𝕰𝖓𝖙𝖎𝖙𝖑𝖊𝖉

Pile 1:

cards pulled: tea leaf - dagger, younger man, stork, tortoise, bird flying, horse. archetypes - slave (shadow), child: orphan. tarot - king of wands rx, four of cups, queen of cups rx

You’re hard to forget because you leave an emotional mark even when you don’t mean to. People remember you as someone who changed something in them like you made them feel exposed or confronted in a way they weren’t expecting. You cut through people’s ego, call things out, & you shift the power dynamic. You don’t let someone keep living in their fantasy version of themselves. You also have this bittersweet, hard-to-place(?) vibe. You feel really emotionally complex, like you’re caring but not easy to fully reach. People may keep replaying you in their head because they never feel like they got the full story with you. Even if you weren’t trying to be mysterious, you come off like someone who holds a lot back, & that can make people obsess over you & your intentions or what you say. It really sticks over time because in people’s heads you represent change, or like a slow building impact/momentum. People remember you as a turning point in their romantic life, like “before [you]” and “after [you].” You make people keep thinking about you from a distance. You’re unforgettable romantically because you create transformation in people & you don’t feel replaceable. You might not be the easiest love, but you’re definitely the one people learn from.

Pile 2:

cards pulled: tea leaf - casket, gong, funnel. archetypes - martyr, angel. tarot - queen of cups rx, king of wands rx, ten of pentacles rx, eight of pentacles rx, chariot rx, hanged man

You’re hard to forget because you feel like a wake up call in a relationship. Its the feeling of someone realizing something ended, they lost something or things shifted/changed permanently after you. You just don’t leave things the same. You probably aren’t even loud or destructive about it, but once someone experiences you, it rings in their body for a long time. It’s like you mark an ending of an old pattern or a chapter closing. Your energy is quite intense, but in a subtle way “humming” way. You feel deep, but also not fully accessible? Like people can’t read you cleanly so they’re left wondering what you really felt, what you were holding in, & what was actually real. That uncertainty keeps you in their head for way longer than they want to admit. People romanticize you, you come off like someone who loves hard, gives a lot, tries to make it work, & carries more than your share. Even if you aren’t perfect, people remember the effort & the loyalty. They remember you as someone who was willing to invest in the connection. You also have a way of making someone focus, when you’re in their life, you become the main thing they think about. They get pulled into your world & your pace harshly so they’re left with that unresolved feeling of “it could’ve been real if we had just gotten it right.” You’re unforgettable because you feel meaningful, like not a casual fling at all, even if it didn’t work, it felt really important.

Pile 3:

cards pulled: archetypes - queen, warrior, poet (shadow), monk/nun, mediator. tarot - ten of swords, two of swords rx, five of cups, the sun, six of wands

You’re hard to forget because you have presence & pride. People remember you as someone who carried yourself like you knew your worth, even when you were hurting. You have genuine strength, standards, & backbone, you don’t beg or chase, & that alone makes people think about you later, because they realize you were not easily replaceable. You’re also the type people regret losing. You leave a “damn…” feeling behind, like the person knows they hurt you or fumbled you, & the guilt sticks with them. They can try and be nonchalant but the truth eventually hits them & they can’t keep pretending they didn’t care or lying to themselves about what happened. You become the relationship they look back on & finally admit mattered. The strongest part is your bounce back though, you glow even brighter before you net them & you get your confidence back tenfold & people see it. You don’t just disappear into sadness & that makes you unforgettable because people remember the contrast easily. Like you were strong, real, hurt, & yet you still came out shining. You’re unforgettable romantically because you have dignity, impact, & crazy good bounce back.

Pile 4:

cards pulled: tarot - nine of pentacles, six of pentacles rx, five of pentacles rx, knight of pentacles, the empress rx, ace of cups rx. tea leaf - wishbone, hills, fire. archetypes - rescuer (shadow), networker (shadow)

PILE 1 🔥

YOU

[Current Energy] For your current energy regarding the connection, you seem to be focused on making bold movements and bring changes to the situation. Perhaps there are things you realized about yourself and/or the connection, or you reached a point where the current state of things doesn't satisfy you anymore and you have this urgency to shake things up. There is also a sense of this connection activating the part of you that seeks the sweetness/the thrill of love and flirtation and this is pulling you towards your person quite hard. The issue with this is that you may not have any solid plan or even the mental and emotional ability to bring stability to the situation, like coming boldly towards your person without being able to bring commitment in the long run. Could be a bit immature and wearing rose-colored glass regarding the situation.

[Feelings] Your feelings are young and full of passion. You look up to your person with excitement and a burning desire to explore them inside and out. There is an aspect of wanting to appear confident, beautiful and strong even if it doesn't match what is inside. Seducing feels incredible with your person and you're enjoying those moments a lot because of the stimulation and excitement it provides on every level. Basically I don't think you know enough about your person to really have a rooted sense of love and appreciation, but the spark is there and very strong.

[Thoughts] Your thoughts are somewhat a bit more tainted by worry as there seem to be something you know has to be left behind in order to move towards this connection and you are reflecting on this intensely. This connection requires deep change, to put an end to something and for some of you that might be a chapter of your life, a part or a version of yourself or even another connection. At the moment I don't think this change has been implemented yet, it seems still in the phase of being thought about as a necessity, a question that is being thought of.

[Intentions] This kinda reflects on the feelings like you want to match this person ''status'' in the sense that you put them on a pedestal and you want to appear like you can match them (I'm not saying you aren't able to, but you defo feel like you aren't). Like fake it till you make it kind of thing. You want to appear confident, optimistic, fun to be around and in tune with yourself. But there is an aspect of you that is watching, judging and holding off slightly, like you are ready to put some distance if things don't go as you want them to go. It doesn't read as malevolent but slightly guarded and calculating.

