Of the Sea&Garden

YELLOW

You're unpredictable but you have your own rules that you adhere to strictly. You can be flexible and stubborn at the same time. You have no problem trying out new things, tolerating people's different quirks and ideas, having no judgement about how others live their lives. But you have a strict moral code that you won't break in any circumstances. You have limits that you won't cross. People can feel surprised by how hard headed you can be about certains issues. You're bound only to your internal rules and restrictions, external ones have little meaning to you, you probably roll your eyes (inside) at phrases like "everyone is doing it", "you should do it because it's expected of you", "just do it because your boss says so" etc 

You can also be unpredictable in your approach to possessions. One moment you seem to desire that shiny thing and want to have it, the next you've already discarded it or given it to charity. You don't have much attachment to physical possessions or even emotional ones. You like to do frequent "spring cleaning" of your surroundings and your mind and heart. You don't neglect any space around or inside you, you won't let dust and darkness hide in a corner unbeknownst to you. Your mind is clear, your heart is direct, and that's reflected in the way you act, speak and behave in general. You don't try to hide anything, what they see is what they get. You don't have any illustrations about yourself nor about the world and its people. You see it for what it is, you see people for who they are. And you speak your mind without concealment or deceit. Some people can feel surprised by how honest you live your life. It's refreshing and makes a lot of matters simpler or even trivial. 

You have a big heart and a romantic side that can be surprising to people. Maybe you're not an openly affectionate person, you can be quite reserved around people. This loving side of you comes out more when you're around children, young people, pets or when you're helping someone. Maybe you make a lot of donations, work at charity, join many support groups but you don't boast about it. So when people find out, they can be surprised. 

Your work ethics and the dedication you have for your job, your career, what you care for is astonishing to some people. You seem chill and detached about most things but when needed, you can give your all. For some of you, your physical strength is also surprising for your body frame. You might look frail but you have tenacity and endurance.

Your fashion sense and the way you express yourself can be eclectic . You can always surprise people with how many styles you can pull off. You could usually wear casual style but suddenly, one day you walk into the room with a glamorous look or an alternative style that can shock people. Your choices don't seem to follow any pattern, at least in people's eyes.

BLACK

You're much more intense and resilient than your first impression. Even when people have known you for a long time, their perception of you is still distorted somewhat. The way you communicate can cause confusion to the listener. I don't think you do it intentionally, but it seems you don't often talk about your personal life or personal feelings regarding certain situations, you often see and talk in a philosophical way, sharing observations about human nature, the world around you. For example when someone asks you about your opinions on certain matters, you don't speak from your personal experience, or at least you seem that way, but from your observations of what everyone else is doing and your thoughts about it. You leave out the feeling part, the one that lets others know how you feel. So that creates mystery and also doubts too. You can be a great listener, a great story teller, you give good advice, you can offer your compassionate ears to people but after the conversation, people would often feel like the conversation is one-sided, with them sharing and you taking in but not sharing back. So when you do share your personal feelings, people can feel surprised, especially by the intensity, the depth of your feelings. 

You're much more intuitive than what people give you credit for. The way you speak might give the impression of rationality and practical deduction. But in reality, you rely on your intuition and gut feelings much more than you let on. You just know things, sometimes you move in such an irrational and random way and you might not even be able to predict the outcome of your actions but you just move anyway. Like a subconscious force is pushing you forward. Mysterious and inexplicable events could often happen around you. Even when you don't show any inclination for the occult or the supernatural side of this world.

You can withstand lots of stress, more than people think. You take problems and obstacles in stride. Nothing can really deter you from what you want, at least not for long. You know how to play the long game. You can be much more persistent and even obsessive than your usual demeanour would portray. You're also resourceful. You can maneuver through a lot of difficult situations with your wit, commitment and sheer will. Your strong will can literally manifest things for you. People would think you've long abandoned your hope but they're mistaken, you don't give up anything easily. You strategise, you pursue, you bend the situation to your will. Even when you look like an easy-going, meek or low key person, it would be a big mistake to underestimate you.

Some can be surprised when they find out that despite your strength and commitment, you can sometimes struggle with an identity crisis. It's like looking through a kaleidoscope, you see myriad motions and images and you can't decide which one you like the best. There's always a "what if". You're much more adventurous when it comes to exploring your individuality. Some wouldn't be able to guess it because for whatever reason, you're often out into defined boxes. What they don't know is that you're like the air, you can't be truly grasped nor contained. 

BLUE

This might not be too surprising for people who know you well, but to strangers or people who have only heard about you, interacted briefly with you, they find it surprising that you're not as chill or meek as you look. You have a firm intensity about you that only shows itself around the people whom you're close with. Your first impression usually portrays you as someone who's quite emotional, sometimes quite anxious. You seem to seek solitude, to hide away from the noisy world, to hide your emotions. You might come across as passive or withdrawn. But that's only when you're around people you don't know well or people you don't like. When one gets to an one-on-one interaction with you, they will see your more dominant side, much stronger, much more resolute, even ruthless sometimes. You don't tolerate any nonsense, you don't like to waste your time and effort. You demand loyalty and commitment and you give back just as much. A relationship with you is no joking matter. To the people who don't have any serious intentions, or those who are only curious and seek to satisfy their curiosity, this might come as a shock. Maybe some of them even have to exclaim that you don't have to be so serious. But you are and you don't see any reason to act otherwise. 

You also don't sit around and wait for things to fall on your lap. You're not a passive person at all. But you're patient and know when to be still, when to move. Your wisdom and the ability to flow with life is what makes it seem like your life is just flowing so smoothly, like you're drifting and your wishes come true because you're lucky. People often mistake your stillness with inactivity or lack of drive. You just move at your own pace. And it surprises people when you arrive at your destination in such a quiet and different way. 

When typing this, my right leg cramped. Maybe people would often think you like to stay in one place, that you're not an active person, that you seem to have no desire to explore, you may even look like a homebody, someone who loves to stay at home a lot. But that's not quite the truth. You can't stay in one place for long. Your mind longs for exploration, for insights and knowledge that the world has to offer. You might have a wanderlust spirit, you like to travel and to learn, but not many people are aware of this about you. 

You might also often seek to improve and get better at whatever you do. You're a perfectionist who thinks that the current state is not perfect and needs improvement. You might even have some insecurities about your mental prowess, that's why you seek to learn more, to master and to widen your knowledge. You're much more demanding of yourself than you let on. Learning, obtaining knowledge, improving yourself can be your lifelong quests. They're the motivation behind your actions and your future plans and goals. People would be surprised by your thought process, by your ideas and ideals, by your beliefs and what you advocate for and the intensity and passion you have for them.

ORANGE

You give off the impression of someone who's very focused, ambitious, confident and quite analytical. But when people get to see your true self better, they will be surprised that your personality is much more nuanced than that. You have your fears, your worries, you also hold back a lot of your thoughts and are considerate of other people's feelings, much more than you show. You're more dreamy, softer and more flexible. It seems like a majority of the people who know you are in the working environment with you so they're likely to get to see your professional side rather than how you behave in your private life.

