sometimes we coin

i am staunchly anti-radqueer; i was a part of the early anti-radqueer community—when antiradqueer and other blogs were still active—and an archivist, one of the only active ones in the community then. i compiled so many posts explaining alternatives to being radqueer, help resources, why certain things were bad and the origins of some of the most infamous radqueer terms. i've helped victims out of the community. i've been harrassed by radqueers because of my being anti-radqueer (without having personally interacted with any). i've watched someone i love fall back under the control of their abuser because of the radqueer community.

i am also a paraphile. i'm the disgusting, vile, unforgivable paraphile that radnormalism condemns. i am not one of the big three, however, i do experience an attraction that would be harmful if acted on (you don't need to know what). i am this way as a result of trauma—being unable to tie my worth to anything besides what i could do for others and yet desiring some semblance of control at the same time.

and you know something?

the anti-radqueer community used to be much, much more accepting to paraphiles. because the goal was never to eradicate radqueers or push them off the internet entirely or isolate them from everyone else in the world or hate them; the goal was to help victims. we had problems, yes—we used to be so hateful—but we realized we weren't making a change that way. we realized that we weren't helping anyone that way.

do you hate radqueers because they're bad and evil and disgusting and immoral? even the victims who're radqueer because of their abusers? even the children who happen to be paraphiles that're radqueer because they're scared nobody else will accept them? do you hate the not-quite-ex radqueer who's scared to leave the community because what if they're not accepted anywhere else? what about the sexual assault victim who's transraped because they don't feel like their trauma was bad enough? what about them? do you hate them too? do you want them dead? do you want them to be isolated from any community ever? or do you hate radqueers because they're "bad" and you don't have repurcussions for hating them? do you hate radqueers more than you care about victims?

give me a good reason why you hate paraphiles that doesn't generalize all paraphiles (because what about kids who are paraphiles and disgusted by their own attraction? what about sexual assault victims who developed paraphilias as a result? what about plushophiles? how have they hurt anyone because of their paraphilias? we've not even gotten into the fact kinks are oftentimes counted as paraphilias); give me a good reason why you hate transids without saying they're all harmful or appropriation (because transspecies originated as an otherkin term and transabled was a medical diagnosis and transcute isn't hurting anyone); give me a good reason why you hate radqueers that isn't "they're all abusers" or "they're all disgusting" or "they're all bad" (because there are victims who are in the community, there are victims who don't know any better, there are victims who are being hurt by your actions and pushed away from being helped).

this isn't even getting into the fact that, regardless of what you think about radqueers as a whole, you should still fucking treat them like people. you never, ever dehumanize someone—that's fascist shit and you never use fascist tactics. why do so many of you feel like it's okay to treat radqueers like shit? is it because you hate them so much? because you don't see them as people? because you don't think they're deserving of basic decency? because congrats: fascist shit. that's also still pushing away people who might want to leave the community and/or who're actively victims in the community.

hello anyone reading this post. we are a japanese system here to bring up the use of yumeship in western groups. we see many in liomogai using it hence why we are making a post on this blog. but this applies to anyone outside of liomogai as well. warning that we have dyslexia and schizophrenia which may affect wording but we're trying to be helpful and easy to understand :]. this post is being written by a blurred front + multiple alters to explain the we/us use. we also want to clarify this is not us gatekeeping non japanese people from using yumeship. it is fully fine to do so! this post is not trying to make everyone stop altogether.

let's have an easy start to this. yume in japanese means dream. it's rooted in the concepts of dreams and imagination. i'll assume, or at least hope all who use yumeship know this. anyway yumeship and other yume(x) words are from dream novel culture that originated in the 1990s and early 2000s. do you who use yumeship know what a dream novel is? in simple terms it does indeed dive into and mean fanfiction, but a specific type. it's a culture using self inserts and selfshipping yes, but specifically to a much stronger emotional level. it was made to strengthen self projection. "becoming the main character and entering the original work like a dream". there is notable history leaning into delusions actually, which we've never seen any western people really.. mention. it's an interesting side to the history but obviously isn't the entire reason for being yumeship; just a side of the culture. yumeship also, especially back then, was always self inserting in as the protagonist and having everything and everyone revolve around you. not as a side or background character. our first question for others is; how common in western self shipping is that definition / situation what you mean by selfshipping? if not, how come yumeship is being used?

onto the next part of the words. there's a different vibe when saying "I self ship with x" vs "I dream of / imagine being with x". obviously the yumeship community has broadened and grown, but that's always been the root of the word. it's something we are confused on when we see some people using yumeship instead of selfship, especially those who are uncomfortable with people implying the relationship is not real or imagination. using it when imagination & dreams are the origin of the literal word. so that is our second question; if you are someone who is uncomfortable with that yet uses yumeship, why? what makes it feel fitting? did you know the above information when deciding it fit?