THEM

[Current Energy] They are in a state of non action, and if there is communication it's very surface level and they aren't investing or unveiling much. It seems they are currently observing the connection in a new angle. Perhaps they came to a new realization about you or perhaps they learned something that made them think differently, so it's like they are flipping things in their head and trying to see things differently. So while that is happening and until they find a resolution to their questions, they hold off and observe you. Basically they are looking for truth regarding what is happening and what this connection is and there is a strong need to get to the bottom of it and not push things one way or another until it's figured out. Strong wait and see what you're gonna do to draw some conclusion about you.

[Feelings] There is a feeling of frustration and dissatisfaction about the state of the connection and this is emerging on top of their feelings. Right now it's like they are worn out and lacking trust in where all of this is going. I get the feeling that it wasn't always like this but recent changes made it this way. They feel reluctant to commit and invest further but again it's paired with the feeling of someone who is observing and holding off while waiting for progress on your side of things. So the feelings they have are quite, not exactly detached, I'd say more like wounded and feeling they might be in need of a way out, but also very contemplative. It seems quite hopeless and heavy, like someone thinking they don't have a choice in the matter but have to make it through without you.

[Thoughts] RIght now their thoughts are on channeling their energy into anything that brings them a sense of movement, like work, hobbies or personal endeavors. They refuse to stay stagnant and are trying to stay strong by staying busy. There is also an element that they don't want things to stay like they are with you forever, they want movement and they want change even if that means putting an end to the connection once and for all. Very determined and very individualistic in the sense that they are focusing on themselves and their needs, and what the future might bring if they put in the work.

[Intentions] Their intentions are to stay in control of their energy/emotions/thoughts while again the idea of contemplating their options is present. However it doesn't read as having any real options, it's more a fantasy about what the future could bring at this point, and they get kinda lost in their head with all the possibilities. It seems they don't want to close the door with you but they also certainly do not want to loose themselves in the process. It can appear as being a bit tricky in the sense that they are keeping their intentions to themselves so as not to reveal their next move and having the freedom and ability to do whatever they need to do in the moment. I'm also getting someone who tries to stay calm even though they kinda want to lash out and express their view of the situation. Makes sense they want to hold off (current energy) as it seems they are a bit lost in the sauce and pulled in different directions in their minds.

THE CONNECTION'S DYNAMIC

[Current Energy] It seems neither of you is getting what they want, there is a sense that a lot of needs are being unmet and feeling of intense lack. Like things could be so different but they aren't and there is pain here and feeling like something is broken or not working. There is also a dynamic of holding off actions and let it up to the other person but both of you are doing that and nothing is happening due to mutual sheer apathy. Things could be different, could have been different and it's like you both think that yet none is making a move at the moment (not saying this won't happen, this is just the state of things). Also waiting for life or something to happen that brings you together not seeing what could be done if you wanted to.

ADVICE FOR YOU

If you want things to move further with your connection, you need to bring a sense of stability and dedication to the dynamic. Yes showing up is great but love bombing and disappearing after isn't gonna make your connection trust you. You want a new chapter so you have to act like it and act in a different way than you did before. Have faith in yourself and your vision but back your feelings, thoughts and actions with stable commitment. Stability isn't made in one day but built times after times of effort and care. Slow and steady wins the race. Give and give from your heart with the sweetness of someone who is not afraid of being seen and felt. They look up to you just as much as you look up to them.

PILE 2 🫧

YOU

[Current Energy] You're currently seemingly quite frustrated at the situation with your person, choosing to hold your position and avoiding making any kind of move. Stagnation mixed with anxious waiting, hoping the person is going to reach out, make a move, clarify things and bring you what you are hoping for which is to things moving off ground. There is a fear of reaching out and facing rejection or silence, and a worry about the other's intentions and thoughts regarding you. Beneath all of this there is a real desire to move forward in the connection, but feeling like you can't or shouldn't at the present time because of the other person's actions or lack of it.

[Feelings] You are deeply reflecting on what this connection means for you and coming to the conclusion that this person is someone really special that has the potential to heal you and fulfill all your romantic needs, if things were corrected. There is a desire to passionately and adventurously go toward your person but you feel somewhat lower than them, less experienced and less confident. You put them on a pedestal a bit, and I mean it's not like you don't see their flaws but more like you shut them down and don't see them as important or relevant. You feel like this connection is worth hoping and waiting for and do not want to give up on it.

[Thoughts] Big over thinker vibes, there's probably hasn't been a single thing you haven't mulled over about this connection lmao You wonder whether you should move on but refusing to do so. Also you don't feel secure in your power to seduce and please your person, wondering if there's something wrong with you or the way you appear to them. wondering if they don't like you enough to move toward you and if that's the issue. Also you're wondering whether you should try to open your heart, be direct, vulnerable, and bold, and see where it goes or if you should just cut your losses and move on. Very worried energy,

[Intentions] For your intentions, it seems you want to remain in control of your feelings, your boundaries and your thoughts, to appear calm, collected, rational and in control. Right now it seems you intend on doing nothing and stay with you are. There is also an awareness of the cycles you are trapped in when it comes to relationships and wanting to break free from them as you don't want to put up with anyone's bullshit anymore. Perhaps also leaving the fate of this connection up for the universe and disengaging from it.

THEM

[Current Energy] Your person seems conflicted and is currently choosing silence and retreat to sort their thoughts. There is like a temptation to go towards you, but it registers as something that would feel dishonest or tricky, indicating a third party situation that you may or may not be aware of. They also see you as out of reach and higher than them from a status point of view. They might think you are closed off or that what they would bring wouldn't satisfy you, and they would rather avoid the whole thing than risking rejection or failure. They also seem to try to convince themselves that what they feel is not worth it in the sense that it is not that serious and not worth pursuing and as a result they cage in their heart even more. There is also something they feel guilty about and they are aware of the wrong they did, but for some reason they don't want to make it right (could be about you or the third party).