For some reason, people would often think you're spoiled, like you just get everything you want at the snap of your finger. Maybe your manner, the way you dress would suggest this impression. There's something proper about the way you act and speak, like habits of a well raised child. So it would be surprising when people find out that you're much humble, you're not haughty or spoiled. In fact, you're quite eager to please and you're also very generous. 

People may find it surprising that you can be insecure at times, despite how you look, how well you are in life. People would think you're the last person to be concerned with mundane worries, but in reality, you are. You're earnest. You want to be good at everything you do,maybe that's why you give the impression of being ambitious. But it's not necessary about getting ahead, it's about being the best, being the master at what you do. You put your heart in everything you do. Sometimes you might take on more than you can, which explains the nervous energy. But in general, you would often emerge out of the mess just fine, because you're quite lucky. People are surprised by the extent you could go, the amount of pressure you could take and the outcomes of your endeavours. You can be pretty reckless, but quietly so. You don't seem the type to abandon established rules to chase faraway dreams, but you are. Yes you're ambitious, but your goals are different from people's expectations. 

Your travel plans, the places you want to visit can be surprising too. Something to do with religion, spirituality, occult or somewhere a bit morbid, like burial grounds or old prisons. For some of you, I also sensed a desire to run away to a faraway land, to start with a clean slate. You might not express your desire towards these destinations, maybe you don't feel confident that people would support you so you keep them a secret. Also, your belief about past lives, incarnations, karma and universal justice might be surprising to other people too. It's your own philosophy, something that you've experienced, observed and pondered about deeply.

RED

These people might be younger than you or they have youthful manners. They can feel like your fans, your admirers, someone who looks up to you, either for support (both of you can support each other in one way or another) or guidance. They want to learn from you, to become someone like you, you're their role model. 

They have a curious mind combined with dedication to learning. They're hard working and don't give up easily. You can feel motivated when you're around them, like their fire rubbing off on you. They can be a little childish or reckless but you will feel that they can achieve anything, their potential is limitless. It's that childlike candour that's fuelling their actions. When you talk to them, your mind won't have to spin, to look for hidden messages or schemes behind their smiles. What you see is what you get. That doesn't mean they're simple minded, single minded? Yes, a little bit, but not foolish, a little naive too. They're just honest. You will feel relaxed with them. You can let your guard down, especially if you're someone who finds it's hard to trust people. Your biggest supporters will be those whom you can trust easily. 

If you struggle with feeling motivated, or tired by the busy life and constant hustle, or worry too much about the future. You will learn a lot from just observing these people living their lives. They don't worry too much about tomorrow, they aren't lost in the past either, they just try their best to live today to the fullest. Sometimes it's better to be with people who can offset your habits. They will give you a new perspective on life. Also, because they're passionate and hopeful, if you have any ideas that you want to execute, or plans that you're hatching, they will be your cheerleader. They will hype you up, express their excitement for your new plan and give you encouragement to go for it. You will want to be with people who believe in you, who can see the potential in you, who can give you optimistic feedback instead of just logical and sound advice. They can do that for you because they also believe in themselves. They walk the talk, they have substance.

Your supporters will be good friends, not just to you but to other people as well. They're generally kind and love companies. Their friendships aren't superficial at all. They treasure each one of the people in their lives deeply. They cherish your friendship with each other. They could be the kind of people who remind you of your memories shared together, the joy and hardship, the effort and comfort. You can see their sincerity and affection clearly and consistently. Being with them brings you peace and hope.

WHITE

These people are your silent supporters. You might not even notice them or can guess the extent they would go for to help you. You can always count on them, in the most mundane problems to dire situations. I feel that you're an independent person, someone who's quite stubborn about admitting their weaknesses. You don't feel comfortable asking for help, thinking that your problems are yours to solve and you don't want to burden others with them. You might have the tendency to think that your problems and you yourself can be a bit too much to people. You would assume that they won't understand you, much less sympathise with you. As a result, you don't ask for help much or expect support from people. You go about your quests alone. The people who can support you will be those who are perceptive enough to notice your burdens and subtle enough to not trigger your defence mechanism. 

They can be people of few words, who act instead of talking. They're wise, experienced, that's why they can offer you their knowledge and practical support, even when you think you don't need it. They have a way that makes you feel at ease, you can depend on them, or you want to depend on them. They're persuasive with their actions, not with big talks. You connect well with people who share a familiar background with you or have familiar experiences. They can understand you because they've also gone through the same things. The people who support you understand pain and suffering. If that knowledge isn't from their past experience then at least, from the observations they've made throughout their lives. They're perceptive and compassionate, but in a silent way.

They're selfless. Some could even sacrifice themselves and their convenience for you. These people can protect you from harm, physically, mentally and emotionally, they're strong. They might not explain their reasons and actions with you but you will always know that they're doing it for your own good, even when it can be unpleasant. Their energy feels benevolent but a little bit wounded and cautious. You will see their good intentions and care when you look closely, when you don't let your ego get in the way.

You could meet your supporters through shared missions, causes, ideals. It's like people from different worlds gather together to form a band, to march forward together.

BLUE

These people have so much fire in them. When you look at them, you can't help but smile and feel life's good again. They will be a special light in your time of hardship. If you ever feel down or begin to lose faith, they will be there to remind you again the joy of life. These people have soft but jubilant energy. They know how to have fun and look for joy in the smallest corner of their everyday lives. They can appear youthful, childish even. They move and talk gracefully, some of them could have small stature but their small frames hold so much strength. They're strong but they're not aggressive or boastful about it. They know where to use their strengths. When you're with them, you will feel safe and motivated at the same time. Instead of standing in front of you in the face of a challenge to protect you, they will stand next to you to face the challenge together with you. Whether they do it intentionally or not, they let you come into your own strength and independence. They want you to be strong and happy, on your own, without having to depend on others. That doesn't mean they would encourage you to isolate yourself or be a solitary figure, or they don't give you a hand when needed, they just give you the opportunity to be more self-sufficient. If you're generally shy or aren't used to taking the initiative, they can create a safe space for you to do so.

Your supporters are those who are playful. They smile and laugh easily. They find many things adorable and beautiful. They might have a photography hobby. Just a random note, but they know how to take beautiful pictures of you, moments when you shine, when you're at your best, when you're at ease and enjoying the present. You would feel seen when you're with them, they can see the best in you and they encourage you to bring that part out more often. They can also challenge you a bit, just for fun. They might like fun games, like video games, sports, card games etc. For some of you, if you struggle with or find physical closeness uncomfortable, these people would understand that and give you space. But they're warm and affectionate so they can make you feel safe and relaxed enough to slowly feel more comfortable with their touches, hugs or other physical interactions. 

Being with them would feel healing. Another random note but the scents and fragrances might be relevant in your connection. They could wear a scent that eases you. You can recognise these people by their comforting or alluring scents and their general care for their well beings. They know how to take care of themselves so they also know how to do that for other people too. They would want you to adopt healthy habits, improve your health, and live a better life. They won't nag you but they will guide you, give you advice and have their medicine cabinets ready whenever you need. Their energy feels wholesome, like a lifelong friend who can stay with you through ups and downs.

