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just witnessed something devastating

guy on the subway with one ear pierced, little gold hoop. other guy on the subway very quickly and subtly googling "which one is the gay ear". it is not the gay ear. visible disappointment on his face as he puts his phone away.

hyperlexichypatia

Prev suggesting maybe the guy was gay and dyslexic -- my wife went to a school for learning disabled kids and once saw a roomful of dyslexic boys arguing over whether a Superboy action figure's earring was in the "gay ear." They eventually concluded that he was acceptably straight, which has taken some turns.

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Hello, I'd like some advice or even just a point in the right direction, if possible?

I've been comfortably identifying(?)/labelling myself as an avoidant attachment for a while now, alongside my suspected NPD.

Recently my partner and I have attempted to open up our relationship with two others. It brought up some complications with myself, and one of the others is now out of the picture. We've agreed to not pursue that for the time being, with the third.

I've now found that I seem to align more with anxious attachment, and I'm constantly paranoid and anxious about our relationship to the point that I'm wondering if it could be relationship OCD...? My constant worrying and asking for reassurance is ruining not only my mental health, but I worry it's also damaging our relationship.

Any reputable resources you could point me to would be greatly appreciated. I hope you have a nice day ❤️

Hello! I'm sorry for the long wait, I was trying to do research before answering, but depression was kicking my ass.

Here are some articles I found:

How OCD affects relationships: Challenges and strategies (not just about relationship ocd but ocd and relationships in general, has advice for those who has a partner with ocd)

Why am I constantly seeking reassurance in my relationship?

(ROCD) Relationship OCD: A Complete Guide

Is It ROCD or Just the Wrong Relationship?

3 Steps for Coping With Relationship OCD

Queer Themes in OCD (touches a bit on rocd and also polyamory)

If anyone else have something to share, please do!

ocd-room

Happy disability pride month.

The World Health Organization list anxiety disorders, including OCD, as the sixth largest contributor to non-fatal health loss globally. (source)

If your OCD disables you — you're not a failure and you deserve support.

lvl8warlock

I totally get people having a fear of being/becoming schizophrenic, especially people with OCD. As someone who has both, I can say that it's extremely difficult and often terrifying. But when people say that they fear having psychosis because they don't want to be dangerous or because they think it would mean life wouldn't be worth living, it crosses a line for me. We're statistically more likely to be victims of violence than perpetrators. Just because we experience things most people don't doesn't make us dangerous or scary. I also want to shut down the idea that it's a death sentence. It is difficult and life long, but there can still be joy. There can still be love and hope and fulfillment. It is scary to not 100% know what's real, and it's scary to be judged for things you can't control. But I still feel lucky to experience the beauty and joy of our world. Your fear is valid, but your judgement is not.

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Forgive yourself for struggling with shame. For making choices you regret. For avoiding situations you wish you hadn’t. You can grow from here if you release the past from your grip and shelve it as a lesson.

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Disabled is not a bad word 💖

fre4kcore-b4stard

“The axe forgets, but the tree remembers” is typically a very true statement. Unless, of course, you have moral ocd, in which case the axe has been haunted for weeks and the tree does not remember or care. In fact, many sources report that the axe, which is actually a plastic butter knife, has never been anywhere near a forest. And also there is no tree.

#actually ocd

forestgreenandgray

Hey do you know what rumination is?

Rumination is probably the most common type of OCD compulsion, but I rarely see anyone talking about it. I've talked to multiple people diagnosed with OCD who didn't even recognize it as a compulsion.

Basically, if you have OCD you have terrible intrusive thoughts. They can be about anything, but common themes are fear of being a bad person, fear of hurting someone, fear of contamination. etc.

Rumination is when you get stuck in a spiral. Rumination is when you spend hours catastrophizing, overthinking, analyzing, telling yourself it's going to be okay.

I'll say it again:

Rumination is a compulsion.

Rumination is a compulsion, and that means you have to stop doing it.

I did ERP (exposure response prevention) for my OCD with a therapist! For 9 months! And it did help, but the idea didn't really click until I found this website a couple years later.

And Oh My God. It made things make so much more sense, and I was able to pull myself out of an episode even though I wasn't in therapy or on meds at the time.

Genuinely if you have OCD, or even if you suspect you have OCD, I'm begging you to read some of these articles.

Like this was genuinely life changing for me.

Here are some of the ones that were most helpful to me:

Defining Rumination

How to Stop Ruminating

ERP Exercises for Compulsive Rumination

What to Do When You're Triggered

#actually ocd

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雨と緑 // Rainy and greenery // Kamakura, Japan ♡

nathanielthecurious

academic writing these days is always like “be/longing” “re-membering” “(under)standing”

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STEM academic writing is like "we present the results of the ACRONYM project (A ContRived mnemOnic is NecessarY Material)"

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An elephant and a dwarf mouse shared a page with a headless figure in a dress in a scrapbook by children of the Shinn family of Fremont, California. 19th century.

California Revealed via Internet Archive

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"Black cat before the attack." Martin Munkácsi. Arts et métiers graphiques. January 1, 1931.

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Johann Walter-Kurau - "Ducks" (1898)

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