contrary to popular belief not everyone has an innate sense of internal gender or care to have one or seek a name for it, some people go their whole lives without questioning their occupation in one of two gender roles, but for some people, if pressed, they donβt feel that internal sense of βi am a womanβ or βi am a manβ, and in that case i feel the switch over to transgender vs cisgender relies on active identification of a gender other than the one they were assigned. if someoneβs like βidk dude I just work hereβ then thatβs valid
#i would describe my gender as not exactly βidk dude i just work hereβ #more likeβ¦..when someone assumes you work somewhere that you donβt #but you know how to help them so you do it anyway #my gender is wearing a red shirt at a target
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A portion of people in the notes are like βbut that makes you trans. Thatβs called being agenderβ and another portion of people are going βthis is how the majority of cis ppl feel and itβs NOT agenderβ and personally I feel like both of them are missing the point here. Yes a lot of people identify as agender because of this feeling. Yes a lot of people with this same feeling still identify as cis. These are not mutually exclusive experiences and it doesnβt mean the agender people are secretly cis or the cis people are secretly agender. It just means they have very similar experiences of gender that they choose to conceptualize and label differently, and neither of them are mistaken or wrong to do so.
