I know this is pretty personal so no pressure to answer if you don’t want to but I remember a while ago you talked about getting dumped by someone you were fairly serious about and I’m in the same situation and just feeling kind of blindsided and I’m hurting so much and if you have any advice to get through it I’d love to know
Aw im really sorry you’re going through it , genuinely does hurt when the other person is completely checked out and you’re so unaware and so attached. I can only offer the same reused advice everyone else gives, time really does heal, let yourself be sad/do not push it aside like everything is alright, surround yourself with the people that love you and invest so so much time and care and love into yourself. Feel the pain and hurt , but please don’t marinate yourself in it, remember to find your inner joy again outside of a relationship.
Some things to remember that have helped me personally and might not be sometning lots of people love to hear but because I have a hard time of letting go because I get attached to the idea of forever and things never changing if I’m happy in it…. sometimes the people you think you’ll spend forever with, are only meant to be in your life for a small amount of time, weather it’s for you to learn sometning from or share lovely experiences , it will shape you so much. And while it hurts right now, you realize just how lucky you are to experience love no matter the cost. Love like grief doesn’t leave, I believe you just grow around it
Pls take care sending you lots of love and hope for your future! 💫🫶