[Feelings] They worry they are not able to provide right for you, to be stable and committed and they are in contemplative mode about that, turning ideas about the future in their heads. They seem overwhelmed at the moment, struggling to juggle between their feelings who run deep, their ego who tells them to act a specific way that could be qualified as stubborn, and their life priorities such as work. It's like they feel like they don't have the time/emotional resources to take proper care of you so they feel like it's better not to act. There is also a massive blockage with changing the way they approach their feelings and emotional stability, which they are kinda refusing to learn to do at the moment preferring escapism in what they are used to rather that embracing the change.

[Thoughts] When it comes to what they are thinking, they are suppressing their feelings hard because they feel too much, overwhelming, impossible to control. They are wondering about the choice of choosing you which would lead to change the way their foundations are laid out and completely restructure their lives which they think would lead to pain. Again it's not that they don't feel enough but they don't feel like they can rise up to the task but they also have thoughts about chasing you that feel too much and too excessive for them and they don't want to act on them.

[Intentions] It shows in their intention as well as they want to move forward with you and see where things can go and are open at the thought of having something with you, but at the same time they are not ready to let go of old crumbling structures, not ready to make changes, not ready to take risks and terrified of what it could mean. Feels like wanting to avoid the inevitable. So like they want a new beginning but without making the needed changes. They also want to keep their relationship with you on the low/as a secret.

THE CONNECTION'S DYNAMIC

[Current Energy] The current dynamic is at a standstill. Nothing is happening and both parties are focused on themselves. It's like there are too many things to worry about or to care about, too many energies getting into the mix, both from private lives or from other people's opinions and energies, and it's getting in the way. There is also a need to clear the air and level things, for example having a direct conversation that is honest and where both parties can express their point of view, but it's currently blocked because none want to see the other's perspective. But bellow all of that there seem to be a deep bond that feels emotional and spiritual that is hard to ignore and that maintain the bond between both parties. Both parties see the other positively and see the connection as genuine, soft and somewhat sacred.

ADVICE FOR YOU

There is a need for you to be more playful and childlike in your approach and not so determined to get to a quick win to fix your anxieties and the pressure you feel. Don't feel the need to prove anything, stay authentic to yourself and have fun as things unfold naturally. Trust your own vision, trust what you want and don't base your decisions on whatever people are telling you or based on what you think you should do vs what you actually want to do. Also, there may be another opportunity on the horizon for you and a choice will be needed between your person and the future one. In all cases it will be your calling to decide what it is you want to do when presented with this or these opportunities and decide what action is needed for you to give you the stability, commitment and happiness you crave for, opening a new chapter in your life. Again I get a feeling of choosing between two suitors and looking at it through the lens of what will bring the most fulfillment in the long run.

PILE 3🌹

YOU

[Current Energy] It seems you are just coming out of a situation that weighted heavy on you, either another connection, a life situation or simply something that happened in the connection you are inquiring about. You feel defeated and quite low, ruminating to the point where it becomes a bit disproportionate to the situation, a bit too exaggerated, overthinking in a negative spiral.

[Feelings] Your feelings for your person are fresh and budding, so it seems likely this is a new connection or someone you don't yet have a deep bond with. There is a desire to cherish and explore those feelings but also feeling carefully hopeful, because what I also see deep down is a very romantic push, with a sense that this person represents something beautiful and pure for you. Like you see the potential in this person, it's like a sense of truth within you you can't ignore, like your mind skips forward to dream about what could be.

[Thoughts] It seems you want to move the connection forward. Things are a bit too quiet or not matching your desires and expectations at the moment and you want things to change. There is a desire for communication with your person to get out of the stagnancy of the current state of things. I don't get a rushed feeling from that but rather your thought are centered around how to move things further in a stable way.

[Intentions] You intend to build something strong with your person, really putting in the work toward something stable and long lasting. There is the sense that the road to get there will take time and effort and you are at the beginning of the journey, but you are motivated to get there with patience and work.

THEM

[Current Energy] It seems this person recently encountered a loss of some kind, perhaps literally loosing someone or perhaps they experienced a breakup. Right now it seems they view the idea of moving on or moving towards you as something akin to cheating. I don't know if it means they would be cheating by being with you or if it's only a guilty feeling not attached to reality that they have, but there is a strong sense of guilt, regrets and wondering if thinking they are doing something wrong here.

[Feelings] They are deeply observing and mulling over their feelings right now. I can tell they definitely feel something for you, something intense enough to stop them in their track and ask them to think before acting. There is also the idea that a choice needs to be made about those feelings and they are not in the position to make it currently so they hold off and try to find the truth in their heart to know what should be done moving forward.

[Thoughts] They are trying to keep their thoughts contained and undercontrol. There is a feeling that right now things are shaky and they don't seem to be facing their problems but rather to keep things under the lid, is what I'm getting. Like let's keep things as they are and not change a thing for now. There is a sense of rigidity, like they have their own view of the situation and are kinda unable or unwilling to see things differently. An inability to take a step back to look at things with more distance. They don't want to be wrong, like they can't afford to be wrong.

[Intentions] It seems their ultimate goal is to come out on top of this situation, that no matter what choice they make they want to have no regret and be proud of what they did. They know this is an important moment, an important decision that needs to be made and they are trying to find their truth, a path towards long term happiness and fulfillment. It really contrast with the trickery feelings of the current energies and shows that they really want to make things right and not end up being the villain of the situation.

THE CONNECTION'S DYNAMIC

[Current Energy] There seems to be a push and pull between wanting a fresh start full of laughter and innocence, and a feeling that things are stuck between the two of you. There is a mutual fear that if the wrong step is taken it could mean making things more complicated than they already are. Both of you seem to know that there is a need to communicate better, explain your personal point of view and boundaries, which both feels necessary and exciting, and, at the same time, potentially tricky and scary. All in all the connection is unstable at the moment, mostly due to them being in the midst of a difficult choice regarding the connection and you being put in a position where you don't really know where you stand or what to do.

