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One of the most popular applications of astrology (and at least 40% of my asks) concern love and relationship compatibility analysis. I’ve noticed that quite a few couples who are very happy like to describe themselves as “soul mates” and usually “feel” as if they known their mate all their lives, and/or that their chance encounter in this life is more like a deja vu. In my astrological studies (which now have extended to focusing on asteroids and astrological apogees/points), I’ve noticed some patterns regarding “fated” or “past life” aspects. Some “past life” mates may also enter one’s life in tough times, playing the role of parent figure, friend, helpful sibling or generous business partner. This post lists aspects that indicate the potential for couples to be soul mates. Can be used as male to female or vice versa.

Ascendant of either person must conjunct Amor, Eros, Juno, North Node, Saturn

Ascendant of either person must conjunct the Ascendant, the Descendant, Sun, Moon, Mars, Venus, or Pluto. Maximum 3 degrees orb.

Ascendant trine/opposite Ascendant, Descendant, Moon, Sun, or Saturn within 2 degrees orb is also valid.

If none of this applies, soulmate potential is unlikely, even though happiness can’t and shouldn’t be ruled out. If birth time is unknown, the Sun can be used in place of Ascendant (however, Sun conjunct Moon should not be used as a confirmation).

***the codes for the minor asteroids mentioned in this post are: Eros - 433, Amor - 1221, Psyche - 16, and Persephone - 399***

strongest aspects:

Sun conjunct Venus, Psyche, Moon, Sun

Asc, Sun, Moon conjunct Amor, Eros, Juno

Mars conjunct Psyche

Eros conjunct Venus

Pluto conjunct Persephone

Eros conjunct Psyche

Mars conjunct Venus

average aspects:

Mars, Venus, Pluto conjunct Amor, Eros, Juno

Ascendant, Sun, Moon conjunct North Node, Saturn

Amor, Eros, Juno conjunct Amor, Eros, Juno

Pluto conjunct Venus, Psyche, Moon

Ascendant, Sun, Moon trine Amor, Eros, Juno

Pluto trine Venus, Psyche

Sun trine Venus, Psyche

Eros trine Venus

Mars trine Psyche  

weak aspects:

Amor, Eros, Juno trine/opposite Amor, Eros, Juno

Ascendant, Sun, Moon opposite/quincunx Amor, Eros, Juno

Mars, Venus, Pluto conjunct North Node, Saturn

North Node, Saturn conjunct Amor, Eros, Juno

North Node, Saturn trine/opposite Amor, Eros, Juno

Ascendant, Sun, Moon trine North Node, Saturn

North Node, Saturn conjunct North Node, Saturn

North Node, Saturn trine/opposite North Node, Saturn

Mars, Venus, Pluto opposite North Node, Saturn

Mars, Venus, Pluto trine North Node, Saturn

Ascendant, Sun, Moon oppposite/quincunx North Node, Saturn

Mars, Venus, Pluto trine Amor, Eros, Juno

Mars, Venus, Pluto opposite Amor, Eros, Juno

honourable mentions go to:

Sun, Mars, Eros or Pluto and Venus, Psyche, or Juno in the same element.

Chiron conjunct Moon

Pluto trine/conjunct Mars or Sun

Vesta trine/conjunct Sun, Mars, Eros or Pluto

Juno & Jupiter in Synastry: Prince & Vanity

Very rarely do celebrity couples intrigue me, or should I say the current crop of famous duos that grace the covers of glossy magazines and social media, yet Prince and Vanity’s coupling was always a fascinating one and even more so since they died within 2 months of each other. The both of them were approaching their second Saturn returns when they transitioned.

In terms of mythology they remind me of Jupiter(Zeus) and his consort/wife/sister Juno (Hera). As we know, Zeus was a notorious shapeshifter with a roving eye. Jupiter and Juno’s union played out like a literal Greek soap opera steeped in power struggles and betrayal. Juno was known for seeking revenge on Jupiter’s lovers, unleashing her fury and wrath; yet Vanity and Prince’s union played out in different ways. The myth also speaks of Juno/Hera bathing in the streams of Argos, cleansing herself of Jupiter/Zeus’ influence and regaining her virginity. This aligns with Denise eventually leaving Prince, finding Christ, and abandoning the persona of Vanity for good.

The definition on Juno in Astrology

Juno is often labeled the asteroid of marriage even though her meaning goes beyond that. While she can certainly point to what we want in a marriage partner and how we commit to those in our intimate lives, she also can trigger jealousy and give us insight into the ultimate relationship: our relationship with ourselves.

The beauty of astrology is in how mythological archetypes often play out literally in the natal chart. This is very much the case when I looked at the charts of these two.

