kinda wild that im expected to be fully functioning and capable despite being in pain more often than not
people generally seem to understand that being in pain means there are things you can't do, but when that pain is chronic they suddenly expect you to just be able to deal with it quietly and carry on
you tell someone you have a migraine one time and they treat you gently, you tell them for the 20th time and they argue that it's their god given right to be banging these pots and pans right above your head