ADVICE FOR YOU

There seems to be a need to rely more on your logic and mind rather than your heart at this moment, while also needing to let the dust settle and time do it's thing. I'm getting that you should be mindful about wanting things to go a certain pace and a certain way because you are 5 steps ahead in your heart. Rushing for answer might not be the best course of action right now, as would be seeking direct confrontation. If talking happens it needs to remain light and optimistic and not push anyone further in their own corner. That also means staying true to yourself, your own sense of confidence and happiness and not abandoning yourself or letting yourself sink. But mostly I think you should avoid pushing things too much and allow things to move at their own pace even if it is slow. There probably are things in this situation that you do not know or that you do not see, either because you haven't thought about them in this angle, or because some information are not known to you, so there is a need to think about the situation more and differently which will help you gain a sense of clarity, which might mean waiting for new info to be known. Right now you don't have the right view of the situation to take the right action so it is advised to stay put. Things may be quite different once you look at them differently.

PILE 4 🦢

YOU

[Current Energy] This seems to be a case where the connection is already well established and you are about to take a next important step in commitment. Could be about making things official with your person, moving in together or even getting married or having a child. This is not for new connections, there is a history between you and them and you definitely know you love each other. Anyway, your current energy is one of harmonious partnership with your person, you feel good in this relationship and you are very motivated and driven about taking things further with them. The future looks bright and you are really confident.

[Feelings] It's super sweet because I'm getting that your feelings are stable and secure, but the spark of the beginnings is still there, still alive and vibrant. You feel fulfilled with them in your life and the emotions flow freely while also being grounded.

[Thoughts] Your thoughts are about caring for your person and the relationship, overcoming obstacles in a gentle but firm way. You are aware that not everything is always easy but you look at the difficulties with the confidence and trust of someone who knows they can overcome them. Again I'm getting that there is a history between you and your person, you've been through highs and lows and it made your relationship stronger.

[Intentions] You intend on renewing your commitment, offering your undying love and respect for your person, walking towards the future with them. Might not be the case for everyone but there is a strong idea of marriage/partnership tied to a ceremony of some kind, which seems to be something you've wished for a long time that is finally becoming real. Strong new chapter energy that is the continuation of the last. In all cases the idea of showing your love in the physical world, materializing in some tangible way.

THEM

[Current Energy] Your person seems to be a bit less glowy than you so they may just be out of a difficult phase of their lives, or they might be a bit nervous about the future. I'm not getting anything necessarily negative, just that there is a sense that they are leaving a way of living behind and moving towards something new in tangible ways and this is a bit scary. But they definitely see this change as positive, and are dedicated to have things happen smoothly and in a way that is well planned and prepared. Their energy is future-oriented at the moment and as often this can trigger nerves when one thinks of all possible outcomes without knowing which one it will be.

[Feelings] You are someone they hold deep feelings for. They chose and committed to you and they feel ready for this new chapter with you. This moment in time seems to ''crown'' an important life phase for them, the culmination of something very important. They feel like they found their match and their forever-person.

[Thoughts] Their thoughts is where things get a bit tricky, I'm getting some type of decision paralysis like they know they need to do something but they feel currently unable to do it. There is a worry that things could not turn out well for them, which seems to not be grounded in reality but in their own fear. Again might not apply to everyone but maybe this person is thinking of proposing to you and they are freaking out about that and getting stuck when having to actually do it. Or could apply to any situation where something tangible needs to be done but the person that needs to do it is getting stuck on a mental level due to a lack of optimism and confidence.

[Intentions] This is reflected in their intentions as there is a strong sense of nervousness/anxiety that they are aware of. They want to get out of that mindset and again, ''crown'' the relationship in whatever way applies to your situation, it just seems to be such a big and important thing for them that they are terrified they are going to ruin everything. They are definitely working through internal blockages, fears and illusions and overly focusing on what could go wrong.

THE CONNECTION'S DYNAMIC

[Current Energy] The dynamic between the two of you is stable and deeply loving. Again it's pointing at a time where things are about to get more committed in one way or another, with the added idea of making it known and celebrated with the world at large and loved ones. Things flow well between the two of you and there is a sense that you found the perfect match for each other and are happy and at home with each other.

ADVICE FOR YOU

Pile 1 - The Gate Keeper

They want you to really let them in. They want to be the only one worthy of seeing you, of understanding all your fantasies and knowing all your sweet spots. They want to know your desires on such a deep level that no one before them could compare. They imagine themselves as the only one who can make you finish so hard, the only one you choose for the task of bringing you pleasure. For some of you this person is imagining your first time together, if you're in a relationship but haven't done bedroom activities yet.

Pile 2 - The Healer

They imagine you being gentle with them. Taking care of their body in a sweet, romantic manner. Your delicate hands carefully explore their body while you ride them at a slow pace. I channel doing it in the bathtub or under the shower. Perhaps when they daydream about you that's where they do so. For a very specific person in this pile I channel that they imagine themselves being a medieval knight who came back wounded after battle and you take care of them while secretly admiring their well-build body.

Pile 3 - The Messenger, The Fixer

They imagine you telling them what to do, commanding them. You're cold towards them, demanding and strict. You know just what you want and how you want it, in this fantasy you're not afraid to let them know your deepest desires and openly judge their performance. They don't want mercy, they want challenge. They don't want you to be shy and keep them guessing, they want to hear your demands openly.

Pile 4 - The Devil, The Depleted

They want to see you lose control over yourself. They imagine you whimpering in pleasure, unable to contain the sounds of your enjoyment. They dream of freeing you from all restraint and pleasing you until you collapse. Maybe they consider you to be a bit uptight or dishonest about your desires. For most of you it's somebody you were already sleeping with, but you acted very shyly - hiding your face and muffling your noises.