“Jupiter & Juno on Mount Ida”, James Barry, 1741-1806 

While there is no birth time available for Vanity (Born Denise Katrina Matthews, January 4th 1959, Niagara Falls, ON) there is a time of birth for Prince (Born Prince Rogers Nelson, June 7th 1958 at 6:17PM, Minneapolis, MN) While Prince had a plethora of muses, girlfriends (and two ex-wives under his belt) Vanity was the first “official” Prince girl in terms of visibility and public notoriety. I suppose she is the construct or blueprint (Prince’s Aphrodite, goddess of beauty, in Cancer, opposes her natal Venus in Capricorn,making her the ideal canvas for him to project his creative/sensual fantasies onto, hence the name, “Vanity.”) that spawned those who came after her. 

 Juno in Synastry 

“Prince followed me, he took off his jacket and asked me to take off mine. I asked, “Why?” He said, “So I can try yours on and you can try on mine.” So we tried on each other’s clothes and realized that we fit each other’s clothes. I thought that was wonderful. – Vanity, JET magazine, May 1986 

 One of the first aspects that jumped out is Prince’s Jupiter in Libra at 21’59 degrees conjunct Vanity’s Juno in Libra at 21’32 degrees. Here we have the myth played out strongly in the Synastry chart! Vanity’s Juno falls in Prince’s 11th house, the house of hopes, friends, ambition and goals. Vanity certainly benefited from her association with Prince at that time and the 11th house functions as a benefactor of sorts. Juno in Libra often attracts a partner that is quite beautiful and artistically inclined and Prince was both. There’s a strong sense of attachment, support and loyalty between Prince and Vanity’s Juno/Jupiter aspect and it’s obvious that Vanity wanted a stronger commitment. Unfortunately, Prince’s Jupiter is Rx, and the Venusian influence has him on the look out for beauty at all times, even outside of “commitment.” 

 Libra is also quite diplomatic and even though the two parted ways ages ago there wasn’t much mud slinging (Vanity often spoke fondly of him) Peace and balance are strong virtues for Libra and during that time period Vanity confessed to writing a manuscript for a tell-all book yet changed her mind. This is the loyalty aspect that I often see from Juno in synastry charts. 

aries: “When I butcher a guy, I want the whole world to know it,” - Buddy Brannen, The Harder They Fall (1956)

taurus: “Thirty thousand dollars? That’s not a settlement, pop. That’s a tip.” - Carolyn Grant, No Man’s Woman (1955)

gemini: “Don’t you like to talk any more?” “Not to people who have my number.” - a conversation between Dixon Steele and his girlfriend, In A Lonely Place (1950)

cancer: “It’s the gentle souls who seem sweet and loving to the world, with the innocence of children, and then out of nowhere, something happens, and you have murder.” - Juliana Borderau, The Lost Moment (1947)

leo: “To waste your talents on someone with no real talent and even less reputation—you’ll kill your inspiration and be left flat.” - Barbara Chapman, Hangover Square (1945)

virgo: “He’s a fake, a scribbling punk trying to play the part of goody two shoes. He’ll steal my fillings when I lie dead on the street.” - William Shrike, Lonelyhearts (1958)

libra: “Much better to have good looks than brains, because most of the men I know can see much better than they can think.” - Vicki Buckley’s friend Jean, Human Desire (1954)

scorpio: “I find more bitter than death the woman whose heart is snares and nets. And he who falls beneath her spell has need of God’s mercy.” - Born To Kill (1947)

sagittarius: “Ingenuity is never a substitute for intelligence.” - Dimitrios Makropoulos, The Mask of Dimitrios (1944)

capricorn: “I’m far from an honest man, but I worked my way up to the curb. You’ve never been able to get out of the gutter.” - Paul De Camp, Man In The Vault (1956)

aquarius: “Friendship’s a lot more lasting than love.” “Yeah, but not as entertaining.” - a conversation between Mildred and Wally, Mildred Pierce (1945)

Venus in Earth signs People with their Venus in Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn) are loyal, committing and solid lovers. These Venus signs prefer a long-lasting relationship and so they could definitely take time in developing feelings for someone. They approach everything with caution and why wouldn’t they? They’re smart when it comes to relationships and friendships: they choose who will benefit them. The downside to these Venus signs is that they can miss many opportunities because of their constant waiting around and possibly beating around the bush.

Venus in Air signs People with their Venus in Air signs (Gemini, Libra and Aquarius) love playfully and romantically. These Venus signs possess a lot of charm and a flirtatious nature that can lure anyone in. They most value a partner (or friend) who can communicate with them anything troubling. Hiding something from them is not ideal and can be a turn off. The downside to them is that they are notorious for being flighty and may not be the type to like being tied down; they value their freedom.