YELLOW

This group feels a bit like the White group, if you're drawn to the White group, you can read it too. Both group's supporters are people who can get the jobs done, who can manifest your dreams for you, who are silent but capable and sometimes ruthless. But this group's energy feels more cheeky, playful. They can have you fooled at first impression. Your first impression of them might not be too favourable, you might think that they're unreliable, unpredictable and have too many cards hidden in their sleeves. They can be a bit manipulative too, playing with people's perception and challenging their rooted beliefs. But that's exactly why they can be your deadly ally. They know the tricks, they know how to maneuver difficult circumstances, though their method might seem questionable to you sometimes. Like an employee who's willing to break the rules as long as it can bring benefits to the company. 

They're greatly misunderstood most of the time. But it could be possible that they find it funny when they're misunderstood like that. As I've mentioned above, they like to play with people's perception, it gives them more leeway to do things their own way. Most of the time, they don't really have malicious intentions, they don't scheme to bring someone down, though they could scheme to gain the upper hand. They like to be behind the scenes, like a puppet master, controlling the situation and the people. They have a sharp mind and a charming, albeit a little cheeky, manner. They like to talk in riddles, they like mental games, but they also like other fun activities like sports, video games, tinkering with creations. As long as they feel amused. This person or these people would get bored quickly with mundane life.

So why can they be your biggest supporters? If you're in a close connection with them, they're willing to roll up their sleeves and solve your problems for you, any problems, with their unconventional methods. They will indirectly teach you how to be more resourceful, how to think in a bigger picture and how to keep your cool in the face of trouble or harsh judgement. They also keep their promises very well, even when they don't look like it. So if they want to help you, you bet that they would do everything they can to help you, simply because it can be a fun challenge to them.

They also bring a lot of fun into your life. They can feel like a sibling to you, sometimes a younger one, sometimes an older one. You'll never get bored with them, they can cheer you up, they can protect you, but they can also frustrate you to no end. They can be chatty, they can be philosophical, but they can also be silent and just observing. Seeing their myriad moods and "masks" can help you understand how complex a human can be and you will gain a more nuanced understanding of the psychology of people through interactions with them and observing how they operate in the world.

PURPLE

The first thing I got was that this person or these people could be merchants, someone who works in business, finance, commerce. They have excellent negotiation skills and persuasive manners. Hearing them talk could feel like being hypnotised or being convinced of something that you normally wouldn't believe in. They have the ability to instill beliefs in you, whether beliefs in your own ability, your potential or belief in a future with them. 

When you're in doubt, they'll be the best person you could come to for help. They're intelligent, witty, resourceful and skillful. But there's always a catch, they don't usually help you for "free" though, they might have something to gain in helping you, either that would invest further into a future they want or they gain something indirectly through helping you. Or they just like to have an equal exchange, they help you, you help them. When you're asking for their help, it would feel like you're trying to make a bargain with them. It's not that bad though, you can learn a lot when you're with them. They might make it look like you have to return the favour but in reality, you're the one who benefits the most. It's just their way of dealing with you, maybe they find amusement in asking for a favour in return. It could create more chances for them to interact with you more.

If they're interested in you, whether romantically or not, their way of expressing interest can feel unconventional, like they try to vex you, to challenge you, to poke you a little. You will gradually learn to thicken your skin around them and take things in a more lighthearted manner. This would benefit you greatly if you're someone who's a little bit uptight or shy.

This group's energy feels very masculine. Your greatest supporters could be of masculine gender or they have strong masculine traits. But not the macho, aggressive or domineering type. Their energy feels more like the Magician card in Tarot, skillful, willful and have strong principles, even their external expression would make you doubt that. They just follow their own path without feeling the need to explain themselves. They might keep a lot of secrets, hidden plans that would surprise you but it will usually feel like a deus ex machina, a helping hand suddenly appears when you need it the most. 

They also uphold their promises to you with unusual seriousness. If they promise to do something for you, whether big or small, they will do it. They're also oddly protective. You wouldn't guess it from their usual demeanour but when needed, when you are threatened, they can protect you, both physically and emotionally. Despite their unpredictability and secretive heart, they can be a dependable person for you to lean on. This group's energy feels like a single person rather than a group of people. 

GREEN

This feels like several different people who can be your best supporters. They have different personalities, different talents, resources, different relationships with you. But they all can support you in many ways. I think you're an independent person who's quite good at solving their own problems and can achieve their goals on their own without much outside help. There are many things that you rather do on your own, it's faster that way, more efficient. A lot of your big dreams are realised by your own ability, your own effort and talent. Or it would seem that way. In reality, the people around you support you, cheer on you more than you know. They might not provide a grand support with apparent effects but their existences alone are enough to give you strength. They might be the motivational force behind your goals. 

I see three different kinds of people who can be your best supporters. The first group are those who are optimistic and always believe in harmony and shared effort. They might be the kind who likes to do things together with you. Who likes to cheer you up, encourages you to try new hobbies, new endeavours, who believes in your potential. Their encouraging words and faith are their biggest gift to you. They might not be able to lend you practical help or material resources, but they can give you the best emotional support. When you're with them, you'll feel uplifted, hopeful and joyful too.

The second group are your silent supporters. They can be quiet, they don't like to stand in the spotlight and prefer to do things behind the scenes. They don't feel the need to hoard attention to themselves nor receive praise for their good deeds. If they want to help you, they help you, with no expectation of anything in return. It could feel like a duty to them. Someone who's loyal and dedicated. They might want to help you from a far or give you valuable information that can help you progress further.

The last group are the funny ones. They're funny in the literal sense but they also act funny in a quirky and head-scratching kind of way. You could never expect or believe that they can help you. This energy feels like children, young people. Or people who can be quite skittish and scaredy cats, who don't seem to have any obvious power. But don't be fooled. They can give you help in the most crucial time. They're much stronger and more brave than you think. Their words, their presences feel healing to you. Maybe they can give you an innocent observation that can awaken a new perception in you, they might give you a merry hug when you feel like crying. For some of you, when you're in their presence, you feel protected, energetically. Like they have a strong spiritual shield that can shield you away from harm.

SKY BLUE

This connection has a strong feeling of attachment. Both of you are attached to each other. Sometimes to an unhealthy degree. Your temperaments are polar opposite but fit together like puzzle pieces. 

You seem to be the more experienced one, someone who has lived through many major life events and has learned important lessons from them. But you're not jaded nor cynical. You know life so you don't feel the need to "fight" it, you go with the flow of it. You know when to slow down, when to enjoy the present and when to move forward. Even if it takes a long time for you to realise your dreams, you don't fret, you just do what it takes because you know eventually you will get there. I used the word "know" a lot here so perhaps you're very knowledgeable, either in academic sense or in spirituality sense, you just "know" things without having to consciously think hard about it. You're also very kind. But your kindness is discerning and has strong boundaries. You might have a mild manner and soft way of speaking but you're also curious and have a strong moral compass. You appear agreeable most of the time but when you think something is wrong, you stand your ground and fight. You also love to cheer people up, to uplift their spirits. Which is why you're so drawn to your person.