TIGER'S EYE

They throw their rationality out of the window basically. This person could be a very logical person, they rely on their mind to make sense of the world and navigate it. They're practical and don't tolerate nonsense. They could get impatient with overly emotional people, those who are irrational or have a messy mind. The way they approach love is also very practical, they could confess their love to you in a matter-of-factly manner. They evaluate love through a scrutinising lense, whether that love fits their current life, whether it can bring any improvements, possible disasters and setbacks that they need to avoid etc. In short they aren't really the romantic, idealistic type of lover. 

But when they feel your seduction, when they're seduced by you, their mind takes the backseat. They can act pretty irrational and reckless (according to their standard). They could get impatient too, if before, they were strategic with their every move, planning things ahead, predicting possible outcomes, now they just charge in. You might notice their change in demeanour and speaking speed. They could stumble on their words, having more frequent pauses between sentences or talk faster than usual. They could also make more verbal blunders, like unintentionally disclosing a secret when they just want to chat casually with you. They could also become more blunt and curt. But for some of you, they become more quiet and less confident in their talk. They could speak in a lower voice, more gentle, more considerate (if they're usually blunt and harsh with their words)

There's a resigned energy here. They feel like whatever their life was before you, it's over, that chapter is closed. Now they need to explore new territory and the frustrating thing is their mind and past experiences fail them in this quest. But they will keep trying because they can see potential with you. They feel hopeful in this relationship. If they have any mental hang ups or insecurities, they would likely feel less burdened by them when they're with you. You make them care less about all of those things. They would feel less stressful, more relaxed. You seduce them to connect more with their heart.

They also feel fulfilled and content, like they have everything they need when they're with you, so they don't feel like they have to fight, to be on constant guard. It's not that they won't feel worried about anything but when they do, they will be more calm and more optimistic since they will have their heart assisting them in their problem solving and decision making process, thanks to you.

CITRINE

You inspire so much passion in them but I think this person isn't used to this kind of feeling, or their passion was wounded so it makes them uncomfortable, to sit in so much of it. It's like you've turned on the stove and put a lid on the pot simultaneously. You make them boil then stew in their feelings. Maybe they like the feeling of keeping, reining in their fire, or they don't know how to deal with it in a balanced way. So they could act hot and cold with you. One moment they're all over you, charging in without a care, the next, they retreat and try to lean on their logical side, their brain instead of their heart and body. The energy would flip flop. 

They feel the need to express themselves fully around you, they just want to be themselves, not wearing any mask or costume, not playing any role, just themselves. They would feel comfortable being naked around you, both physically and emotionally, but only after they'd accepted their feelings. You seem to know how to pull out their authentic self and sometimes they don't feel ready for that. This person might have a very rigid definition of who they are, how they should act, what they should strive for. This definition was formed by their early environment, what they've observed and learned through different media. They want to have a concrete identity, this person probably likes personality tests, MBTI or even astrology, anything that can describe them to themselves. So when they're around you and they find themselves acting mostly by instinct, they can feel disoriented. In a way, you seduce their original self, the one at their core, to come out. For some of you, they might have an awakening or some realisations about their sexuality when they connect with you.

This feels very much like a gradual process. With their new found self, they would slowly begin to move towards you, to become more active and want to learn more about you. Like when a person discovers a new hobby, they're eager to start and try to gather as much knowledge and experience as possible. In the past, this person would think that they weren't a passionate and fiery person. But when they're with you, a new fire sparked and they want to keep it alive, grow it bigger. They want to wield the fire more proficiently.

They also feel rewarded by you for their effort to get acquainted with this new found passion. They might be awkward at times in displaying their warmer side, but you receive them well, so they feel emboldened to express more. But in general, they will still act quite low key about it, especially in the beginning, when they're still not sure about what to do. They would feel insecure, not very confident about how to approach you, to be around you. They fear that you won't accept this version of them. Honestly, you would also intimidate this person. Like when fire meets ice. Your temperaments could be opposite of each other's. Maybe their pride would get in their way, they want to keep their cool. So initially they would mask themselves even further. There won't be a sudden shift in energy. You will just feel the heat gradually turning up.

ROSE QUARTZ 

You make them impatient. This person is generally a chill and patient person, they know how to wait for the good things, they know the process, the time needed for every step so they diligently wait and act on time. They're strategic and want to play the long game. But when they're seduced by you, they don't want to wait, it's like instead of waiting for the dough to rise to make their own breads, they want to rush out to the bakery to buy one immediately. Maybe you like to make them wait, to test their patience or they feel like they can't progress things quickly with you. The timing might not be right or they think your connection with each other is still at an immature stage so they can't rush, even when they want to accelerate it, they know that it won't do them good in the long run. Their external expression and actions would seem measured, cautious around you. Sometimes you could see their hesitation, like they're being lost in the process of figuring out the next step with you. Other times, you could catch them staring at you, watching you whilst being still and quiet.

Internally, there's a strong energy of retrospection. They would look back at their past relationships or try to, to compare with what they're having with you now. What's interesting is that the memories of the past would turn hazy, they will just remember the general feelings but can't seem to "see" the details clearly. And then there's a sharp focus on what they've built with you, what they're having with you. So the more they try to compare with the past, the more certain they're about you and the relationship. 

They also like to stare at your pictures when you're not there with them. This person could take many pictures of you, they want to capture the happy moments you share together, the beauty of you. So your seduction lingers on their mind even when you're not physically around. They would also like to take pictures of you when they find you seductive, fleeting moments, small details that you won't even notice yourself. This person pays a lot of attention to details. They could have strong Virgo, Cancer and Mercury in their chart. Every moment matters to them.

In general, they just feel fulfilled by you. They have what they need, they feel secure, they look forward to what you will share with each other in the future. This person could often daydream about the future with you, about family, kids, anniversaries, celebrations with you. Or if you've shared those with them then they would reminisce about those memories fondly. They will want to celebrate with you, not just big moments, but also daily moments when they feel happy. A bit random but they might want to invite you to dance with them when they're seduced by you. Maybe the seduction between you two feels like a dance.