we also want to touch on other words part of the culture:

yumejoshi meaning dreaming girl. nowadays we see many call it the feminine word for people who yumeship, to be more inclusive we assume which is good! but we do want people to know it originally is labeled as "female-aligned individuals / women", since joshi translates to young woman / girl and female. for anyone who doesn't wish to be called either.

yumedanshi meaning dreaming boy. same as the above where nowadays we see many call it the masculine word for people who yumeship. but it originally is labeled as "male aligned individuals / men", since danshi translates to young man / boy and male. for anyone who doesn't wish to be called either.

we think there should be inclusive words for feminine people who are not women or female, same with masculine people who are not men or male. we think the terms can be made more broad, but don't want any to mistranslate the words. there are two options we know of :]! yumejin or yumebito meaning dreaming person, both options use person rather than a strict gender. unfortunately we rarely if ever see those mentioned much western wise.

another thing involving those. we seen some people say that yumejoshi and yumedanshi are the long versions of yume in general. which isn't accurate as explained above. due to this we often see people say "i'm a yume", "i'm a sharing/nonsharing yume". when you translate the full phrase into japanese it's just saying "i'm a dream", "i'm a sharing/nonsharing dream" it sounds more confusing when actually translating it does it not? we will add in that saying "yumes" at least does make sense, dreamers is a word that is used in dream novels. but that being said, our third question; if you call yourself a yume, do you also call yourself a dream? if not how come? if the answer is along the lines of "people know what i mean by yume", english wise, likely, if they know what yumeship is at least. but we need to consider the actual language it's from. why is it seen as normal to randomly insert a japanese word into an english sentence. (we are not referring to actual bilingual conversations that naturally do so.) why is it often if not only japanese that gets words picked to use?

necromancer - a general flag for being a necromancer. whether that be in this life, a past life, in source, etc.

⟡ Black Coiner Shoutout! ⟡

[PT :: Black MOGAI Shoutout!]

Hello hello and welcome back to another yearly post for the black creators in our community! I greatly thank you for your patience, I appreciate it and apologize it took so long for me to get this out. Firstly let it be known, this is the first post of two. This one being specifically for coiners while the second part of this post will be for archives run by black folks! The second part can be found here (link WIP) Black queers have been a backbone of our history and fight for freedom since well before the days of stonewall. Prominent activists like The Queen William Swann who was born into slavery only to rise to becoming one of if not the very first drag queen, creating a queer resistance group all the way in the 1880s or Frances Thompson, a black disabled trans woman who testified in congressional court after the civil war and was a prominent anti-rape activist were critical parts of our history and creating a space for ALL queer people. Black queers have been fighting for queer rights for hundreds of years with little to no recognition so today I'd like to shout out the ones still fighting with us in celebration of BHM! Please give all of these lovely people a follow and send them some extra love (or cash if you're able) this month! Now without further adieu, lets show off the amazing black coiners in our community!

✦ @vampitsm - A coiner active in our community for years at this point, making amazing black-centric flags such as vamps Qiroi flag remake, a black // african american third gender, and amazing terms such as Soulman and Soulwoman and their black centered gender system Genderater. Vamp also makes amazing non-black centered terms such as vamps Fang and Coffin presentations! Along with this, they co-own a black centered archive which you will find in the following Black Archivist post :D

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✦ @angelomour - A blog co-owned by the Vampire Knight, Jace! Who's been making some amazing flagless black presentation terms over on @destoral and has made some lovely terms like Black Shapeshifter for nonhuman black people and Blackcora! While Jace can be somewhat inactive due to having quite the busy life as the communities favorite caregiver, the terms he makes are always a treat to see <3

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✦ @permaonline - The new coining blog of our friend Eden // Chat who also runs @occuden! Star has so far made amazing black terms such as Soulfood Chef, Earth Nurturer, and Lyrical Storyteller! Star's also recently made many fun anime based and SMP based Natidens that I implore anyone to check out if they have an interest in such things! And of course Eden runs many, many, many archive blogs that will be linked in the following Black Archivist post :D

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✦ @orbistro - A newer blog on the scene only starting up in June of last year, The Must has already made some lovely terms! We of course have some Genderater terms such as Atermoon and Atersun, but along with that we have a lovely series of Emanator Flags for the game Honkai: Star Rail as well as my personal favorite with no bias at all, Haestic based around the game Hollow Knight (which some may know as being my second favorite game of all time, the first being Hollow Knight Silksong). All around a lovely coiner with amazing taste in games <3

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✦ @gender-goth - Another coiner who's been around for years in this community! A bodily black system, this blog is ran by four headmates. Mod C, Mod Amanda, Mod Malice, and Mod Haven! Along with creating black terms like Blood Moon Belle and Blood Moon Fish based on Nex's original term Blood Moon Femme, true to Nex's username, Nex has made some wonderful Goth based terms such as Nex's Gendergothian system, Gothbodiment, and Princessgothia which has one of the prettiest flags ever imo! As a punk myself I just love seeing alt culture terms. Along with this, Nex also co-runs the black centered archive blog I mentioned before which you'll see in the second post for black archivists!