Their personality is much sharper than yours. As opposed to you, they're quite cynical, the world might feel like a jungle to them, where they need to survive at all cost. They're skillful and clever. They're also curious and know how to utilise the resources at hand. They have a sharp mind and an equally sharp tongue. Their personality could make them a loner, or someone who has many superficial relationships but they trust none. Deep inside, they're tender at heart, but exactly because of that they want to be strong externally, to gain an upper hand in this threatening world.

Can you see how you and them fit together? Their cynicism stirs your compassionate nature. You want to help them find hope again, to tell them that they don't have to fight all the time. I think you view this person as someone who's quite broken and lonely and you want to provide strength and support to them, to help them rise again and connect with their innocent heart. In short, you want to rescue them out of the darkness. This person could be younger than you or they're less mature than you. The energy of your connection feels like siblings energy. You don't have to be actual siblings but you have the desire to care for, to support and guide this person. Whilst they feel more at ease, more joyful when they're around you. They also get inspired by you a lot and love that you're patient with them.

You can be extra attentive when you see them being down, lonely and defeated. When they're confused and lose their motivation to move on. This is where it can get unhealthy, because no matter how much you try to cheer them up, if they keep thinking they're the victim, the unlucky one, if they keep holding on to limiting beliefs then your effort would be futile. You might even go against your own hunch to keep coming back to them, keep giving to them. And they can also get addicted to your attention and don't want to really get out of their misery. So the meaning of this relationship is to highlight your tendency to hold on even when it's not all right to do so. Both of you can be protective and possessive of each other. At one point, you will have to let them stand strong on their own and account for their own actions. And they will have to learn to get more in touch with life and not get too dependent on you. The bond is unmistakably strong but both the rescuer and the rescued will need to continue moving and live after the crisis ends. They may connect but with different dynamics. 

OCEAN BLUE

This is a very deeply spiritual connection. You could have a past lives connection with each other, like two people of the same spiritual group, the same coven, or the same association. Both of you are devoted to your beliefs and ideas and you may come together to strengthen those beliefs and release the other from unnecessary burdens that life has placed on them. This sounds religious a lot but it doesn't have to be. It could just simply mean that both of you will use your power to help each other and be united in purposes and paths.

But your energies feel different from each other. You may not trust the other person at first sight, something about both of you that just makes the other person feel on guard and cautious. Your animal spirit card is the Hawk and theirs is the Sea Serpent, it feels like natural enemies, both are powerful beings who come from different worlds. Maybe because you both sense the hidden power each possesses and you don't often encounter that kind of energy in other people. But slowly you would realise that you can rely on each other, to have each other's back, you two can be the strongest allies, a duo that's invincible. Under normal circumstances, you might miss or avoid each other, but fate plays a hand here, fate would push you two towards each other, you could connect through a common goal or a mission, through a community. 

If spoken plainly, your role in this connection is the truth deliverer and their role is the creator or the nurturer. But you both face the same challenges and burdens that somehow connect you to each other. This relationship brings you closer to your truths and also gives you hope for freedom. Being in each other's presence feels like being in a different world. The energy feels fresh and pure. Whether this connection is romantic or platonic or any other nature, the qualities I mentioned previously stay the same.

You often tell them what they need to hear, not what they want to hear. Especially when you see them overextending themselves, when they give without receiving any back in return, when they're exhausted. You will want to point them to the truth that they might not be seeing. If you practise Tarot or other kinds of divination art, you would do a reading for them, you would caution them against certain situations or people. You can appear quite frank and ruthless about your message. You probably like to encourage them to let go, to start anew. And when you're in the same situation, they would know how to make you relaxed, to have faith again. They would hold a space for you, or literally hold you in their arms to soothe you. They could use their power and wisdom to help ease your load. They may even practise witchcraft or some kind of occult art themselves. This connection could be a gateway to lead you more into spirituality and the esoteric field.

Being in this connection often makes you feel lighter, more free, like after stooping down to carry heavy burdens, you can finally let them all go and stand straight up and walk away. For some of you, the meaning of this connection doesn't depend on the longevity of it. Even if the connection is short-lived, it will serve its purpose just the same, to let both of you realise the deeper truth, to strip away all the chains and masks, to help you start a new life, a new path. Even if you part ways, the spirit of the other would still stay with you, a binding invisible cord. After I had finished your reading, I kept getting new messages and wanted to come back to add more, so this could mirror your connection, you both want to come back to each other, even when you think the connection has reached its end, maybe you will experience many starts and endings in this connection. Trying again and again, each time with a new perception.

Uranus, Aquarius, the colour black, blue and purple might have special meanings for some of you and your person.

VIOLET

This connection holds so much potential and hidden messages. You will need time to fully see it in its true self. The potential of this connection is still in the incubation stage, anything is possible. But both of you will need patience and be willing to care for it in order for the connection to crack the hard shell of the egg and fully emerge. Your person seems to be aware of this quality of the connection with you. They're looking forward to the future of it, they're trying to protect it. This might be a new connection that's still developing and the future of it can't be predicted for certain. 

Your person could be hiding something, or they're unaware of something within them, like they've lost a part of themselves, a crucial part that's locked away. They could have a very difficult past, something that they want to forget and so the memory of that past is buried deep inside their heart. To the point that they can temporarily forget about it. But that past holds a part of them that's the core, the essence of them. So you might notice something is amiss about them. Like a puzzle that lacks a few key pieces. You have the urge to uncover that part, to help them realise something about themselves. Maybe you can also see the potential of the connection just like they do, but through a different lens. To them, being in this connection feels like a path they need to take, whilst you see this connection as a project, a mission or an experience that lets both of you be closer to your authentic selves. 

Mirror, reflections, camera and photos could be important in your connection. It's like both of you want to take snapshots of yourselves through different times, in different circumstances, so that you can catch a glimpse of the "secret". This connection can change both of you and itself could go through many changes. The status of your connection could change several times. You and your person would discover several layers of yourselves that you hadn't noticed before. The energy feels fluid, like a water wheel.

This connection pushes or nudges both of you forward, sometimes backward, sometimes running around in a circle just so you can learn the lesson and discover a crack in the world where you can truly belong. In this connection, it seems you're the one who's observing and learning from your person, like you're going after their footsteps. Not that you're lesser than them but I think you will intuitively feel that by doing so, you will achieve a kind of happiness that's long lasting. 

Before meeting them, you might be on a constant quest to find the meaning to your life and actions. You would want to experience, to test life, to see how far you can go, how much joy you can have. Your person is the opposite of that. They seem to be content with the present, in fact, they're fiercely protective of their present, of the small happiness that they're holding. So by connecting with them, their way of being gradually rubs on you. You will feel less stressed, less rushed, less desire to change things up for the sake of changing. You will learn to slow down. And you will help them to burn away or melt away the ice that's encasing their heart. They will gain a new understanding of themselves and be more like you, more joyful. Both of you will hold up a mirror for the other person to see all their glory and secrets reflected back at them.

PURPLE

This connection can be a bit complicated. It's fulfilling but also has the potential to sabotage your autonomy and the sense of an individual self. You're lost in each other. It feels like you merge together to form a united existence. At times this connection can be the strongest bond but other times, it can be unstable because of the lack of individualisation and healthy boundaries. 