They will also realise something about their goals in life. What they were pursuing now seems distant and foreign to them. You make them want to pursue a different direction, to work for different goals. They will realise that they have put their effort in the wrong target, they will see a bigger picture, of how their life would be had they pursued those old goals and they won't find much fulfilment in that path.

STRAWBERRY QUARTZ 

Time stands still for this person when they're seduced by you, when they're around you. For some reason, whenever they're seduced by you, they become inactive, immobile, still and just be there. It's like their mind stops working, if this is a person who is usually active, restless, their mind buzzing with ideas, their body can't stop moving, their mouth wants to speak all the time, then when they're under the influence of your seduction, they turn into the opposite. 

I feel like you can be deliberate in your actions, or you're generally shy, it takes a bit of time for you to act, to seduce overtly. You could make this person thirst for your affection, maybe you're intentional about it, giving them only a little at a time, or you unintentionally do so. Seeing you in your active seductive power could be a rare event for them, especially in the initial stage of your connection. So whenever they get to see it, they feel the need to be still and savour it. To just sit back and wait for what will happen next. It's a little strange but they might not expect much from you or they expect more from you so they wait for a bigger display from you after the initial seduction. They low key want to be impressed, perhaps they're usually the one who does the chasing, who actively tries to seduce you and you're the one who sits back and waits to be impressed. So it would amuse them when the role is reversed. This feels like the natural order is turned upside-down to them.

They will be in the passive mode when they feel your seduction. They won't try to do much, to push for any outcome that they want, they just want it to develop naturally. If this is a bossy and decisive person normally, then they will be less so when they're with you. They will be gentle, more flexible, more willing to follow the flow and your whims. You seem to take good care of them, be a reliable and steady partner that they can and want to lean on. So they will feel less burdened by the pressure to do so much, especially things that are expected of their role in the relationship. For example, if they're generally expected to be a provider in the relationship, they won't feel like that with you, both of you provide for each other equally or you provide for them instead. Or if they're expected to be the passive one, the softer one then they would also not feel like that with you, they can be the stronger one, the more active one in the relationship. Not that they don't provide or be soft with you, but they don't have to "perform", to pursue a certain identity within the relationship with you.

You will often find them having a dazed look, being in a relaxed posture. Sometimes they can even turn downright lazy, just want to lounging about, do nothing and enjoy your presence. If they're a hard worker, an ambitious person in their professional world then you make them want to forget all those ambitions, those promotions, those future plans and just stay in the present, mind blank. Your seduction has a very strong influence on your person. Be careful not to take advantage of them when they're in that blissful oblivious state. 

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Pile 1: 🪥

I see that a lot of people talk about how you have many responsibilities/things to handle. Perhaps you appear as a very busy person and people just talk about how you either have two jobs, or you’re juggling work and studies, they talk about how you’re a very dedicated and goal focused person. I see that people talk about you mostly in a positive way, they see you as someone special and they talk about how serene and grounded you are. They could talk about your fashion style and about how you have good taste overall. “I like the way they dress” “I wish I could have the same creativity as x when it comes to that.” People keep tabs on you and they definitely talk about you even if you don’t think so. You keep people at the edge of their seats pile 1 lol, they keep waiting for the next thing you do to discuss or feel inspired by. They talk about your life in general, if they see you talking to a new person, if you changed your hair, or even if your skin looks more luminous lol they talk about what changed in your skincare routine. People observe you and your behavior and later discuss it as if it’s something on the news or magazines. I see a lot of people talk about how they wish they were closer to you or wished to be your friend, you could be a loner or you’re very private besides what you physically show, some people want to get close to you out of genuine interest, some others want to study you. People talk about your self assurance and your confident energy, they talk about your energy overall, they think it’s very unique and authentic, you don’t hide yourself. I see that perhaps at the workplace, managers, and other people notice and talk about how you have a lot of good opportunities in the future, they talk about your potential as an employee and your ability to achieve more because of your work ethic, you’re very appreciated and a really good employee/ coworker. People talk about how serene you appear to be or you simply are, they talk about how they haven’t seen you mad or really annoyed by anything and how you hold yourself with so much grace and elegance. You’re very admired by others but also studied, so take that into consideration.

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Pile 2: 🍜

I see that a lot of people or mostly your friends have noticed how you’ve isolated yourself from them and started to focus on you. This could be because you noticed that the person that you are becoming no longer fits that group of people. They’re talking about the things that you’re accomplishing, perhaps you’ve posted about something new you got, like a car, house, or any achievement that you’ve shared with others. These people are talking about that, but I’m not seeing that they’re doing it in a petty way. You’re just a topic pile 2. People are noticing and talking about how you’re leveling up, and I see some may be irritated by this or confused because they never saw you as the one to “lock in” and achieve those things. It could also be that you had to make a choice between leaving a toxic person or group of people, and choosing yourself. You clearly chose yourself and when you did this, they didn’t believe in you. Now they’re talking about how you’re doing better for yourself. People are talking about a recent glow up you’ve had, maybe the results from the gym are showing (hell yeahhh), you’re doing better financially, etc. They’re talking about it in disbelief and wondering how you were able to accomplish those things. I see a lot of people are regretting treating you the way they did, and they’re talking about how they wish to be in your life now. There’s a lot of people regretful about how they did you, and know they’re keeping tabs on u and drowning in their sorrows. However, girl keep glowinggggh!!! You’re doing great 💗

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Pile 3: 🥮

Mmmm pile 3, all I gotta say is that you have a lotttt of admirers lol. You’re a hot topic. People are fighting over you and competing for you. Maybe there’s a couple in your life that’s fighting because of you, maybe one person in the relationship feels insecure when it comes to you because they feel their partner is attracted to you, or they just simply feel threatened over your presence in this person’s life so be aware. They’re definitely talking about how this person in your life that has a partner, should distance themselves from you. A lot of insecurity. I’m hearing you’re very good looking, very conventionally attractive and people often feel threatened by your appearance. I see a lot of men, or take as resonates, talking about how fine you are, etc. A lot of people want to come up to you and literally bag you. People could talk about about your hair, and just your face overall, they think you have an attractive face, and they talk about how you’re naturally gorgeous and attractive. I see that there’s a figure in your life that is very successful and high status, and this person is asking about you. People are literally just thirsting over you lol, I have nothing else to say 😭. If you’re in a relationship I see that a lot of people see you guys as the it couple, and they could talk about how great you guys look together, they could even make comments such as “I would pay to see it” lolll, if you know you know. Very attractive couple. Hey, a lot of people want you in their beds, I’m just saying… 🤧

Pile 1: The Sweety

What do they like during spicy time?:

They’re a true sweety, aww. They like to treat others and for others to treat them with care and diligence.