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✦ @friend-device - The mogai communities very own Friend, an up and coming blog I think everyone with a love for deltarune and indie animation should check out! Along with having the wonderful term Obsessenoir4Obsessenoir for black folks with obsessive tendencies, thing has also made some amazing Egocieve terms, some very fun Dandy's World NPD terms (a game I've had a particular hyperfixation in recently), and some cool X instead of X terms including a Sonic.exe one that many will know is a media that makes me very autistic very fast. All in all please check out this up and coming blog for all your niche and indie media needs <3

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✦ @militantcoining - Leon has not been in this community long but boy has were made a huge impact! With Leons wave of military based terms both on Leons main coining blog and weres flagless blog, @residentcoining. While not the only blog to do it, Leon was a large part in the shift in terms surrounding military based terms becoming more common place and made people once hesitant on sharing such terms feel much more comfortable and seen. Watching the shift in real time was wild and so cool to see and I'm so glad and proud to have watched it happen. As for black centered terms, I want to give a shoutout specifically to Leons terms Satinoirina and Satinoirino which are meant for people who are beautiful black women and men. Amazing flags by an amazing creator <3

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✦ @sugaryvexillogy - Another new creator in the community popping up in December, I admit looking through his coins it's hard to decide which terms to shout out. From wonderful black centered terms such as Pink Cloud, Blackbuck Pride, and his lovely Black History Special interest flag (the colors are so nice to me idk) to non-black centered posts like his Lexiphoria system, Egocieve terms, and my personal favorite underrated term from him Larvislover, Sugar seems to post banger after banger in regards to coining. Along with constantly making said bangers, he also runs a couple archive blogs you'll see listed in our second part shouting out black archivists!

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✦ @elibanerosian - Creator of the term Eliban, a sister term to the term Erosian, while Ari doesn't post many terms they're incredibly active in the MOGAI community and is outspoken for black queer rights and is constantly posting educational resources and some amazing talking points to think on in regards to how queerness, blackness, and transness coincide in ones life. Very worth perusing and generally a lovely individual all around <3

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✦ @dykepiric - Warning :: This blog is inaccessible to those who may have visual impairments. Please be kind to this coiner but be careful if you have problems with things like eyestrain. Thank you! Another new coiner to the scene, Seraph is a black yumedanshi who created the awesome flag for Black Yumeshippers as well as making some great flags for Omnixic, a flag for those who are both Trixic and Omni, as well as the term Semiromantic which is one I personally identify with! Lovely choices of colors, wonderful concepts all around, give this new coiner some love <3

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✦ @mogayis-socool - We love Azurine in this house. pohe makes a variety of wonderful delicious flags, making terms for identity systems like Laloro, Colosec, or Genderpathetic while also making some amazing original terms such as sums Gendercritter system, sums fem, masc, and neutral flags, and my favorite of sneyä Boyn't and Girln't! Pohe is a wonderfully creative coiner and flag maker so I highly recommend going and giving oheyä some love <3

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✦ @wequot - WE! LOVE! NEW! COINERS!!!!!* [PT :: We Love New Coiners!!!!!] Devi has already made some amazing flags such as xyr Soulful and Ranch Hand flags, xyr neoumbrella Sorrielle, xyr gender system Gamehostic, and so many Dandy's World flags. As stated, I am massively hyperfixated on Dandy's World lately, so I am staring at those with large autistic eyes. Give Devi some love and definitely check them out if you're also a DsW fan :D

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✦ @queertine - A mixed black and latine coiner who makes absolutely gorgeous cultural flags. A blog I would heavily consider underrated personally, elle's made some amazing flags for Black Intergenders, Qirlfag and Boidyke flags (which if you know me I love reclaiming those terms so much it's my favorite thing to do), a wonderful Black Regressor flag for any black folks who regress, and a personal favorite flag for Black and Fat. Queertine makes tons of amazing flags with elles own culture and elle really is a hidden gem in this community. Please please PLEASE give elle some love, elle deserves it <3

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✦ @pawbeans-flags - Another heavily underrated coiner imo, Paw makes amazing blasian flags such as Blasian Insect, Blasian Transfluidine, one of my personal favorite genders Blasian Bungender, and so many more! One non-blasian but still black centered flag I want to show out is the Stemme Dyke flag it made last month! As previously said, I love reclaiming terms like dyke and fag so I always love promoting terms with those things in mind! Another insanely underrated coiner, give it some love!!!!