This relationship will highlight your innermost fear, it can bring out your worst trait. I think you have the tendency to be overly attached to the things and people you cherish, or to an ideal. Once you've believed in something, especially the potential of it, your conviction can get unreasonably obstinate. You love to help people, to bring happiness to the person you love, you can sacrifice yourself for them, you're selfless. And this trait, when paired with the yearning for a deep love, for total intimacy, can make you lose yourself in the other person. You could want to be involved in their life as much as possible, to become one with them. You might not notice this trait about yourself. Either because you haven't met a person that can truly touch your heart and awaken this part of you, or you have developed a relationship pattern that you're unaware of. So this relationship will bring this part of you to the spotlight, magnify it ten folds, because you've met your match.

Your person is a very devoted person. Once they've committed to someone, they don't think of anything else or any other person. Their heart is yours to keep. So when you display your interest, when you engage with them deeply, even when you act a little clingy, they actually welcome it because they've finally met their match too. Someone who can be devoted to them just like they're to you. You see how this can exacerbate your tendency to be overly attached even more. They encourage your attachment, you feed their desire for total loyalty. 

Both of you're highly stubborn when it comes to your beliefs and devotion. You don't budge, love can make you blind, love can make you do irrational things. You both follow your hearts and don't exactly care about what everyone else is saying. So if people express concern or objection about your connection, both of you will defend it vehemently. In this connection, there's no "you" and "me", just "us". You probably like to do everything together, make decisions together, move in life together. You feel stronger when you're with each other. It can get unhealthy when you aren't able to make a decision on your own or develop your own lives outside of the connection. It's like you don't know who you're anymore when you're not by your person's side. This applies to both of you. In a less extreme sense, you feel lonely and hollow in the absence of the other person.

This connection will give you the opportunity to be an individual in an intimate connection. To develop your own sense of self so that you know who you're in this connection and what you can give and receive from it. You can be one with your person whilst still remaining an individual. Your strengths combined can move mountains, but only when you know your own strength and how to express it.

TIGER'S EYE

They throw their rationality out of the window basically. This person could be a very logical person, they rely on their mind to make sense of the world and navigate it. They're practical and don't tolerate nonsense. They could get impatient with overly emotional people, those who are irrational or have a messy mind. The way they approach love is also very practical, they could confess their love to you in a matter-of-factly manner. They evaluate love through a scrutinising lense, whether that love fits their current life, whether it can bring any improvements, possible disasters and setbacks that they need to avoid etc. In short they aren't really the romantic, idealistic type of lover. 

But when they feel your seduction, when they're seduced by you, their mind takes the backseat. They can act pretty irrational and reckless (according to their standard). They could get impatient too, if before, they were strategic with their every move, planning things ahead, predicting possible outcomes, now they just charge in. You might notice their change in demeanour and speaking speed. They could stumble on their words, having more frequent pauses between sentences or talk faster than usual. They could also make more verbal blunders, like unintentionally disclosing a secret when they just want to chat casually with you. They could also become more blunt and curt. But for some of you, they become more quiet and less confident in their talk. They could speak in a lower voice, more gentle, more considerate (if they're usually blunt and harsh with their words)

There's a resigned energy here. They feel like whatever their life was before you, it's over, that chapter is closed. Now they need to explore new territory and the frustrating thing is their mind and past experiences fail them in this quest. But they will keep trying because they can see potential with you. They feel hopeful in this relationship. If they have any mental hang ups or insecurities, they would likely feel less burdened by them when they're with you. You make them care less about all of those things. They would feel less stressful, more relaxed. You seduce them to connect more with their heart.

They also feel fulfilled and content, like they have everything they need when they're with you, so they don't feel like they have to fight, to be on constant guard. It's not that they won't feel worried about anything but when they do, they will be more calm and more optimistic since they will have their heart assisting them in their problem solving and decision making process, thanks to you.

CITRINE

You inspire so much passion in them but I think this person isn't used to this kind of feeling, or their passion was wounded so it makes them uncomfortable, to sit in so much of it. It's like you've turned on the stove and put a lid on the pot simultaneously. You make them boil then stew in their feelings. Maybe they like the feeling of keeping, reining in their fire, or they don't know how to deal with it in a balanced way. So they could act hot and cold with you. One moment they're all over you, charging in without a care, the next, they retreat and try to lean on their logical side, their brain instead of their heart and body. The energy would flip flop. 

They feel the need to express themselves fully around you, they just want to be themselves, not wearing any mask or costume, not playing any role, just themselves. They would feel comfortable being naked around you, both physically and emotionally, but only after they'd accepted their feelings. You seem to know how to pull out their authentic self and sometimes they don't feel ready for that. This person might have a very rigid definition of who they are, how they should act, what they should strive for. This definition was formed by their early environment, what they've observed and learned through different media. They want to have a concrete identity, this person probably likes personality tests, MBTI or even astrology, anything that can describe them to themselves. So when they're around you and they find themselves acting mostly by instinct, they can feel disoriented. In a way, you seduce their original self, the one at their core, to come out. For some of you, they might have an awakening or some realisations about their sexuality when they connect with you.

This feels very much like a gradual process. With their new found self, they would slowly begin to move towards you, to become more active and want to learn more about you. Like when a person discovers a new hobby, they're eager to start and try to gather as much knowledge and experience as possible. In the past, this person would think that they weren't a passionate and fiery person. But when they're with you, a new fire sparked and they want to keep it alive, grow it bigger. They want to wield the fire more proficiently.

They also feel rewarded by you for their effort to get acquainted with this new found passion. They might be awkward at times in displaying their warmer side, but you receive them well, so they feel emboldened to express more. But in general, they will still act quite low key about it, especially in the beginning, when they're still not sure about what to do. They would feel insecure, not very confident about how to approach you, to be around you. They fear that you won't accept this version of them. Honestly, you would also intimidate this person. Like when fire meets ice. Your temperaments could be opposite of each other's. Maybe their pride would get in their way, they want to keep their cool. So initially they would mask themselves even further. There won't be a sudden shift in energy. You will just feel the heat gradually turning up.

ROSE QUARTZ 

You make them impatient. This person is generally a chill and patient person, they know how to wait for the good things, they know the process, the time needed for every step so they diligently wait and act on time. They're strategic and want to play the long game. But when they're seduced by you, they don't want to wait, it's like instead of waiting for the dough to rise to make their own breads, they want to rush out to the bakery to buy one immediately. Maybe you like to make them wait, to test their patience or they feel like they can't progress things quickly with you. The timing might not be right or they think your connection with each other is still at an immature stage so they can't rush, even when they want to accelerate it, they know that it won't do them good in the long run. Their external expression and actions would seem measured, cautious around you. Sometimes you could see their hesitation, like they're being lost in the process of figuring out the next step with you. Other times, you could catch them staring at you, watching you whilst being still and quiet.