They also an explorer 👀 . . . . And they like their jungle a bit thicker, if you know what I mean lol. They wanna search every inch of a person and see what they like and don’t like. They’re a very indulgent person. Very sensual.

They’re a little k*nky too. Perhaps they’re into . . Breeding. Maybe, a little bondage. Basically, they’re not afraid to embrace their wild side 😂 but, they’re not quite as wild as they think they are. Also, could be into suspension? You know, like those things that hold you up? Interesting.

How will they treat you during spicy time?:

They gonna go All. Day. Long.

But, no worries, this person is very aware of you and how you’re feeling. They’ll put a lot of importance in aftercare, especially if you guys go for the extra spicy stuff.

This person could appear a bit nervous during it, but that’s mainly because they want to do well. They don’t want to hurt you and want you to have a good time. They’re a bit more of a guarded person too, so that could play into it.

Overall, they seem decent 😄 what’s funny is that they could even assess themselves and the act afterwards~

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Pile 2: The No Good

🎶 “She’s a maneater, make you work hard, make you spend hard, make you want all of her love.” 🎶

I don’t know about this one 😅

What they like during spicy time?:

This person likes a good collaborative effort. They’re not a pillow princess, nor a stone top, but they do lean towards being more of a giver. They want for both them and their partner to have a good time. Good communication and clear cut boundaries are key.

Music’s their thing during the deed. Could have a playlist. Also, def the type to have fun then skedaddle after. A nice clean break is their style.

How will they treat you?:

I just gotta know whether this is some sorta sugar baby/daddy/momma type of relationship 😂 or like a booty call thing cause I got a lot about a sense of ‘false love’.

They’re very determined to get the intimacy they desire and will do what they need to do to get it. This person could lure you into a relationship (I do feel they like things to be more clear and honest though so this could just be for a few people) or flirt hard and pretend to be interested in more to get s*x. They on that love conquest typa timing.

I do get that they’ll treat you real well during the deed though. You may not have their heart but you’re gonna have one hell of a time, they’re very good at giving you what you want.

Extra song for you guys 😂

We got two very different energies in the building today

Pile 1 - The Devil

You might've been raised in a community where you weren't taught to speak to new people. You might be too shy and reserved to shoot your shot. When approached with romantic intent you don't know how to react and you back off, even if you truly are interested. The only way out of this is to learn how to talk to new people. Yes, even if you're an introvert. Some of you might use some seduction tactic, but it's the same old thing with everyone. Try to personalize it a little bit.

Pile 2 - The Librarian

Don't jump into the flirty mode too fast. Be patient. At first let someone know you're interested in knowing them on a deeper level. Show interest in their mind, not just physical. People love being seen. Make sure you're signalising some level of romantic interest to not get friendzoned on that stage. Once you gather more information you'll have a huge advantage of knowing what they value in other people, what makes them blush, what they like. You'll have the advantage of being close to them. Also you'll know for sure if you want to give it a try.

Pile 3 - The Fortunate, The Balancer

Don't put all your effort and energy into it immediately. People rarely respect what came easy to them. Matching their effort will give them something to work for, which can be very hot to some people, especially men. Show your best qualities but don't give them on a silver platter. Try to not appear like a giver, or you'll attract takers. You're a blessing only for those who can appreciate it. Being too enthusiastic about the other person places them in a position of being chased, while we're looking for an equal relationship where everyone cares the same amount.

Pile 4 - The Opposer

You might be the type to flirt in a very subtle way, which puts you at risk of being misunderstood, just seen as friendly etc. This is especially true if you pursue people of the same gender as you or if the target of your seduction is neurodivergent or insecure. Sometimes you literally have to swallow your dignity and straightforwardly ask someone out on a date. Not all of those attempts will be successful, but if you don't give it a genuine try your chances of getting someone you really want are even lower.

Pile 1

A solution is no longer available, or you may go to a place and it's closed. Someone may want to make you go through some hoops to get what you need from them. You'll get the thing or solution eventually, but I think someone wants to see you struggle a bit first.

You can visit grandparents. You get involved with something very traditional, like an old university, an old church, an old religious place. Or you interact with someone who occupies a position that is also sort of ancestral and been going through generations, like a professor who holds a chair in an uni, a priest, someone of high rank at a company. It's a neutral to positive event there.

A powerful and evil person is chained and cannot hurt you like they could before. You're out of reach of someone who wants to overpower you.

A lier, or a lie, is exposed. This day, if someone is rude they're gonna receive it right back at them. If a person is passive aggressive, someone else will come up with a comeback that will sting them.

You acquire knowledge or wisdom, it's a good week to learn and study, your mind is open to new information and you feel at peace while you read.

Cards were drawn from the Lenormand Divination Table. More oracles, here!

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Pile 2

You're focused on your goals, you look hot and you smell good! Then an envious person attacks and attempts to ruin your day. It won't shake you, but make sure to send back any evil eye.

Long awaited success is here. Or someone recognizes you as someone who has a solid and positive reputation. It's not a compliment not a celebration, but it's a thought or situation that makes you see yourself as someone who came a long way and did good work in the past.

You receive or send communication about a trip. I think it's arrangements or details, not a surprise.

