Lector; Let the Reader Beware

I know you didn't post it on here. But like I told you...we actually DO know each other much more than you realize (meaning that I actually know you in real life and not just on social media) so that's why I know. Sorry if I creeped you out though. I also wanted to say good luck at your new school.

You obviously don't have to take into account anything I said, but I truly hope you do. But even if you don't, I wish you the best always in this life as well as the next. Also I really hate to bring this up because I'm sure you're so tired of hearing this, but I truly am sorry for your recent loss. I know me saying that doesn't fix anything, but I still just wanted to extend my condolensces if I may.

Dude...you and I have been following each other on here for a long time now and there's something that I just really need to get off my chest. I'm doing this anonymously because I don't want this to cause any issues between us. I've always seen your posts (like I said, we've been following each other for quite a while) but have never said anything but I just can't hold it in anymore. I've seen you change so much, and I don't mean that in a good way either...

It's so hard to be positive when it feels like the whole world and everyone in it just shits on you. But in reality, that's just perception. I'm not saying that your perception doesn't matter. Your perception does matter and YOU matter. But it's because you matter to me that I'm even telling you this, even though it may upset you. When you first started posting about your trans experience back in April of last year (yes, I paid attention), I knew it was gonna be a rough road ahead...

If you keep dwelling on it, you will always be miserable, even after T, new clothes/shoes, new hairstyles, new piercings/tattoos, and all the stuff you've done to alter your apperance. Easier said than done, but stop self sabotaging yourself. You are sabotaging yourself way more than anyone else is. I'm sure you can scroll for literally hours (just like I can), but be mindful of who you allow yourself to follow/interact with on social media...

because it's not like you're gonna stay like this forever, unless YOU are the one to prevent your own growth and positive change. No one else can do that except you. People cannot do what you don't allow them to do. Stop giving others so much power over you. YOU are in charge of your life. YOU call the shots and make the decisions. But at the same time, don't be an ass about it to those who actually stuck around by your side and have been there for you this whole time through everything...