Finding A Better Life

What To Change?

Suck it up! – Ask others what they really think about you and don’t be a caveman, take it on board. If you can’t handle the truth then go back to being an ignorant troglodyte.

Take the initiative and design yourself.

If you really want to have a genuinely enjoyable life, with rich successes and close, trustworthy friends, then in the end you have to both earn it and deserve it. Understand what the current culture needs and keep your finger on the pulse.

Cultural Losers Suck

Cultural Losers get on my nerves and I believe they deserve exactly what they get. Sure some people get lucky and some have…well, crap luck – but at the end of the day if you haven’t put the effort into yourself and who you are then what are you here for?

Life Is NOW!

Make that sink in. Every day you are closer to your grave and it comes quicker and quicker every year, so if you want to be remembered as someone worth remembering (get you lips around that) then be prepared to take a good, hard and long look in the mirror.

Do it now or it may be too late! I haven’t got time to listen to your problems, stop complaining and do something useful with your time. If you don’t get ahead now, as culture changes, you’ll never catch up.

Why don’t you turn off the computer and go outside and EXERCISE! You don’t need someone to hold your hand do you? You can control the negativity of online social influence if you just turn it off and get some fresh air.

In Conclusion

* If you think you’re a jerk – Change it

* If you’re an underachiever – Set some goals!

* Use your strengths to overcome your weaknesses

For those of you sleeping on those bamboo pillows, has anyone found them to be a good choice.  I use a latex model and it’s pretty good, but I like the idea of an ultra cool pillow.

It's been a while, will update soon.

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Negativity - Be Happy Instead

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The Life Of A Shy Person

Dealing with and beating shyness is necessary if you are wanting to gain the most out of life. I've put together a few of the ideas that made me  go from suffering from shyness to being an extrovert.  It wasn't a simple process, however being shy is like a disorder that holds you back from all the good that a life without shyness can treat you to, consequently I consider it extremely  thoroughly. Here's hoping you will too, even more so  if being shy is affecting your happiness and keeping you indoors out of the public eye. Just think -  Others have been there. Individuals often catch the shy bug in youth when it's easy to  make blunders during learning and create a shy persona to avoid feeling embarrassed. When we become grown up, the shy person wont protect us nowadays and as such, we begin to have feelings of being far too scared of potentially awkward interactions and evade interactions needlessly, leading to diminished self confidence and inept social aptitude. You are not in the desert on this one, a lot of people have caught the shy bug in their life, however, all people can take some heed in the fact that there are many individuals who back in the day let shyness hold them back and now they have beaten shyness. Enhance Your Self Esteem. If you build self esteem yourself then you take away the notions of low self worth and supersede them with emotions of command and confidence. Kicking Shyness To he Curb - Stop Being A Shy Person If this is your choice of tactic  then kudos to you. Grabbing the problem and saying "no more" is  a great start. I know of several techniques you could use and then day by day, tackle the various problems that hinder social ability and restrict prosperity. By completing a single task each day you will test your confidence with tiny Techniques that accomplish large positive results and construct your  adeptness socialize.

Don’t let negativity influence you.

One of the problems with shyness is absorbing the opinions of others or at the lest being super aware of those opinions, making social encounters an exercise in anxiety.

First I'm determined to speak regarding negativity and the reasons you need to not be that way and the reasons if you are intelligent, you will attempt to get rid of of every shred of negative influence you have. A  happy person is that way because of the process of how they think, though when you choose to be negative, you ultimately choose an unhappy life.  It's not worth it.

Your own introversion/extroversion, shyness/openess can play a massive role on how you deal with the negatives of life and whether you externalize your solutions or internalize them. The dilemma with negativity will be discovered if you consider the stereotypical grumpy old recluse.  They seem to dislike the universe, progress and everybody.  They are by themselves for the fact no one wants to be around them.  Do you want that for you?  I didn't think so. Positive Fulfillment Everybody wants to be content, in truth, if you don't want to live happier you might have issues that I don't quite have the ability to help you with. I want you to have a positive mindset, hopefully you do as well. In the perfect world we would chase positivity at all costs, really I can't think of anything else worth while, though decades of institutionalized conditioning can make us elude the real picture of what utterly matters and what can certainly make us conclusively happy. Chasing The Dream You do not need agony, you do not look for a negative life, though very few people look to pursue the opposite.  A few people who think outside the box  actually do get away from the 5 day week theory and learn precisely the thing that makes them happier and they've committed their lives to accomplishing a happier life.  Hold the negative thoughts away. It is important to you and me. Getting to Your Center It's important to look at your life now and then, even if it's only to be at peace with yourself and to develop some ideals of your own.  By understanding the ideals that create joy and the negatives that don't we can veer our lives down the road that will most likely make us happier and content. At the point of discovering that center, that equilibrium of satisfaction, we might positively lead a happier life, by that I mean one that is filled with the positives we want and devoid of awful negatives. I wish you discover your positivity or your ZEN

Cultural Issues

It’s sometimes hard to stay grounded in what is right or wrong as culture shifts and what was okay last year is considered to be evil and wrong now.

This massive and fast moving shift is known as the accelerated cultural change as coined by computer scientist AJ James, creator of the cultural singularity.

In order to fit on and not feel like a cultural outsider, one must be aware of current issues and navigate them appropriately.