Daily problems get in the way of a relationship. It's giving me fighting over washing dishes, put food back in the pantry, close the pantry door, daily petty bickering. It's just annoying, you'll take a deep breath and it'll pass.

You feel it's time to make a BIG change in your life. You will start to think of having a permanent job in another city or another country, think of seeking a long term romantic partner. You'll contemplate a significant reality shift.

Cards were drawn from the Lenormand Divination Table. More oracles, here!

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Pile 3

You receive official work communication or formal invitation. It's a good thing, like positive written feedback, formal acknowledgment. It can be a small promotion as well, or getting that job that you want. Not a huge surprise, but will be positive.

Stab him in the stomach and bury that man alive, girl. Kill him. Put full stop in this story and I promise you a new honest friend is coming your way very soon.

You'll feel the love someone has for you, you'll see how you truly have someone by your side because you will benefit from it somehow.

A friend warns you about future problems (or you warn a friend). I think that if you talk to your friend about things going on in your life, they'll give you useful advice, like the conversation is good to become aware of flaws in your plan.

You'll sit down and do the math about your expenses and your recent and future spending. It feels like you're gonna do your taxes lol

Cards were drawn from the Lenormand Divination Table. More oracles, here!

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Pile 4

If there's problems arising about a long trip you'll make, rest assured it won't affect the end result, it's a small issue. There's mice in the basement. Mice in the basement of the ship, the ship will still reach the destination, but some food will be spoiled. In other words, make sure people don't drain your energy is small ways, you need to protect yourself, just because because have a lot of energy and don't feel the loss of the depletion there is still a need to guard yourself.

You'll talk to a scholarly person, thsi person can have useful knowledge that they'll share. You can review a text someone else wrote and give them feedback.

Be cautious and don't reveal too much about yourself to strangers or higher ups at work. I feel there's someone in the shadows that you're not seeing yet and they don't have the best intentions. Like I think someone wants to take you down and don't let you climb the corporate ladder, someone at the top wants to be the only one at the top.

I think someone at work may cause a delay for you on purpose. Or a change that you're expecting will be delayed.

You'll pay the rent or the house bills. If you are moving houses, you may sign a lease.

Cards were drawn from the Lenormand Divination Table. More oracles, here!

Pile 1.

cards pulled: tarot: four of coins, ten of wands, the chariot rx, four of swords rx. media: michael jackson, ike and tina. archetypes: networker, priest (shadow), mystic

People get a crush on you because you feel private and hard to access. You don’t give away everything, so people start trying to “earn” you. You come off like you carry a lot & don’t complain which triggers that protective, “i want to take care of you” feeling in others. You also have a tired, restless intensity that makes people feel like there’s something going on under the surface, like you’re deeper than you let on. You look like you carry heavy responsibilities & still keep going, & people read that as strength & maturity. You can feel magnetic without being flashy or attention seeking. You also know how to connect to the right people and move socially in a way that makes you seem important, like you’re plugged into something bigger, but you also have this “i know what’s right” vibe that can make people want your approval even when you’re not openly asking for it. You give good advice, read people well & may talk like they have a deeper truth. That makes people attach to you fast because it feels like fate or spiritual intimacy. Theres also this “i can justify anything,” vibe which can create a push pull that keeps crushes alive. People will stay into you for a long time even when it’s unrequited because you accidentally keep feeding the crush. The downside is your crush factor comes from people wanting to “unlock” you. they project depth onto you because you don’t show everything.

Pile 2.

cards pulled: tarot: wheel of fortune, the sun rx, page of wands rx. media: drake, the birds. archetypes: child: magical (shadow), warrior (shadow), midas/miser (shadow)

People get a crush on you because you feel like a rush and sort of like a good omen at the same time. People may feel like show up in their lives in unpredictable ways. You feel like the kind of person who changes the vibe of a room even if you’re not doing much. There’s something about you that feels lucky like people get the feeling “when you’re around, something could happen.” & even when you’re not fully confident or you’re quieter than usual, people still feel pulled in because you seem interesting & slightly out of reach. People get a crush on you because you feel unpredictable in a fun way. You can be charming, but not overly warm, which makes people chase it. You have a glow to you when you’re in a good mood, but you don’t always give it out for free, so when you do, it hits even harder. People start chasing that version of you hoping it comes back. People also may tend to start associating you with little reminders, songs, & coincidences/synchronicities in their lives. You have a playful, slightly “childish” vibe that makes people feel like being with you would be exciting & light, even if you’re actually guarded in reality. Under that, you’re kind of a fighter. You don’t seem weak or passive, you seem like you’d protect yourself & the people you care about & you come off like you know your value, like you’re not desperate, which makes people want to be the one you actually choose.

Pile 3.

cards pulled: tarot: the moon rx, five of coins, two of cups rx, media: the isley brothers, tombstone. archetypes: angel (shadow), student, monk/nun, rebel

People get a crush on you because you feel real & protectable, gentle but not easy. People sense you have standards & that makes your attention feel valuable. You also give off a “i’m trying to be better” vibe, like you’re learning, growing, improving yourself, and people fall for that sincerity. You have this vibe like you’ve been through things & you don’t pretend you haven’t. people can sense loneliness, rejection, or “i don’t fully belong” in you, & it makes them want to be the person who finally gives you a safe place. You can act composed or detached, but there’s still a softness under it that leaks through. You also feel like a contradiction to people: part sweet & part rebellious. You can be gentle, kind, even helpful, then suddenly you have this edge where you don’t follow the rules or you don’t care what people think. You can have harsh opinions, talk shit & say what you want. That mix makes you feel human, not polished & it’s weirdly addictive for people. They think you’re going to be a deep connection, even if you’re emotionally unavailable. Your crush factor is also a little dangerous because people can fall for the idea of saving you or being the exception.

Pile 4.

cards pulled: tarot: six of wands, seven of swords rx, five of wands rx. media: outkast, britney spears, mi vida loca. archetypes: athlete, lover (shadow)