Internally, there's a strong energy of retrospection. They would look back at their past relationships or try to, to compare with what they're having with you now. What's interesting is that the memories of the past would turn hazy, they will just remember the general feelings but can't seem to "see" the details clearly. And then there's a sharp focus on what they've built with you, what they're having with you. So the more they try to compare with the past, the more certain they're about you and the relationship. 

They also like to stare at your pictures when you're not there with them. This person could take many pictures of you, they want to capture the happy moments you share together, the beauty of you. So your seduction lingers on their mind even when you're not physically around. They would also like to take pictures of you when they find you seductive, fleeting moments, small details that you won't even notice yourself. This person pays a lot of attention to details. They could have strong Virgo, Cancer and Mercury in their chart. Every moment matters to them.

In general, they just feel fulfilled by you. They have what they need, they feel secure, they look forward to what you will share with each other in the future. This person could often daydream about the future with you, about family, kids, anniversaries, celebrations with you. Or if you've shared those with them then they would reminisce about those memories fondly. They will want to celebrate with you, not just big moments, but also daily moments when they feel happy. A bit random but they might want to invite you to dance with them when they're seduced by you. Maybe the seduction between you two feels like a dance.

They will also realise something about their goals in life. What they were pursuing now seems distant and foreign to them. You make them want to pursue a different direction, to work for different goals. They will realise that they have put their effort in the wrong target, they will see a bigger picture, of how their life would be had they pursued those old goals and they won't find much fulfilment in that path.

STRAWBERRY QUARTZ 

Time stands still for this person when they're seduced by you, when they're around you. For some reason, whenever they're seduced by you, they become inactive, immobile, still and just be there. It's like their mind stops working, if this is a person who is usually active, restless, their mind buzzing with ideas, their body can't stop moving, their mouth wants to speak all the time, then when they're under the influence of your seduction, they turn into the opposite. 

I feel like you can be deliberate in your actions, or you're generally shy, it takes a bit of time for you to act, to seduce overtly. You could make this person thirst for your affection, maybe you're intentional about it, giving them only a little at a time, or you unintentionally do so. Seeing you in your active seductive power could be a rare event for them, especially in the initial stage of your connection. So whenever they get to see it, they feel the need to be still and savour it. To just sit back and wait for what will happen next. It's a little strange but they might not expect much from you or they expect more from you so they wait for a bigger display from you after the initial seduction. They low key want to be impressed, perhaps they're usually the one who does the chasing, who actively tries to seduce you and you're the one who sits back and waits to be impressed. So it would amuse them when the role is reversed. This feels like the natural order is turned upside-down to them.

They will be in the passive mode when they feel your seduction. They won't try to do much, to push for any outcome that they want, they just want it to develop naturally. If this is a bossy and decisive person normally, then they will be less so when they're with you. They will be gentle, more flexible, more willing to follow the flow and your whims. You seem to take good care of them, be a reliable and steady partner that they can and want to lean on. So they will feel less burdened by the pressure to do so much, especially things that are expected of their role in the relationship. For example, if they're generally expected to be a provider in the relationship, they won't feel like that with you, both of you provide for each other equally or you provide for them instead. Or if they're expected to be the passive one, the softer one then they would also not feel like that with you, they can be the stronger one, the more active one in the relationship. Not that they don't provide or be soft with you, but they don't have to "perform", to pursue a certain identity within the relationship with you.

You will often find them having a dazed look, being in a relaxed posture. Sometimes they can even turn downright lazy, just want to lounging about, do nothing and enjoy your presence. If they're a hard worker, an ambitious person in their professional world then you make them want to forget all those ambitions, those promotions, those future plans and just stay in the present, mind blank. Your seduction has a very strong influence on your person. Be careful not to take advantage of them when they're in that blissful oblivious state. 

CITRINE

Your aura reminds me of a wild horse running. So much vitality, grace and movement. It's both dynamic yet stable at the same time. Your aura makes people want to move, you wake them up from their slumber, they feel awake when they're around you, they feel the need to do something with their life, to make it better, to get going, to enjoy life more. 

Yet people also feel very secure and safe around you. Like they're in good hands. They know they can trust you, follow your lead to see where you will take them. Your aura has the energy of a teacher, someone who advocates for progress, who wants to see people and the world around them becoming better. 

Wherever you go, you evoke changes in the atmosphere. Like electricity or a refreshing gust of wind, you bring with you the energy of renewal, a new beginning. The people who are stuck in the past, in the status quo will feel threatened by your energy. They're afraid to be swept away by you. What they don't understand is that you bring healing with you. Your aura feels both gentle, kind but also firm and sharp. Like a bitter medicine, once the person has taken it, they might feel uncomfortable at first but would slowly get better. 

Your aura shakes off the cobwebs that cover people's eyes, the dust that covers their hearts. You might make some casual remarks, what you say might not sound anything serious or important, yet the impact of its energy can be felt, like a wake-up call, profound wisdom can hide in the most simple words. Your aura helps people connect more with their emotions, they want to work, to understand them better. Your aura makes people want to act, to explore, be more adventurous, more experimental, just like you.

Your aura could change a lot at different moments, but the essence would always remain the same. Its colours could be dark and solid, like black, navy, blue and forest green, like a deep ocean, constantly moving, sometimes it's calm and tranquil, sometimes it rages and sweeping but then the sun shines again and the surface sparkles with light.

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ROSE QUARTZ 

You have such a concentrated aura, I also got the image of a magnet that pulls everything to it. Your aura is magnetic, once people are in the vicinity of your aura, your energetic field, they feel the need to come closer, physically and emotionally, to figure something out, to understand why they feel the way they feel. Their feelings can be inexplicable, they can't put a name on it. Your aura is like a lullaby, one that soothes and puts people into a trance-like state. They just want to let go, to relax and be in your presence. 

Your aura sends out soft waves, unspoken messages that touch people's subconscious. It feels soft and inviting, welcoming but also mystifying. It can't be concretely defined. It shifts and changes shapes, colour, like the rainbow colours swirling on a bubble's surface. One touch and it might pop. But it's only an illusion, 

your aura is not that fragile. But your aura can get affected by others. People's moods, the atmosphere of a place, the sound and colour of an object, all of them can influence your aura. You have an ability to blend in, to be in harmony with what's surrounding you. But too much exposure can lead to confusion and weariness. A little detachment will help you recalibrate your aura into a more peaceful state. 

Your aura also evokes a sense of nostalgia, the longing for a sweeter past, the glory of the olden days. People would be around you and be flooded with a strong reminiscence of the past, their memories. People might like to talk about the past with you, regardless of your physical age, you feel like an old soul, someone who's witnessed a lot of the world. Your aura feels like a photo album, a box that can store many hidden treasures, where people can entrust their secrets and previous memories. When you stay silent, when you allow others to speak, that energy hits even harder.

It seems that you're at a crossroad at the present. Your energy is shifting, seeking a revision, new ideas and different approaches. Your aura's natural state is soft purple, lilac, deep blue and pink but it seems to adopt warmer colours like pink, orange, yellow. It feels like layers of different colours, two sides that complement each other.

