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There is nothing like the understanding that comes from building something yourself.

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"At the heart of envy...is hope"

- Katherine Boo

#envy #hope #katherine boo

Wife: will you pull off my skinny jeans?

Husband: sure!.... What is this? How did you get these on? Omg did you use plastic bags like those emo kids?

#marriedlife #ladyproblems #itsmagic

rayinberkeley

These exchanges between a bigot named Brendan Sullivan, and a heroic troll named Robert Graves, will be the best thing you read all day, I promise.

Timing

Exactly a year ago, Nov. 8th, we found out we were pregnant for the first time after 15 months TTC. Nov. 11th we miscarried. Currently 4 days past our due date now... And I'm just not sure how I feel. It's weird I never even thought about the timing until today. Maybe the 11th would be a good day for a birthday. Worst day of my life, and exactly one year later, the best day?

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Because the funny thing was, that baby who came and joined us… he’s the perfect third member of our family. He makes sense here.

APW

#cantwait #change for the better

I can assure you that being a CEO and running a household are very similar skill sets. So unless you’re going to tell me that men don’t have the skills to be CEOs, I’m not going to buy that they don’t have the skills to help manage their households and children.

Meg Keene

#apw #feminism

Did you "do infertility?"

One of the most painful things with TTC was seeing all the pregnancy announcements and how easy it came to them. If I did get pregnant, I wanted to let people know it took longer. It took a year and a half, with one miscarriage at the 1.3 mark. Both were conceived naturally. I'm now 3.5 months and still in disbelief. But I don't want to forget that pain, and I want to limit it to others. I haven't forgotten about you... HR stopped me the other day. I mentioned the time to conceive. I was met promptly that it was probably stress related (oh... Helloooo #1 trigger to crazy town). Then they told me about all the people who "did infertility" including family. "Doing infertility" would be like getting your tubes tied, not IVF. All I could think was how lucky their sibling was to have them for all that understanding support. [insert eye roll] Then she told me a year and a half is nothing! I've had that response a lot. When you've been trying for 5 or 10 years, I agree. But knowing we had less than 10% chance of having a child was heartwrenching. People mean well. I know that. But it still stings.

#infertility #still hurts #oh HR

Talking to my mom or mother-in-law about pregnancy

Moms: how are you feeling?

Me: sick

Moms: that makes me so happy! The baby is using you real good!

Me: i'm glad my misery pleases you. Forgive me if i stop responding any and all future messages, you baby crazy monsters!

#feeling used #morning sickness #moms #pregnancy

Pregnant, pregnant, pregnant! 17 months of trying and one miscarriage later, and we're finally back in the game! So giddy! So nervous!

#pregnant #positive test #after loss #yippee

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One of my biggest fears of getting infertility testing, is I'll tell them about my miscarriage, and they'll tell me it was a miracle we ever got pregnant at all. And then the only thing I'll think about is how I failed on our one and only shot.

#ttc after loss #ttc #miscarriage #infertility

officialunitedstates

When I was younger, I used to wonder, why we planted trees that weren’t fruit trees. Why alder instead of apple, oak instead of orange, cedar instead of cherry? It wasn’t till later, that I learned that, sometimes, people do things without expecting anything in return.

Just because you're not alone, doesn't mean you can't feel lonely.

It's a beautiful day... And we deserve it!

Random old guy out hiking

#grateful #we do deserve it!

Sudden death

My girlfriend's two year old pulled out her concealed gun from her purse while shopping in Walmart, accidentally fired it, and killed her. While her three nieces (under 11) watched. How fucked up is that? My heart is so full of grief for the family, especially her son. Starting to think this time of year is cursed for people from my small town. Seriously stupid, random ways to die. One girl's dad was killed by the snow drift he was knocking off the roof. My best friend died due to an accidental overdose of cough medicine. So many little things go wrong all at once, and suddenly your life is over. It's maddening and so heartbreaking.

#rip #grief #always love you #never coming back #too young to die

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atx-nerd-mom

There will be no Christmas miracle for me.

The odds are never in our favor...

Science: On average, couples will conceive by 6 months. Most within a year

My body: Nope!

Science: Majority of women will carry that baby to term

My body: Nope again!

Science: Fertility dramatically increases after a miscarriage.

Friends: I conceived, and so did so-and-so immediately after the loss

My body: Nope again mother fucker!

#ttc after loss #ttc #maybe I'm just an overachiever?

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