psychopomp queer

"Take Me Out to the ____"

Bob the nice guy bullying Wade so hard even Mark is appalled.

“You make me feel inadequate, Bob, this is why we would never work” is golden

More digitized Distractable doodles wahoo

You do not need to post about things to care about them. "I see you not reblogging" is guilt-tripping.

You're allowed to curate your own blog. "I don't care if this doesn't fit your blog aesthetic" is guilt-tripping.

You're allowed to skip past posts that distress you. "x amount of people must reblog" is guilt-tripping.

Permission is not needed but for those whom it will make more comfortable; you are allowed to block people who post bullcrap that makes you feel guilty.

This post has no DNI; everyone may reblog regardless of syscourse stance, but reblogs are not required. Spread love.

soulbonding culture is…

(Obviously there's nothing wrong with soulbonding self shippers and I support self shipping, it feels like this is a thing people are once again trying to center around romantic relationships, and how that framework completely excludes soulbonders who don't even have relationships of any kind with their soulbonds)

soulbonding culture is….

THIS‼️ coming from another aromantic soulbonder, i get your struggle so hard. while im not (necessarily) romance repulsed, i find it increasingly hard to relate to or want to participate in the community when so many soulbonders only talk about soulbonding romantically. we can be more than that!

Why are so many people making Simon a brute.

Actually no, scratch that. I know why. I’m like 90% it’s racism + heteronormative dynamics

It’s not all of art/fics, but it’s definitely some of them. Simon DOES have anger issues and he does have violent tendencies, B U T he’s also so much more than that. He’s shown throughout the entire movie to be clever, determined, and hopeful. In fact I’d argue his most obvious personality trait IS his determination, we see that waaaay more than his anger during the film.