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LAPIS LAZULI 

Your aura feels like a fantasy, a mystery that people want to immerse themselves in. They feel nourished in your presence but also feel like they can't catch a hold of you. You're always out of their reach. They think they can read you but then they feel perplexed by the ever-changing phrases of your moods. Your aura shows but you also conceal. It gives just enough to intrigue but also hides enough to protect itself from contaminations. The moon and the wolf might have significant meanings to you. People would associate your energy to a lone wolf, a creature who roams the earth at night, who knows more secrets than they could guess.

Your aura exudes purity and dreams. Like a child being lost in their own dreams, who forever chasing playful creatures of their own world. It doesn't mean that you're childish, but you carry the dreams of a child around you. Your aura feels like a gate leading to a magical kingdom. It invites adventurers and wanderers, it promises both the exhilarating joy and the confrontation of scary dragons. Your presence seems to flit in and out of reality, dangling between worlds.

People would often feel watched by you. Your gaze could hold them captive, like you're watching them to plan your next move, to study them. Your aura is the most powerful when you're in that mode, when you're being still. There's all kinds of fantasies being conjured up inside people's heads when you're like that, when your aura just permeates the air. When you act, your aura strikes, people would feel like they're being swept off their feets when they connect with your energy. Like the Fool card in Tarot, heading to an unknown, exciting world.

Your aura could have different layers. The outer one's colours can be yellow, orange, red and dark brown. The inner ones are blue, purple and white.

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CLEAR QUARTZ 

Your aura genuinely feels like the energy of a provider, a caretaker. Someone who cares for others, who does the heavy lifting, someone who fosters and provides shelters. It doesn't have to be in the literal sense. Your aura has the welcoming feeling of home, of a mother, regardless of your gender. It cradles, protects and cares for those who are in its presence. People probably feel safe around you, some could even feel like lost kids finally found their home, or tired travellers finally reached their shelter. 

Your aura is large and generous. Like a bountiful fruit tree or a large tree that gives respite to those who seek its shade. Your aura fills the room with its radiance and warmth. It's welcoming, it doesn't discriminate, it gives fair chances to people from many walks of life. People love to stay in your presence, and your aura also can affect people's moods. It feels inspiring and motivational, it gives people hope. Like talking to a counsellor. Just by watching you, being around you, people can feel that there's always a path forward, a new future that they can look forward to. Your aura makes people feel good about themselves. But not going to lie, it can attract needy people, people who feel lost and need guidance, who seek protection but they can drain your energy when the connection is too one-sided. 

Your aura has a very active energy. It moves and builds, it cleans and organises, it doesn't stay stagnant for long. Your aura gives off the sense of someone who's a workaholic, someone who's hard working, earnest and dedicated. Not necessarily because you're ambitious and seek worldly wealth. You seem to love working, on yourself, on your job, on whatever task at hand. You want to see how far you can go, what else is there to explore. So your aura has a seeking, expanding energy. It grows and grows, with myriad colours blending together. 

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CARNELIAN 

Your aura shines very brightly, like a ray of sunshine. It probably has yellow as the dominant colour. When people stay in your presence, they can notice the literal warmth, like standing close to a fireplace or near a lamp. This creates a contradiction, people are fascinated by your aura and energy, but they can't stand too close, lest they burn themselves. They're more contented to be the watchers, the audience, to watch you do your own things. You could be a very creative person and work in the creative field, especially the performing arts, whatever you do, it seems so fascinating to people. It's different, unconventional. Your career might not go the usual path that the people around you have taken. Your aura is like a unicorn, you might not think that what you do is anything out of the ordinary but your energy, your aura is, you could do the same thing as others, wear the same clothes, talk about the same topics but people would still comment that there's something different about you.

Your aura also feels like a sharp sword that has been forged and refined through numerous fires. Your energy doesn't have the easy-going flow of someone who has life easy. There are spikes in your aura, thorns that can prickle those who aren't careful. Behind the brilliant performance is a person with a complicated heart filled with sadness but also hope and love. Your aura is not for the faint of hearts. It's beautiful to look at but not to be messed with.

Despite all of that, your aura feels pure and bright, think of sunlight shining through a colourful glass window. The colour white and red could be significant. Your aura communicates messages of hope and vision. It constantly reaches outward, it strikes through the fog of lethargy. It isn't aggressive nor pushy, it encourages and stirs the hearts of those who are lucky to be in contact with it.

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AVENTURINE 

There are two parallel lines or two streams of energy in your aura. Your aura feels like a river or a stream where energy flows from one point to another and back again. It makes me think of a child warrior, a child who had to grow up faster because life has not been fair to them. Your aura is an armour that protects you from harms, it also helps you appear stronger so that you can survive in this world. I don't know why the feeling of survival in a harsh world keeps appearing in my mind, it feels like an energy that was forced to mature and has to buff itself up to make sure no one can hurt it.

Your aura is strong and fierce, in a subtle way. It isn't loud, but it takes space. It's also flexible, like a magician who can transform into different characters. Your aura can change depending on what situation you're in, what kind of people you're with. The energy can relax and soften around trusted fews, but it can flare up or quickly detach if threats are detected. It won't strike unprovoked. Your aura gives the impression that you only focus on your own life, you keep walking ahead and don't care about anything else happening around you.

Your aura has a silent strength to it. It reminds me of a scorpion or a spider, silent creatures that can be deadly. The sign of Scorpio and Pluto might have a strong influence in your chart. The energy is like a dormant volcano or a hot spring. It records all the past events and keeps them tangled up in its web. Your aura can feel heavy sometimes because of the past that you can't seem to let go. Every interaction, every impression can leave a mark on your aura. So you might feel the need of constant cleansing and solitude, to clear your aura. Your aura, when clear and relaxed, can have the colour green, blue and orange, when it's muddled by past hurts, it can have the colour black, purple and dark orange. 

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RED JAPSER

This might be obvious but you can increase your magnetism by taking care of your beauty, both external and internal. In your case, as within so without, your inner world reflects itself through your external appearance. The way you express love, especially for yourself can be very seductive. It's like watching a person beautifying themselves in front of the mirror, the person who watches gets transfixed by the scene, the action, the energy. When you're absorbed by yourself, not necessarily in a narcissistic sense but when you're so focused on what you're doing that nothing can interrupt your process, when you're convinced by your own beauty that others get convinced too. The more you express your true self, the more magnetic you are.

You have a way of expressing emotions that can bring about catharsis to the other person. Maybe you're not afraid to show what you're feeling inside, you cry and laugh easily, you act angry when you're feeling angry. Or the opposite, you cry a little when you're laughing, you chuckle when you're crying. Nevertheless, the flow of your emotion awakens a hidden part in the other person when they see it. It makes them turn introspective, it makes them realise about their own emotions, how they've been repressing them, masking them. So don't be afraid to show your true feelings, even when they can offend some people but I think those people also feel hypnotised by them. It's like watching or reading something that even though the reader feels uncomfortable, they can't help but want to continue, to keep going. Because deep down, that work touches some parts of theirs that they don't want to admit. 