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✦ @madgender - We love a coiner who centers around MAD and neurodivergence, what can I say. Starting off with its Black Autistic flag with some very lovely and soft colors that I adore, it has also made some wonderful flags for things such as PPD Asexual, a very lovely Eating Disorder flag that I'm quite partial to, as well as some great pathetic themed NPD and ASPD flags! I know it's probably getting old to keep saying it, but it really is another underrated as hell coiner, give it some love!

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✦ @mogai-qirl - (I do not yet know this coiners pronouns, I will be using [prn] in place until I am given an answer. Thank you!) While not having posted too many coins yet, what [prn] has made so far is absolutely phenomenal. [prns] Afro Sapphic flag is gorgeous, [prns] term June Bug, a term under the genderater system, is beyond gorgeous, and I'm a massive fan of [prns] Whimsical Stud flag as a whimsical masc myself. Some may know [prn] from [prns] GalaxyWolf Gender flag, which is of course gorgeous as well, I am highly recommending everyone check out [prns] blog for the many other amazing coins [prn] has created <3

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✦ @lairofsirenium - Another insanely underrated coiner and I truly do mean underrated. Mephiles has been in the community for literal actual years but I didn't learn about haunt until I started putting together all the users from this post which is a massive shame. From its awesome inclusive black lesbian and gay flags as well as black gender diverse flags which are both so gorgeous and are inclusive of the wide range of skin tones amongst black people to its less black centric flags like its genuinely gorgeous canadian lynx kin flag and my personal favorite as the ultimate Shadow The Hedgehog apologist Shadowcharic and Soniccharic, Mephiles makes genuinely amazing flags and has a clear sense of color theory that makes everything work so insanely well together, PLEASE check it out if you get the chance and send haunt some love!

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✦ @bunshellbounty - Say it with me folks, UNDERRATED!!!! A fairly newer blog from July of last year, the things Kitty has created have been iconic. It's coined amazing black presentation terms like Cowristud, Cowristemme, and Cowribelle as well as our personal favorite, which fits with this archive in particular for all my black horror fans, Bloodelle for Belles who present themselves through horror! Along with these amazing black centered terms they've created this awesome Lockship system and the really great neoumbrella Litensilic which I love as a writer myself. I want to add more but I feel as though I'd be going on for days at this point. Give Kitty some love, look at its genuinely amazing terms that I've personally added to our own hoard as well. I promise if you love spooky things, black centered terms, and especially creepycute aesthetics you will not be disappointed!

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✦ @gendermarmalade - An infrequent poster but one who consistently posts banners regardless. With a very pretty Boiqirl flag as well as other beautiful flags such as shir Sun Girlboy flag and the incredibly cool term Plushaunette which is another term that will fit quite nicely with this archive, if you're looking for terms for your own personal hoards I highly recommend checking shir out and giving shy some love!

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✦ @silencedcrown - WARNING :: Blog may be inaccessible to those with vision difficulties, the coiner has stated fae are unable to do IDs or PTs. Please be kind to the coiner but keep this in mind! Previously known as @/dollpvincely for those who don't recognize this name, this rather new blog has already posted some bangers such as Pianorprince and the adorable gender ChocoOtterMilk that I'm just in love with the icon for, I'm positive fae'll continue to post amazing terms and flags! Also with a personal bias, faes silent salt theme is gorgeous I love it sososo much

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✦ @instantidol - A flagless coining blog that's created some absolute banger terms such as Vampqirl, Black Opal, and Doll of Color this coiners absolutely knocked it out of the park with some amazing coins already despite only creating this blog in January! If you ever want to make flags for flagless terms or just add something to your hoard, show hymn some love! We even have matching hy/hym pronouns, yay <3

And that's that for this years black coiner shoutout post! Please give every single one of these blogs a look if you can and remember to also look through our post for black ran archives coming up just a bit after this post!! Drink water, take your meds, donate to black queers, and stay spooky!

hello, and welcome to poppiesong. this is a liomoqai blog; i hope to hoard terms and discuss my identity here, but i also will likely coin terms on my blog.

i go by many names, but you can call me mari. i am 18 years old. i use he she it they& pronouns, along with any neopronouns that fit my "vibes". please never use they them on me, only they& them&.

i am a trisfeminine transmasculine xenogender futch boygirl, along with being an aroallo objectum polyamorous lesbian. i use many more labels, but these are the important ones.

my layout was made by @mystwries, star dividers by @vvincian and layout psd by @l4verdoe-archive. thank you all!

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hello and welcome to my blog, this is run by nova, an alter in @hopefulwand's system. I am an absol otherbound. I am gendernull, gendernullsymbolic & alliumfem. I use ny / rhem / id pronouns.

this blog's main purpose is to create fiaspec* for terms that do not have any, do not ask for masc terms. i will maim you.

* any fem, woman, gyn & similar / related terms.

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