i had a regular who bought sex from me for years.
he would always pick me up in his car and take me home too. he got my favourite snacks and made my favourite cocktails and even gave me one to go when we were done. he even went in the drive through with me once because i wanted a mcflurry. we would always chat about our lives a little, have a laugh, he even gave me a birthday present.
he still raped me anally. he still kept going when i was whincing. he still told me he wanted to have sex with me without a condom once for his birthday and i said no and he went ahead with it anyways. he still made me do stuff i did not want to do because he knew i was relying on him, because one awful regular is better than taking a chance on new sex buyers you dont know yet all the time. i was still counting the minutes until it was finally over. he was one of those guys who pay for an hour so they want to use you for an hour. he was still older than my own mother and had a daughter my age. he was still a porn addict whose wife divorced him because to his own admission he was married to work and completely neglected her. i still wasnt attracted to him and suffered enduring sexual acts with him.
i hope this gave you whiplash because thats how i feel anytime another prostitute defends prostitution, because either „some sex buyers arent that bad“ or „my individual experience did not traumatise me“. i know not all sex buyers are outright monsters - but we should all know by now that abusers are not terrible people every second of every day.
the system of prostitution still allows men to coerce women into sex with money, knowingly making us endure it because they know we rely on them financially, and because they also know that there are even worse, sadistic men out there buying sex, at least they are being nice about it, right?
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