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so glad i tumblrized my way out of the "i'm not like most girls" phase

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If the only thing you can brag about is being a "Nice Guy", then you're clearly not such a good person.
"It's just a phase !"
Nope, it's actually more like a step towards self discovery and self love.
I'm scared people will hate me because I actually fear they'll see me the same way as I see myself.
Someone has brown hair. They decide to dye it blond because they like it better that way.
It's alright. Everybody refers to them as "the blond(e) one".
A trans person decides to change their body to fit their true gender and finally accept themselves.
"God made you that way, you just can't change it !"

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No offense
No offense but may a religious person explain to me why masturbation or sex in general is considered bad /evil ?
I'm not being disrespectful of your opinion, I'm just curious.
Thanks
Does anybody else feel like they're divided in two parts ?
Like when I'm eating there's one part of me that's like "just starve to death already, you ugly bitch", and the other part is like "no, eat you veggies gurl, nourish you body, it needs energy!"
Same when I go through a harsh phase, first part is like "cry. now. make it worse." and second part is like "keep your head up gurl, you might have fallen but you'll overcome that and be even stronger than before!"
It confuses me, but I'm don't think I'm the only one tho.
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Why "doing something relaxingâ does not help your anxiety
A lot of the time when people give advice intended to relieve anxiety, they suggest doing ârelaxingâ things like drawing, painting, knitting, taking a bubble bath, coloring in one of those zen coloring books, or watching glitter settle to the bottom of a jar.
This advice is always well-intentioned, and Iâm not here to diss people who either give it or who benefit from it. But it has never, ever done shit for me, and this is because it goes about resolving anxiety in the completely wrong way. Â
THE WORST THING YOU CAN DO when suffering from anxiety is to do a ârelaxingâ thing that just enables your mind to dwell and obsess more on the thing thatâs bothering you. You need to ESCAPE from the dwelling and the obsession in order to experience relief.
You can drive to a quiet farm, drive to the beach, drive to a park, or anywhere else, but as someone who has tried it all many, many times, trust meâitâs a waste of gas. You will just end up still sad and stressed, only with sand on your butt. You canât physically escape your sadness. Your sadness is inside of you. To escape, you need to give your brain something to play with for a while until you can approach the issue with a healthier frame of mind.Â
People who have anxiety do not need more time to contemplate, because we will use it to contemplate how much we suck.
In fact, you could say thatâs what anxiety isâhyper-contemplating. When we let our minds run free, they run straight into the thorn bushes. Our minds are already running, and they need to be controlled. They need to be given something to do, or theyâll destroy everything, just like an overactive husky dog ripping up all the furniture.Â
Therefore, I present to you:Â
THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT DO WHEN ANXIOUS
âGo on a walk
âWatch a sunset, watch fish in an aquarium, watch glitter, etc.
âGo anywhere where the main activity is sitting and watching
âDraw, color, do anything that occupies the hands and not the mind
âDo yoga, jog, go fishing, or anything that lets you mentally driftÂ
âDo literally ANYTHING that gives you great amounts of mental space to obsess and dwell on things.
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO WHEN ANXIOUS:
âDo a crossword puzzle, Sudoku, or any other mind teaser game. Crosswords are the best.
âWrite something. It doesnât have to be a masterpiece. Write the Top 10 Best Restaurants in My City. Rank celebrities according to Best Smile. Write some dumb Legolas fanfiction and rip it up when youâre done. Itâs not for publication, itâs a relief exercise that only you will see.Â
âRead something, watch TV, or watch a movieâas long as itâs engrossing. Donât watch anything which you can run as background noise (like, off the top of my head, Say Yes to The Dress.) As weird as it seems, American Horror Story actually helps me a lot, because it sucks me in.Â
âMasturbate. Yes, Iâm serious. Your mind has to concentrate on the mini-movie itâs running. It canât run Sexy Titillating Things and All The Things That are Bothering Me at the same time. (âŚI hope. If it can, thenâŚignore this one.)Â
âDo math problemsâliterally, google âalgebra problems worksheetâ and solve them. If you havenât done math since 7th grade this will really help you. I donât mean with math, I mean with the anxiety.Â
âPlay a game or a sport with someone that requires great mental concentration. Working with 5 people to get a ball over a net is a challenge which will require your brain to turn off the Sadness Channel.Â
âPlay a video game, as long as itâs not something like candy crush or Tetris thatâs mindless.Â
THINGS YOU SHOULD DO DURING PANIC ATTACKS ESPECIALLY:
âList the capitals of all the U.S. states
âList the capitals of all the European countries
âList all the shapes you can see. Or all the colors.Â
âList all the blonde celebrities you can think of.
âPull up a random block of text and count all the As in it, or Es or whatever. Â
Now obviously, I am not a doctor. I am just an anxious person who has tried almost everything to help myself.  Iâve finally realized that the stuff people recommend never works because this is a disorder that thrives on free time and free mental space. When I do the stuff I listed above, I can breathe again. And I hope it helps someone here too.Â
(Now this shouldnât have to be said but if the âdo notsâ work for you then by all means do them. Theyâve just never worked for me.)
This wouldâve been great an hour ago
This is so so true! When I was younger and suffering anxiety attacks, I used distraction techniques as I liked to call them. Iâd watch tv shows, read a book, write something or play a game. Something that distracted my mind.Â
Sometimes it takes a while for it to work so donât give up on distraction right away. Keep doing it! My mind eventually trained itself into recognising sitcoms as a âcalm downâ thing, so it became easier to distract myself with them the longer I did it.
wow so helpful thanks

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sure sex ed is great but what about mental health ed, so that ill teens won't grow up thinking they're lazy pieces of shit
You know what ?
Yes, there is always someone having it worse than you. There will always be someone who suffers more.
But you know what ?
You should never ever feel like your pain is less valid because of this. You don't need other people to validate your pain.
Shout out to those who have anxiety but enjoy going out occasionally.
Shout out to those who have depression but aren't suicidal.
Shout out to those who have anorexia but aren't skinny.
Shout out to those who struggle with their mental illness everyday, but don't look like they are.
I only wrote about anxiety, depression and anorexia because I don't know enough about other mental illnesses. Even if yours isn't mentioned here, you are still valid and important. Shout out to you.
Please
Stop telling the straight A's students they can't be stressed out by school.
Most of the time, when they say it they really mean it. Also it might take them lots of efforts to confess it to you.
Stop putting them down when you have a better grade than them.
You're happy. They know and understand it. But don't shame them, they can't always be good at everything.
To those who heard way too often :
"You aren't human."
"You must be a no-life with such grades."
"Stop complaining, you're going to get top grade anyway."
This one's for you.
A word of advice to trans women
Go to your nearest target. Buy a two pack of pushup bras (24$ for 2), and targetâs bra inserts (12$). Then go to your nearest Walmart and buy the Vasserette Control Shapewear Panties (2.50 each), they do wonders for helping your tuck. There you go! You just saved yourself a lot of money, you can afford to buy enough to wear every day, and best of all you look fabulous. -@twidx
recs for trans women are so rare on tumblr!! spread this, people.
Please reblog this, in total itâs about $38.50 to make a huge difference for a trans woman/trans feminine person.Â

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Not blog related. Doing an experiment here.
Reblog if family members, friends, or other people have gotten angry at you for being anxious or not wanting to go somewhere/do something because of your anxiety.
To my friends
You can't understand what's going on in my brain, that's not even what I ask you.
I just need you to support me.