Also, be fearless about your ideas. You have the talent to understand the collective mind intuitively. You could look at a crowd, a group, watch their interactions, listen to their talks and you can sense the hidden motives behind the screen, the undercurrent wishes and desires of that group. When you use that knowledge to navigate social situations, you can be very socially aware and emotionally intelligent. You know how to touch all the right places, scratch the itch in people's psyches so to speak. You don't even have to talk much, actually, the more silent, the more withdrawn you're, the more magnetic you become. Maybe you leave space for people to fill in with their imagination, it's the allure of concealment. 

Physically, you can wear something more soft and flowy, clothes that allow you to feel comfortable and relaxed, sensual clothes, clothes that give your skin good sensations, these can magnify your magnetism, to match the flow of your energy. If you wear make up, concentration on the lips would make you more striking and sensual. Red, pink, green and white would bring out your attractiveness more.

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ROSE QUARTZ

Your unconventionality is what you should embrace to increase your magnetism. Even when you try to put a lid on it, when you try to follow the rules, be as ordinary as possible, there's still something about you that stands out and you shouldn't try to hide it. Maybe that part of you can be controversial if you openly express it but even so, there are still many people who would be magnetised by it. In a way, when you express your more controversial side, you will likely meet and connect more with like minded people, your tribe. Speaking of which, you probably look more attractive in a group setting, not to say that you aren't attractive when you're alone, but your beauty shines more when you're around people, you also help others feel more beautiful when they're with you, it's a win-win situation. 

With some people, they become much more attractive when they stick to a certain image, style and expression. But with you, you're encouraged to explore many "roles", like an actor/actress. You don't have to stick to a rigid image, you can change your style based on your moods. But make sure to stay honest with your emotions. You're much more magnetic when you don't fight yourself, when you allow yourself to display as much vulnerability as possible, when you allow yourself to be raw and messy. It's not about trying to brough that side out but when you feel the urge to express it, don't resist. There's something very magnetic about how you seem to live a fulfilled and abundant life, especially emotionally, yet at some moments, there are hints about your inner world, a darker world, struggles and turmoils, desire and aggression. Like an opening of a mystery thriller movie, everything seems perfect, bright and happy, yet the viewers can't shake the feeling of dread or anticipation for a twist. You can give hints to your darker side once in a while, you send the message that there are demons inside you but you've put them on a tight lease. That intensity and strength will pull people in. You can be a happy dream but you can also be a haunting one. That edge of danger is how you magnetise people. 

You could be a tease, you provoke people, you highlight their hidden fears and wishes, especially about living an authentic self, expressing themselves openly. You're not aggressive about it, your way is more like an invitation, beckoning people to come close and explore the hidden world with you. You might have a knack for telling self deprecating jokes or acting fake-cocky jokingly. People know you're not arrogant, but when you "act" like one, it's fascinating, surprising and also appealing. When you don't take your ego and pride too seriously, when you're playful with your self expression, you're the most magnetic. 

You could look more attractive when you're around animals, pets, and nature. Try to experiment with different fashion styles. There's something about capturing your essence through the lens. You could look quite different in photos and videos. Maybe you have prominent Neptune or Pisces in your chart. Be more aware of how you act in front of the camera and use its magic to your advantage. 

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STRAWBERRY QUARTZ

I think you're already a magnetic person. But somehow what and whom you attract seems to bore you. You don't feel much satisfaction from superficial attraction. You can be quite lucky in manifestation and attracting what you want, but when you get it, you don't feel moved by it too much. What you should realise is that the only true satisfaction you can get is from yourself. So when it comes to your magnetism, you just need to feel content with yourself, being happy with your own greatness and naturally, people and other things would be drawn to you.

You're an emotionally independent person. Maybe you don't really believe in waiting for others to come and help you. You much prefer to go your own way, get your own things, pursue your own dreams. You can be very proactive but also independent in relationships. You know what you want and you're not afraid to go after it, but you also don't tolerate disrespect and having your freedom curbed. You could have some pretty disappointing experiences regarding relationships so you can be detached about the whole thing and choose to focus on your own development instead. If you were to choose between a successful career and a passionate relationship, you could pick the first option. When you're in this self focusing energy, you're actually very attractive. People feel that you aren't impressed with them, what they offer you doesn't seem to be enticing enough to you. So they feel the need to improve themselves, especially in terms of emotional maturity, to subvert your aloofness regarding a connection with them.

But it's not healthy to stay in that detached state forever if you still desire to connect with people. Maybe you're so used to taking care of yourself that you don't consider the option of letting others do it for you. You have good self control, but sometimes it can interfere with your ability to be vulnerable. You would rather be alone and regulate your feelings when you're not feeling okay than seeking comfort from another person. But the message here is that you should consider letting loose a little, to surrender yourself to fate and let yourself walk on an unpredictable path. A connection with other people is unpredictable, you can't fully control it. So you're advised to let yourself be willing to connect, to cooperate with others when they offer you the cues to connect deeper. Don't turn away their hands when they reach out to you, of course you still need to use your discernment. But you feel a desire for attachment, to seek help and comfort from another person, don't try to resist it, don't feel embarrassed by it, you're not any less strong when you do it. So in conclusion, to increase your magnetism, show more of your vulnerable and flawed side. Be happy by yourself but don't turn haughty and dismissive when someone reaches out to you. Allow fate to guide you more.

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CARNELIAN

The most simple advice for you would be keep shining your light. Keep doing what you love, keep following what you believe in, keep being you. The way you live your life is very inspirational. A majority of people who feel attracted to you love to observe how you live your life. Their desires are usually mixed with admiration. You don't have to do anything groundbreaking, you may live your life quietly, simply, but the energy emitting from you is full of life, brilliant. You put a lot of care in everything you do. You have a strong core, an inner strength that imbues everything you do with the essence of "you". 

The way you talk can be magnetic. Your tone might be direct and strong, clear and honest. As long as you deeply consider the topic that you want to talk about, the person whom you talk to, you can have a big influence on your listeners. Like a wake up call, an alarm that rushes people to be more active and be more decisive with their lives. Your words might not be very soothing in the sense of gentleness, but they give comfort in the sense of energy. You have the talent to show people the way, when they're lost, confused and stubborn. You present them with other options. You could have the habit of answering questions with questions, taking the opposite side of the debate or argument just to show the other person a different perspective. 

You take time to stop and mull over so many options and possible outcomes, but not to the point of falling into decision paralysis. But something about the way you look or act in that weighing pros and cons process can be attractive. Maybe you're usually like that when you have to make decisions concerning other people and when they can see your consideration, they feel like they matter to you. Especially when you step back to let others take the spotlight or when you try to help behind the scene, sharing burden with others. Quiet devotion. You're the most magnetic when you're in that energy. It's not that you have to sacrifice yourself for others, but it's your willingness to compromise, to care for others because you have the strength and power to do so, that's what is attractive about you. Also because you're such a responsible, mature person, when you act a little childish, impetuous or emotional, it can be a surprise but also a strong appeal.

Physically, don't try to hide yourself. You don't have to wear anything revealing but don't try to hide your appeal either. Your legs, your posture, the way you express emotions might be your strong points that you can focus on. Your group is all about stripping off rigidity and being in a natural, spontaneous state, you might look good in nature sceneries, face beaming with natural radiance, carefree actions and movements. 

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