Relationship Specialist

Somewhere in the heart of Nigeria, in the cold steppes of Ukraine, in steamy Singapore, there are rooms full of men sitting at computer and phones. It’s called a boiler room. This is the cottage industry in many third world countries. These men and women have studied what is…

I’ve always prided myself on being an intelligent and not gullible. I actually found my husband on a long gone site called “The Love Hound.” (Of course we’re divorced now, but that’s nothing to do with internet dating.) I remember one of my early dates telling me about…

Can You Find Real Love On The Dance Floor

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I was recently out dancing with my partner and we noticed a lot of singles trying to maneuver on the dance floor in order to dance with other single strangers. I asked her the question, “Can you find ‘real love’ on the dance floor?” I think many of…

One thing that people seem to forget in their relationships is the fact that you have to have a sense of humor.There are going to be plenty of times in your lives together that you are going to need to laugh to keep your relationship going strong. Of course, you are going to…

Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places

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You probably remember that really old song called Looking for Love in All the Wrong Places. This could describe the search that many people go on to find that elusive love that they’ve been hoping will find its way to them. There are too many people in…

Relationships Are Not Fifty Shades of Grey

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Unless you’ve been living under a rock during the last few years, you’re well aware of the Fifty Shades of Grey sagain both books and theaters. While this is a totally captivating film, and series of books, Fifty Shades of Grey has probably done more…

Is He Really Committed To You

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Commitment can be one of the scariest things that many men face in their lives. Everything is great as long as their girlfriends don’t expect them to totally commit to them, and only them. There’s just something about saying to someone that you’ll only…

The Importance Of Commonality In A Relationships

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One of the most important ingredients of a successful relationship is that of having something in common with your partner. It may not seem so important in the very beginning when you’re still in that afterglow of lust. Everything is beautiful and…

Do Not Become A One Night Stand

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One night stands have been indulged in ever since men and women realized that sex is fun. The thing about these one night stands is that they’re usually fast, simple, fun and have no strings attached.

There is another thing about them that many people…

A New Age In Dating

Dating is one of those things that most people have done at one time or another. For many of us, dating was considered an exciting and fun thing to do, particularly when we were in high school or in our early 20’s. However, once we were of age, dating became obsolete because many of us married our high school or college sweetheart.

Fast forward twenty or so years. Perhaps we are divorced, lonely…

Are You On the Same Page

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A huge part of the problem in going from a casual dating arrangement into a committed relationship is knowing if you’re both on the same page.

There are times when one or both partners are simply having a good time, enjoying the dating arrangement. It…

Your Perfect Partner is Out There

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Being single when you really want to be in a meaningful, loving relationship can be difficult. There’s no doubt about it. It’s especially challenging when everywhere you look, you see other people, some of them your closest friends, who have someone and…

Quit Sabotaging Your Relationships

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Each person has an unreasonable and harmful psychological side to their character. And, this dark side can undermine a relationship in a dangerous way.  If you want to experience a happy, healthy relationship, then quit sabotaging your relationships,…

7 Quick Tips to Cure What’s Complicating Your Relationship

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If you have been feeling aggravated that your relationship isn’t going well, do not stress! You can get expert assistance from a relationship coach  or you can cure what’s complicating your relationship with these 7 quick tips.

1. Turn up the heat in the…

Affirmations, Why They Work, And How to Use Them

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When most people decide to make a life altering change or achieve a goal, they use affirmations. Affirmations are short powerful statements that have been proven to improve an individual’s health and overall well-being and, similar to physical…

How to Attract More Love

When it comes to relationships, some people attract the relationship they truly desire with little to no effort, while others fail to meet any potential prospects to date, let alone have a truly committed relationship. Why is this so? Why do some people get the relationship they truly desire while others fail to experience or attract love?

The reason for this cannot be because some people are…

Are You Using Apps Like Tinder? Snap Out of It

Since Tinder’s launch in 2012, millions of people have flocked to this visually stimulating dating app, and despite the heavy criticism, people continue to swipe to the left or the right. However, even if Tinder creates the illusion of constant matches, it might be doing more harm than good to your dating life. Here’s why.

I have a couple of female friends who have profiles on Tinder and who…