Obedient

This blog has been inactive for three weeks now, and yet it continues to gain followers. I'd like to make sure that everyone knows this is only an archive blog now, and I will not be starting any new interactions here.

If you would like to follow my active Riccardo Roleplay blog, please message me and I will send you the link. 

For now, this blog is on indefinite hiatus. I'm sorry to everyone I have threads with, but it's more trouble than it's worth to keep this blog open right now. You can still find me on my other blogs, and I'll be playing as Riccardo on skype, but no posts will be made here. 

Okay, I've tried not to get involved in this, but I just can't sit back and watch this fandom blow up like an atom bomb. I'm not taking sides or anything petty like that, I wasn't put up to this, and I'm not trying to piss anyone off.

But this seriously needs to stop.

We're all adults here. We know the difference between right and wrong; but as of lately people have been completely ignoring any instincts of civility they might have and completely ripping each others throats out. I've seen anon hate flying left and right, finger-pointing, and public shit talking for the past six months, and I'm honestly sick of it. What in God's name has happened to the people of this fandom?

People are complaining about supposed hate going around the fandom by posting more hate to try and resolve it. Can we please just get it through out heads that HATE WILL NEVER SOLVE HATE. 

Anon hate messages aren't going to solve your problem. Public shit talking isn't going to solve your problem. Spreading fact-less rumors about people isn't going to solve your problem.

Talking to people one-on-one about your issue is the only thing that's going to solve your problem.

Now I know that in the past, I was a contributor to some of the issue, but since then I've realized what I did wrong and I saw how to fix it. There's no point in trying to hurt the people that hurt you. An eye for an eye will just leave us all blind in the end. Normally I just try and ignore all of the ignorant children in this fandom, but when it gets to the point that people are actually abandoning their blogs because of the things people are saying or doing, then it becomes a problem. 

I don't want to sit back and watch this already minuscule fandom be torn to shreds. I'm not going to resort to finger pointing, or shit talking, or being a petty child to get my point across. All I'm going to say is that before you send a hate message, or make a public post slandering someone's name, think about what you're fucking doing. You're being a child. You're lowering yourself to the exact same level as the person you're trying to ruin. 

I'm going to say it again, just to make sure people actually hear it:

If you have a problem with someone, tell them. Don't hide your face. Don't do it in front of a crowd. Don't be a baby about it. Grow the fuck up and deal with your problems like an adult. 

//Ahhhh I missed that memo! Happy birthday, lovely!

I wished you happy birthday on dA but I shall do it here too! Happy Birthday for yesterday, cutie.